CarolineOh said:I attended a discussion meeting recently at which several Doms expressed the opinion that aftercare was "counterproductive" as it, in their opinion, lessened the impact of their dominance, and that they believed that most subs did not really want aftercare, and thought being left where they are, emotionally, at the end of the scene heightens their feelings of submission.
I wonder if anyone could comment on this view of the issue.
I wonder if this attitude is more prevalent in relationships that do not have love as its foundation/base?