Pre-wedding sex

[Strixaluco]

I was trying to agree with you but wrote it badly.

Well, clarifying questions really are your friend!

You put it more strictly than I did.

 

[stiv837]

Wow. Imagine how smug that guy was, drinking your beer at your wedding reception. amazing that she admitted this to you.

It was years after our wedding when she told me. We were on the verge of splitting up and she started confessing all kinds of things .

 

[BongoGal]

Many years into our marriage my wife admitted to me she had had a fling with an old boyfriend a few days before our wedding.

How did you respond to that? Why did she reveal it?

 

[BongoGal]

Personally, I have fond memories of my exes and have nothing bad to say about them. Any guy would be lucky to have em.

I am glad to say I have been pretty darn lucky with breakups. I'm still fond of most of my old beaus.

 

[TomTeacher19]

No, but I had two incredibly tempting offers within the last couple days before my wedding. Made me think my status somehow made me like a challenge to go for.

 

[Strixaluco]

I am glad to say I have been pretty darn lucky with breakups. I'm still fond of most of my old beaus.

"Choose your exes carefully", I always say. I've managed to do that so far - I'm in good relations with all the living ones. Less luck with the late one

 

[travelenman]

When I was a younger man, I worked part-time as a stripper. Most of the gigs were girls' nights and bachelorette parties. I can confirm there were times when brides-to-be were interested in something new and not opposed to a feel and taste.

 

[stiv837]

How did you respond to that? Why did she reveal it?

We were at some friend's of ours at a party. She disappeared and I found her outside sitting on the stairs that led onto their deck sucking a guy's cock. We left and had a huge fight when we got home. I admitted to her I enjoyed it and I asked if he was the first. She then revealed to me how many guys she had been with since we first got together. Her confession included her fling before our wedding.

 

[BiWifeMyrtleBeach]

It wasn't cheating as in fucking another man, but a long time girlfriend, who was my bridesmaid and I were rocking a 69 in my apartment bedroom the night before.

 

[HampshireBoy]

A woman came on to me the night before my wedding. She said all the last night of freedom stuff.

I didn't do it.

It just didn't feel morally right.

I still don't think that I would do it now.

If I cheat, my wife has to be with me or grant her blessing.

Kinda square, I know.

Very similar, the night before my first wedding I went to my regular pub for a drink and see friends. One of the girls who was also a regular, we'd spoken a few times, challenged me to a game of pool. After we'd played a few games, just talking normally, she asked if I wanted to go home with her for a last night of freedom. It didn't feel right to say yes, so I politely declined. However, I must admit to fantasising a few times "What if?" lol