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While married, I spent probably three full years of my life working with and around sex during pregnancy issues I have some experience here. Since there were issues that continue after the pregnancy, I would say it's closer to the equivalent of 6 or 7 years.
I think if I go back and read through the whole thread I'll probably have lots to say.
I certainly wasn't going to be the celebate for that long of my life. Fortunately, my then wife and lovely mother of my children was one of those women who tends to get horny during pregnancy especially towards the end when there's a lot of pressure on delightfully sensitive bits.
She always struggled with issues regarding her weight and body image issues... having a bit of an eating disorder. Counterintuitively, when she was a little larger (but was supposed to be so as she was carrying my child) she was a little bit more body confident. I would imagine that mileage varies greatly on a woman's self esteem with the changes they go along with pregnancy.
A couple of years ago I met a girl who I thought was attractive and perhaps a little chubby. As we got to talking.... it turns out she was actually quite a quite pregnant, size 0 girl. It was her second pregnancy and her first pregnancy post divorce. It was unplanned and the result of a one night stand. An adopted child herself she couldn't see herself aborting the child.
Prior to becoming pregnant she had a few play partners that she enjoyed spending time with. At the time that I met her they had bowed out, as they felt a little bit weird about being with a pregnant girl especially someone pregnant by someone else. Lots of missing understanding and missing information about pregnant sex and risk to the baby and so forth. The last one who hung in there the longest was a little too gentle for her taste.
Anyway I was pleased to step up to the plate and we had quite a good time on occasion right up until fairly close to when she was ready to deliver.
Anyway my favorite part about pregnant women in general is how uber sensitive they seem to be. They also are very appreciative of the little niceties they need that little back rub or they're swollen feet rubbed or whatever.
I did want to comment briefly on a previous post I didn't have the ability to quote it right now from my phone. I have a good friend here in so called real life whose boyfriend was not as interested in sex after the baby was born. I gave her some helpful suggestions and unfortunately they work otherwise I think I would have myself a fine friend with benefits. The short version is though that he couldn't see himself as banging his hot sexy kinky girlfriend the same way once she was the mother of his child even though she had two older children already.
Some guys are stupid like that.
I do get it though it's basically a variant of the whore/madonna complex.
I think if I go back and read through the whole thread I'll probably have lots to say.
I certainly wasn't going to be the celebate for that long of my life. Fortunately, my then wife and lovely mother of my children was one of those women who tends to get horny during pregnancy especially towards the end when there's a lot of pressure on delightfully sensitive bits.
She always struggled with issues regarding her weight and body image issues... having a bit of an eating disorder. Counterintuitively, when she was a little larger (but was supposed to be so as she was carrying my child) she was a little bit more body confident. I would imagine that mileage varies greatly on a woman's self esteem with the changes they go along with pregnancy.
A couple of years ago I met a girl who I thought was attractive and perhaps a little chubby. As we got to talking.... it turns out she was actually quite a quite pregnant, size 0 girl. It was her second pregnancy and her first pregnancy post divorce. It was unplanned and the result of a one night stand. An adopted child herself she couldn't see herself aborting the child.
Prior to becoming pregnant she had a few play partners that she enjoyed spending time with. At the time that I met her they had bowed out, as they felt a little bit weird about being with a pregnant girl especially someone pregnant by someone else. Lots of missing understanding and missing information about pregnant sex and risk to the baby and so forth. The last one who hung in there the longest was a little too gentle for her taste.
Anyway I was pleased to step up to the plate and we had quite a good time on occasion right up until fairly close to when she was ready to deliver.
Anyway my favorite part about pregnant women in general is how uber sensitive they seem to be. They also are very appreciative of the little niceties they need that little back rub or they're swollen feet rubbed or whatever.
I did want to comment briefly on a previous post I didn't have the ability to quote it right now from my phone. I have a good friend here in so called real life whose boyfriend was not as interested in sex after the baby was born. I gave her some helpful suggestions and unfortunately they work otherwise I think I would have myself a fine friend with benefits. The short version is though that he couldn't see himself as banging his hot sexy kinky girlfriend the same way once she was the mother of his child even though she had two older children already.
Some guys are stupid like that.
I do get it though it's basically a variant of the whore/madonna complex.
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