Prostitution

[shy slave]

Would you ever sell yourself to another person for money?

Came close but chickened out, purely on the basis it would be just my luck to end up dead and my sons (2&4 at the time) would grow up with the wrong message about why I did what I did (given to them by my parents )

Would you ever pay money to buy another person?

If I had the money and needed an escort before I met Master then yes I probably would, I paid my ex to go is that prostitution in reverse?

Does "forced" prostitution play a factor?

If Master decided to 'sell' me I would need to understand why He wanted to do this.
Without a clear reason to work with, not sure about the answer. However He does 'own' me so not sure about how much my opinion would count anyway.
Therefore I am back to the reason, if its not a clear reason then He is not the Master I thought He was, or I need to be owned by.

I know that sounds like 'D' talk but we have agreed that He would have 'real reason for a task, not a 'because I said so' reason.

Edited to add
If anyone else wanted to 'force' me?? why the hell would they want a flabby 36yr old, when they could 'force' a younger, better model

 

[Decadent Switch]

Hello
Another interesting topic that was just brought to my attention. I love what TechnoDivinitas (might have spelled your name wrong - sorry) had to say. Especially in that first reply - it was spot on.
So... speaking as a man - and a hetero-sexual man - I would not say that I'd never do it. If I fall on tough enough times and the only way out is getting down on my knees and sucking some cock, well... I'd swallow my pride and whatever else came my way. And would I hate myself afterwards? Would I be overcome with self-loathing? Would this cause me some kind of psychological damage as I came to terms with it? I don't know. I have no doubts that I'd be far from happy with the situation, but I think I'd cope.
As for being pimped out by a domme? Well, truthfully that's a bit of a fantasy of mine. OK, I'll admit that in the confines of my imagination, there's a few parameters installed, but still... to think that my body is worth someone else's money is a real turn-on. I like the idea of being auctioned off, in fact. To be stood up on a stage, almost naked - shown off - having someone point out my attributes and then take away whatever final article of clothing I am wearing on the demands of the audience. To be brought to erection. All of that. And finally, to be led away by my buyer, knowing that she'd found financial value in me. That is incredibly hot.
It's like - temporarily - becoming someone else's property, in a way. At the end of the transaction, however, you are your own property once more - or the property of your Master, Mistress, whatever is your regular situation. And it gets dressed up in questions of morality and decency, when so much of the time that only blurs the real issues.
Where I come from (Edinburgh, in Scotland) prostitution isn't legal, but a blind eye gets turned. There are saunas and massage parlours and as long as the transactions are kept behind closed doors, they are accepted if not condoned. In other parts of the town (and an ex-girlfriend once drove me down one of these streets to demonstated it) there are more desperate girls walking the streets. Further down the foodchain, really. That was what I found sad. These girls didn't have the solidarity of a sauna or massage parlour to back them up if things turned nasty. And the sad reality is that they are very vulnerable and there are people who will prey on that.
So... it's not the prostitution I have a problem with, but the risks that go along with it in some settings. For some people, the only commodity they have is their own bodies. Why is it that someone who use her (or his) physical attributes is accused of flaunting (and worse) when someone who has better mental attributes isn't? We all simply have different strengths and we should be ready to use them as we see fit, without the moral majority imposing their own philosophies. So I think prostitution should be legalised. That would be a great thing. Recognise it as a valid career choice and set up governing bodies to give additional support and advice. Set up education programmes. There are lots of things that can be done to help, rahter than hinder.
Oh, by the way... I'm about to "cut and paste" an extract from a great novel by a great writer. The man is called Christopher Brookmyre and this is the first two paragraphs of a book called "The sacred art of stealing." Heh heh heh. It's very funny.
Graham

Was there anything quite so under-rated in this shallow, plastic, global-corporate, tall-skinny-latte, kiddy-meal-and-free-toy, united-colours-of-fuck-you-too world, than a good old-fashioned, no-frills, retail blow job?
It was one of the very few consumer transactions left in which you realy did get what you paid for, no fake smiles, no on-the-door greeters, no aspirational lifestyle kudos; just functional, dispassionate cock-sucking for a pre-agreed fee

 

[D's mariposa]

Some interesting reads:

"Working" by Delores French. Prostitue and politically active pain in the ass. (aka PAPA, and in this case, whenever I use PAPA, it's a good thing. I like PAPA's)

"Sex Work" an anthology edited by Frederique Delacost and Priscilla Alexander. An anthology of fiction and non fiction work by sex workers.

"Brothel, the Mustang Ranch and it's ladies" by Alexa Albert. Self explanatory

"Brothels of Nevada: candid views of America's legal sex indusrty" by Timothy Hursley and Alexa Albert

You might say I've done a bit of reading on the subject. I've read some others, but those are the first few that come to mind.

I'm for decriminalising prostitution. I want to see it decriminalised. It's my feeling that if a person (people seem to forget that guys are prostitutes, too.) is willing to be liscenced and forgo regular medical examination, then they should be allowed to legally work as a sex worker.

Would I do it? Probably. I've always managed to support myself otherwise, but if need be, I'd do it.

Would I pay for it? Probably not. It's jsut not my thing. Sex and affection are so mixed up together with me that if I wasn't getting it from a loving PYL, I'd rather do it myself.

If you mean as in, D "forcing" me to do it, probably not. It's not a big enough kink for either one of us.

 

[AvaAdore]

i dont think i would ever sell myself for money, but if i really needed the money, i wouldnt mind stripping or lapdancing or whatever.

would i buy anyone? i dont think so. i have never felt the need to. though if i was an old dude with tons of money, i would definately pay sexy young women in skimpy clothing to hang around all day, with a bit of fun every so often in between.

forced prostitution sounds like a turn-on, but only in an acted out scene with someone either me or my partner knows. the real thing? no.

 

[shy slave]

I agree with Decandent switch and the other axis of eveil.
De-criminalisation would make it safer,

In UK, Decandent is right a blind eye is usually turned. As I understand it, In England and Wales (sScotland have different legislation in several areas) sex with strangers is not illegal but sex with strangers for gain is.
It is the transaction in the street and offering the service to unknown persons that is illegal. For example if you were to open your window and offer passerbys sex for cash that is the soliciting element even though your are inside they are not. In order to gain custom you had to approach a person you did not know 'who was going about their daily business.' Although massage parlours are often a psydonym for sex shops, they have to offer services that can 'gainfully' be paid for. Massage is a popular choice because you need to be naked or partly clothed. If they used an accountants as a psydonymn you do not need to be partly clothed to have your accounts done.
Ok so most of you know or could of guessed it, but police often 'turn a blind eye' because they have not ACTUALLY witnessed solicting taking place. It is difficult to give more than a warning or a fine unless it is repeated offences.

 

[Decadent Switch]

Wow, what an unusual experience!
I got specifically referred to and agreed with. That doesn't often happen. Normally I'm the one to stir up controversy and unite everyone else in hatred.
Heh heh heh
Maybe I'm not trying hard enough
But thank you, Shy Slave. It was really nice to read your agreement and to get an elaboration on what I'd said. Very informative - I'll remember that
Graham

 

[shy slave]

Wow, what an unusual experience!
I got specifically referred to and agreed with. That doesn't often happen. Normally I'm the one to stir up controversy and unite everyone else in hatred.
Heh heh heh
Maybe I'm not trying hard enough
But thank you, Shy Slave. It was really nice to read your agreement and to get an elaboration on what I'd said. Very informative - I'll remember that
Graham

Don't come looking for bail money when you get arrested for paying for a goods other than a massage, nor does it count if you tell her your name first (then your not a stranger) and then haggle the price of a hand job!!!

I will deny. deny, deny and one last piece of advice, next time your in Edinburgh, if a guy called 'Eddie' offers you a night at his mums house on the hill, as she is in London for the weekend ~

JUST SAY NO!!!!

 

[Decadent Switch]

Oh, yeah? And who's Eddie? A friend of yours?
You'll have to tell me more, 'cos all you've done now is pique my curiosity, so if DO meet him, I'm going to do the exact opposite of your advice. Unless you give me a specific reason not to. Yeah, that's the kind of person I am. This thing about curiosity killing cats, for example. I've never learnt from their mistakes.
Anyway, maybe I'll quote Brookmyre's "retail blow job"statement at the court case.
Heh heh heh
Graham

 

[RavenSpirit2k4]

You see what I deal with? He's a troublemaker, a tease and a terrible flirt. He's devious, stubborn and rebellious - just ask him, he'll tell you. I don't know what to do with him.

 

[Decadent Switch]

Yeah, but that's just the way you like it. You're not the sort that could cope with a complete sycophant

 

[RavenSpirit2k4]

He's figured me out! Now there's going to be trouble.

 

[shy slave]

Pagen is Decandent Yours???

No wonder you need the gun.

Your not thinking of letting him escape from Scotland are you??

Not sure they will let him in anywhere else.

I mean the English built that wall for a reason you know.

I climbed over it when I was very young and only sneak back into Scotland for a 'look-see' posing as a tourist (its the alien english accent).

Decandent that would be Eddie as in E.Winsor !!!! men*sigh*

 

[RavenSpirit2k4]

Re: Pagen is Decandent Yours???

No wonder you need the gun.

Your not thinking of letting him escape from Scotland are you??

Not sure they will let him in anywhere else.

I mean the English built that wall for a reason you know.

I climbed over it when I was very young and only sneak back into Scotland for a 'look-see' posing as a tourist (its the alien english accent).

Decandent that would be Eddie as in E.Winsor !!!! men*sigh*

Check the link in my sig to see his pics.

Indeed, I'm sure the English built that wall for a good reason... now.

 

[ownedsubgal]

have i ever been pimped/whored out? yes. when it happened, i had no choice in the matter so i guess it could be considered forced.

 

[snowy ciara]

small hijack..

Decandent's pics.. Now there's a reason for switching if I ever saw one..

end hijack

Back to on topicness.

Have I ever sold myself?

No.

Bought it from someone?

No

If a Dom/me made me? Safely yes. No life threatening sex for me, thanks.

 

[bound]

i dont think i would ever sell myself for money, but if i really needed the money, i wouldnt mind stripping or lapdancing or whatever.

Isn't it still selling your body? Just because there is no penetration doesn't change the act.

You're selling gratification, they're buying.

 

[AvaAdore]

Isn't it still selling your body? Just because there is no penetration doesn't change the act.

You're selling gratification, they're buying.

i guess...but it's more the intimacy of the whole thing i wouldnt (or couldnt) well. that and you cant really catch anything nasty while doing a lap dance.

 

[shy slave]

Re: Re: Pagen is Decandent Yours???

Check the link in my sig to see his pics.

Indeed, I'm sure the English built that wall for a good reason... now.

another small hijack
OMG Pagen

He is beautiful!!

snowy is right he IS a reason to switch....actually I know I said 'small' hijack....oh never mind its rude thoughts and British humour.


Pagen if decandent ever needs to visit England and needs looking after in a foriegn country....I promise to take VERY good care of him for you....as a friend of course

I won't let snowy near him she way too young to handle him

I could check him out make sure he is good.
Now you must admit that a true friend lol

No, pagen ~ put the gun down I was joking, really it was just a joke...

*on knees begging* a joke, really it was just a joke...

 

[snowy ciara]

shy said

I won't let snowy near him she way too young to handle him

But I'd love to give him, er it, that old college try!

 

[RavenSpirit2k4]

Hmmmm... how much is having Graham's service worth to you?

 

[snowy ciara]

Lets see, I got about 100 yen from when we went to Japan, about 25CAD in the bank, numerous soccer trophies and a few ounces of pocket lint...

Erm, looks like me and shy are going to have to combine resources and share our toys, or find a street corner to set up shop..

Unless we could do an even exchange.. You get shy for a few hours and I get him...

 

[RavenSpirit2k4]

Lets see, I got about 100 yen from when we went to Japan, about 25CAD in the bank, numerous soccer trophies and a few ounces of pocket lint...

Erm, looks like me and shy are going to have to combine resources and share our toys, or find a street corner to set up shop..

Unless we could do an even exchange.. You get shy for a few hours and I get him...

Well, you can keep the pocket lint, and I'll take the rest. Baby needs a new riding crop!

Now, if I can make sure he's really good to you, can I have shy for a while as well?

~rubbing hands together~

 

[Kajira Callista]

Hmmmm... how much is having Graham's service worth to you?

my services to you? fair exchange?
edited to add.....i come with my own toys.

 

[RavenSpirit2k4]

my services to you? fair exchange?
edited to add.....i come with my own toys.

You're on.

(Woohoo!!!)

 

[Kajira Callista]

You're on.

(Woohoo!!!)