vanessa143
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Punishments and safewords
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Kind of hard to use a safe word when your gagged.
I'm in the don't need one any more camp. He can read me and I trust him. But I think with a new relationship you do need a safe word. As a learning tool more than anything. A safe word instructs you that a limit has been reached and prevents ugliness later.
As for use in punishments I couldn't say. I guess if the sub didn't know what the punishment was going to be then it might be a good idea. However if there are agreed rules with agreed consequences then they've no cause to us one.
I'm in the don't need one any more camp. He can read me and I trust him. But I think with a new relationship you do need a safe word. As a learning tool more than anything. A safe word instructs you that a limit has been reached and prevents ugliness later.
As for use in punishments I couldn't say. I guess if the sub didn't know what the punishment was going to be then it might be a good idea. However if there are agreed rules with agreed consequences then they've no cause to us one.
Lizzie_Borden
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Heh, that's about the only time I *do* have a signal.
Specially during hayfever season, or when I have a cold, or any other time I'm likely to choke on my own grossness.
Dearelliot
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I like that my Mistress ignores my safe word...kinda....she doesnt stop...as she says...who is in charge here...you? She feels she should push the envelope...and although she hears my safeword...I will not know if she is going to pay attention or simply ignore my plea...it is at that point that I feel vulnerable...I do know she will stop...but then again Im not sure..
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