Pure, come here. Sit down a moment. Let's talk.

[Siren]

Re: Stop it folks!

 

[Ebonyfire]

Re: Re: Stop it folks!

That is not true. And if you read my posts you would know it.

I only defend MYSELF and my opinions. It is when I am personally attacked or dragged into the mire, that I go anywhere and od anything.

So you must have me confused iwth someone else.

I agree with whomever I agree with. That is called givng my opinon, not defending anyone.


Ebony

I posted my opinion because when someone over at GB or in playground belittles this forum you ( figurative you) run there to defend the forum and the people..........
yet you are acting as if I am wrong to do it here,
and that to state my own opinion on how the negative statements made about GB seem hypocritical to me is inappropriate for me to comment on.

As for this happening over and over again..........this is the first time I have said anything about this in BDSM. So to tell me to stop or I am arguing is both disingenious and controlling.

As for being tired of debating, (in the subsequent post):

'It is his opinion, Siren, one I happen to agree with. So what? Are you gonna argue with Me next? Let me give you (and others ) a hint. Do not bother. I never debate anything, especially on a fricking porn site, for God's sake.

Why does everything have to become a big debate? '

Everything is a debate because that is what this venue of the internet leads itself to have as a form of communication. Discussions, debates, etc.

what form of communication is it that you desire?
Lecturing and agreement only?
How limiting that would be indeed.

 

[Ebonyfire]

Re: Re: Re: Stop it folks!

That is not true. And if you read my posts you would know it.

I only defend MYSELF and my opinions. It is when I am personally attacked or dragged into the mire, that I go anywhere and od anything.

So you must have me confused iwth someone else.

I agree with whomever I agree with. That is called givng my opinon, not defending anyone.

Everything is not debate. This is a discussion forum, not the Gb. I stand by my post. Deal with it.


Ebony

 

[Siren]

Everything is not debate. This is a discussion forum, not the Gb. I stand by my post.

 

[lark sparrow]

Objection!!!

Badgering the witness!

 

[Ebonyfire]

Re: Everything is not debate. This is a discussion forum, not the Gb. I stand by my post.

Oh I think you have already decided to argue, but I am not biting. All I said is that if debate is your focus, why not do in it in the GB, and not the BDSM forum where BDSM discussion is the focus and not defense of a forum.

I think that was pretty clear.

No one here will argue your right to post your opinions. Could they at least be about BDSM?


Ebony

So am I to understand then, that this forum is for discussion only and not debate?


IS that what you are telling me Ebonyfire?

Can you direct me to where that rule is?
As I will not willingly break a rule in a forum, and if discussion is the only acceptable way to communicate in this forum, I will honor it,,,,,,,,,even if I think it is limiting and unproductive.



I am not seeking any argument with you Ebonyfire, and in fact have stated my opinion in as generalized terms with (figurative yous) as possible. You seem to think that I am trying to engage you in a debate, I understand your position,...........but I am also aware of my right to state my opinon and to respond should I decide to.........
if you subsequently respond, then you have decided to engage in a debate with me........it is not correct to assume I am arguing with you or debating with you, when you hold the power to decide when to continue the debate with me.

I enjoy your postings but that does not mean that I will cease to post my take on situations or my opinions on certain statements made........just like I celebrate your right to state your opinions......it is a two way street, I would hope.

 

[Ebonyfire]

Note to Siren

Yes is a discussion forum, about BDSM.

Eb

 

[Astrid]

Okay..so I show up today to do some lurking at both forums (GB and here) and I'll tell ya, this forum is really argumentative lately.

And I just have to say that the phrase "Fake Drama" really cracks me up.

Why do people say they don't like drama when it's all most of us create on any given day?

It's the threads with the absolute most drama available that have the highest view counts.

We say what we want and we call it our opinion.
Well, yeah. What else would you call what your mind thinks?

Someone else says something we don't agree with and they are spewing ucky drama all over the place.

Really, it's just a bunch of people talking, you know?

 

[Ebonyfire]

Okay..so I show up today to do some lurking at both forums (GB and here) and I'll tell ya, this forum is really argumentative lately.

And I just have to say that the phrase "Fake Drama" really cracks me up.

Why do people say they don't like drama when it's all most of us create on any given day?

It's the threads with the absolute most drama available that have the highest view counts.

We say what we want and we call it our opinion.
Well, yeah. What else would you call what your mind thinks?

Someone else says something we don't agree with and they are spewing ucky drama all over the place.

Really, it's just a bunch of people talking, you know?

Talking about BDSM, I hope.

Ebony

 

[Siren]

Re: Note to Siren

 

[Ebonyfire]

Siren

If I misinterpreted your defense of yourself, then I apologize to you. You have been posting such wonderful information.

I am mostly reacting to the atmosphere of confrontation that does not impart any information about BDSM to the posters, readers, and lurkers here.

We as a forum must never lose sight that there are people here who post for information about BDSM...not philosophy or politics.

Eb

 

[Siren]

 

[Sandia]

And you know this how, Sandia?

I took a peek under his dress.

 

[A Desert Rose]

I took a peek under his dress.

Empty your pm box please, Sandia.

 

[P. B. Walker]

Man... everyone else must get a ton of PMs... I don't think my box has ever been full. LOL.

PBW "Sniff... nobody loves me..."

 

[Sandia]

If I do, can I peek under your dress too?

 

[A Desert Rose]

If I do, can I peek under your dress too?

I would expect nothing less, hon. ~smile~

 

[A Desert Rose]

Man... everyone else must get a ton of PMs... I don't think my box has ever been full. LOL.

PBW "Sniff... nobody loves me..."

No one loves me either..... Let's run off together, whaddaya say?

 

[P. B. Walker]

No one loves me either..... Let's run off together, whaddaya say?

Where shall we go? Some place warm I hope... and sunny... with nude beaches. LOL.

PBW

 

[Lancecastor]

So what's the deal?

Is Ishmael courting Pure?

Lance

 

[Ebonyfire]

Man... everyone else must get a ton of PMs... I don't think my box has ever been full. LOL.

PBW "Sniff... nobody loves me..."

Oh puleeze!

You know I love you and your ass...shall I fill your box?

Eb

 

[Ebonyfire]

So what's the deal?

Is Ishmael courting Pure?

Lance

Even more important, will we be invited to the wedding?

Eb

 

[Lancecastor]

Even more important, will we be invited to the wedding?

Eb

I might have been wrong about Ish & Pure.....look what I found on a napkin in the LitCafeteria...

 

[MissTaken]

Geesh, Lance.

You must be really bored!

Actually, what is that nebulous thing in the gal's left hand?

Inquiring minds want to know.

 

[P. B. Walker]

Oh puleeze!

You know I love you and your ass...shall I fill your box?

Eb

Wait... I thought filling the box was the man's job. LOL. Just teasin...

I don't think "my box" needs filling... cus I have a feeling that is a euphamism for my ass. LOL.

PBW "Ya know my virgin ass loves ya back... way back from here that is. LOL"