Q & A and conversation for CDs, sissies, tomboys, and queers

[AlexBailey]

(Thanks, Dawn!)


One of my regrets from high school is turning down this one sweet girl who asked me if I was "spoken for." Lol, it sounded old fashioned 35 years ago too.

She was a cute and very boyish tomboy. I was platonic friends with her girly twin sister and got to know her peripherally through groups of friends. She was a grade behind me and had some social difficulties, often teased and ostracized by guys and girls, but I liked her as a friend and would hang out and invite her to go places with the gang.

I didn't notice - or maybe I just tried not to see it when she started developing a crush on me, until some other guy friends pointed it out. It was the first time I was teased for being more femme than a girl I was hanging out with. I was completely in the closet about my love for cross dressing at the time, but I had admired her willingness to present however she wanted to, even though people gave her shit about it - as I saw it, she was 100% authentic where I felt like a confused poser.

School dances were not usually taken very seriously, but some friends had set this one up with a retro dance contest theme. Our group all showed up en-mass rather than on dates so we were all free to hang out with whoever. My tomboy friend showed up all fancied up in a dress, with her hair and makeup done - it was an amazing difference, people were saying, "Who is that? No way!"

I wasn't planning to enter but she asked me to partner for the dance contests. We had a blast and really hit it off, making it to the final round coming in second, winning a dinner for two or something like that. It was later that night that she asked.

Her eyes were bright and her smile was warm and hopeful but I hadn't even considered being with her. I didn't feel it for her. I fumbled for words and said something like, "I'm not really looking for a girlfriend right now..."

Her smile vanished. She turned away and left the dance. I don't think she ever said more than a dozen words to me after that. Her style changed, she cut her hair short and went full butch for the rest of the school year. She had some troubles at home and moved away to live with relatives in another state. Her twin told me later that she had changed to a boy's name and had begun transitioning at a new school.


I know that it wasn't my responsibility in any way, but I have thought of her/him often over the years. So many choices. Adolescence is such a rough time, I really wish I could have been a closer friend and been available for them to confide in me at the time... the trouble was that I was a bit of a mess myself, but we might have connected better if we could have shared our feelings of dysphoria with each other.

I recently drove by my old high school and saw a pride banner sponsored by the campus LGBTQIA+ club. It's nice to think that these days kids like us have some support.

 

[AlexBailey]

If you have a thing for lycra swimsuits and leotards and such, check out Hiro Gato.


https://hirogato.com/

"Important Note: Although we show the product on female model, all items are available for men and women, sizes go up to Male XXL or made to measure"


They do stretch-velvet, satin, metallic, wild prints...

They understand fetish and make stuff to order. Their leotards can be custom ordered with turtlenecks, different kinds of hoods, extra zippers, a 'male crotch' or even a penis sheath if desired. I haven't ordered anything from them yet but it's on my list.

Anyone tried them?

 

[dawndavis66]

If you have a thing for lycra swimsuits and leotards and such, check out Hiro Gato.


https://hirogato.com/

"Important Note: Although we show the product on female model, all items are available for men and women, sizes go up to Male XXL or made to measure"


They do stretch-velvet, satin, metallic, wild prints...

They understand fetish and make stuff to order. Their leotards can be custom ordered with turtlenecks, different kinds of hoods, extra zippers, a 'male crotch' or even a penis sheath if desired. I haven't ordered anything from them yet but it's on my list.

Anyone tried them?

Thanks for sharing. I am intrigued.

 

[ChasBozwell30]

Great thread. So interesting. I've been bicurious for many years, and also interested in sissy play/crossdressing. for me it's been a matter of finding someone to play iwth, to go to the next step. Other thoughts and fantasies have got mixed in, such as submission and humiliation.
I think all of these things have been a part of me, somewhere, bubbling underneath. It's been fascinating to explore my fantasies as i get older, and get to know myself better...

 

[AlexBailey]

I think all of these things have been a part of me, somewhere, bubbling underneath. It's been fascinating to explore my fantasies as i get older, and get to know myself better...

Welcome to the thread Chas,


Becoming more open to fantasies in mid-life seems to be a common thing. Sometimes it culminates in a 'mid-life crisis,' where people turn their back on everything they previously held dear, but there are also many who say it is just an embracing of something that was already part of their personality that had been repressed for many years.

I relate to that in many ways. I've spent most of my life largely in the closet yet with a somewhat hybrid style, enough that most people who have recently found out that I'm now out as non-binary and a cross dresser aren't usually surprised.



* Have there been 'tells' that you've put out there that people may have picked up on?

* Are there things that you have been doing but were in denial about from your own personality that you now acknowledge and embrace, things that have quietly fed your secret desires and interests?

 

[dawndavis66]

* Have there been 'tells' that you've put out there that people may have picked up on?

Not sure if this is a tell or not. In my work life where I am full-on male, I often hear women colleagues complain about how uncomfortable it is to wear heels all day long. How lucky guys are not to have to wear heels to work. I often agree and share that I normally only wear heels on weekends. A laugh is shared between us at this "joke".
Dawn

 

[ChasBozwell30]

Welcome to the thread Chas,


Becoming more open to fantasies in mid-life seems to be a common thing. Sometimes it culminates in a 'mid-life crisis,' where people turn their back on everything they previously held dear, but there are also many who say it is just an embracing of something that was already part of their personality that had been repressed for many years.

I relate to that in many ways. I've spent most of my life largely in the closet yet with a somewhat hybrid style, enough that most people who have recently found out that I'm now out as non-binary and a cross dresser aren't usually surprised.



* Have there been 'tells' that you've put out there that people may have picked up on?

* Are there things that you have been doing but were in denial about from your own personality that you now acknowledge and embrace, things that have quietly fed your secret desires and interests?

I see it very much as embracing something that was there and becoming more open minded to acknowledging it.

I'm not sure about tells, but i'm sure i have a submissive side. i might have jokingly played into that at times. I wonder, if a guy's joked about me, what expression i might have reacted with. if a girl joked about spanking a guy, or degrading him, did i ever look excited? and did i secretly wish people noticed these things and picked up on them? what exactly do i think they'd do then...?!

 

[Crios]

Moisturizer

Hope this isn't off-topic but I am curious as to what other gurls use to moisturize their pubic area after shaving. I'd shave there everyday but don't want to risk the irritation, especially if I'm not moisturizing.

Thanks!

 

[dawndavis66]

Hope this isn't off-topic but I am curious as to what other gurls use to moisturize their pubic area after shaving. I'd shave there everyday but don't want to risk the irritation, especially if I'm not moisturizing.

Thanks!

I wax about every 5-6 weeks. But between waxings and as the pubes come in, I shave about every other day until about a week before the next wax appt and I let it grow for the waxing. On those shave days, I use the same shave lotion that I use on my face. On days I don't shave I moisturize with the same body lotion I am using on my legs.
Dawn

 

[AlexBailey]

Hope this isn't off-topic but I am curious as to what other gurls use to moisturize their pubic area after shaving. I'd shave there everyday but don't want to risk the irritation, especially if I'm not moisturizing.

Thanks!

That's not off topic here at all.

My wife is very into natural aloe soaps and I use them primarily for any shaving - haven't used shaving cream for decades. Aloe gel seems to work particularly well while shaving and after, though I have to say that I rarely shave my pubes - I prefer the smoother feel of hair remover.


Regarding tells:

I drop them all the time, and I may be letting wishful thinking run a bit when I hear them from other people, recently I overheard a couple who was window shopping. The man saw a dress in a store front and said, "Oh, that's cute." His wife said, "For me or for you?" He laughed and asked, "What do you think?" Hmmm...

My wife and I have similar conversations all the time.

 

[Crios]

That's not off topic here at all.

My wife is very into natural aloe soaps and I use them primarily for any shaving - haven't used shaving cream for decades. Aloe gel seems to work particularly well while shaving and after, though I have to say that I rarely shave my pubes - I prefer the smoother feel of hair remover.


Regarding tells:

I drop them all the time, and I may be letting wishful thinking run a bit when I hear them from other people, recently I overheard a couple who was window shopping. The man saw a dress in a store front and said, "Oh, that's cute." His wife said, "For me or for you?" He laughed and asked, "What do you think?" Hmmm...

My wife and I have similar conversations all the time.

What hair remover do you use? Is it specifically for the sensitive skin of balls and cock?

Just an observation - the forum seems pretty quiet today.

 

[AlexBailey]

What hair remover do you use? Is it specifically for the sensitive skin of balls and cock?

Just an observation - the forum seems pretty quiet today.

I’ve used Nair with aloe with no problems. The only time I’ve had trouble is when Ive left it on too long before showering. Just don’t try to get everything in one session.



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It’s funny how the forum ebbs and flows - the same is true for posting and reading of stories. Sometimes my stories go days with only a few views and then all of a sudden I’ll get a bunch of hits. Haven’t found any logic to it yet.

 

[stargame]

I’ve used Nair with aloe with no problems. The only time I’ve had trouble is when Ive left it on too long before showering. Just don’t try to get everything in one session.



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It’s funny how the forum ebbs and flows - the same is true for posting and reading of stories. Sometimes my stories go days with only a few views and then all of a sudden I’ll get a bunch of hits. Haven’t found any logic to it yet. :confusion:

I feel obligated to be smooth and clean.
Fresh panties too.

 

[Crios]

I’ve used Nair with aloe with no problems. The only time I’ve had trouble is when Ive left it on too long before showering. Just don’t try to get everything in one session.



———
It’s funny how the forum ebbs and flows - the same is true for posting and reading of stories. Sometimes my stories go days with only a few views and then all of a sudden I’ll get a bunch of hits. Haven’t found any logic to it yet. :confusion:

Thanks!!

 

[AlexBailey]

I have'nt tried them but this stuff is Super Hot!

Right? The biggest problem I have is deciding which design, fabric, and color I want to try first! I like the logo and the placement too - definitely a fetish trigger for me.

I feel obligated to be smooth and clean.
Fresh panties too.

Hey babygurl,

How many drawers full of panties do you have?

 

[stargame]

Right? The biggest problem I have is deciding which design, fabric, and color I want to try first! I like the logo and the placement too - definitely a fetish trigger for me.





Hey babygurl,

How many drawers full of panties do you have?

I think the last count was 35 different thongs, panties, little shorts.
But a gurl can't have enough

 

[AlexBailey]

I think the last count was 35 different thongs, panties, little shorts.
But a gurl can't have enough

Lol! Don’t forget your lacy body stockings…

 

[stargame]

Lol! Don’t forget your lacy body stockings…

Oh yes. Of course, I have 3 of those.
And I shouldn't forget my prom dresses.

 

[AlexBailey]

Oh yes. Of course, I have 3 of those.
And I shouldn't forget my prom dresses.

If you were mine we’d have a collection of kinky bondage stuff too.

 

[stargame]

If you were mine we’d have a collection of kinky bondage stuff too.

Ohhhh, as long as I am the object of your collection

 

[AlexBailey]

Alright, I've got to give this story a shout out!


https://www.literotica.com/s/the-looking-glass-3

The Looking Glass
-The Birth of Addiction
By Son_of_Battles

25.1k words. The author has some very highly rated CD stories. It won a 2020 quarantine edition trophy.

It's definitely among my all-time favorites.



Anyone got a great find to share?

 

[Crios]

Alright, I've got to give this story a shout out!


https://www.literotica.com/s/the-looking-glass-3

The Looking Glass
-The Birth of Addiction
By Son_of_Battles

25.1k words. The author has some very highly rated CD stories. It won a 2020 quarantine edition trophy.

It's definitely among my all-time favorites.



Anyone got a great find to share?

Wasn't that story the Lit Transgender & Crossdressers story of 2020? It is a wonderful story.

 

[AlexBailey]

Wasn't that story the Lit Transgender & Crossdressers story of 2020? It is a wonderful story.

It was the 2020 quarantine winner. Brilliant storyline, well told. I've had a few dreams inspired by it.

 

[AlexBailey]

I was cleaning and vacuuming out my truck at a self-carwash yesterday. I was leaning in under the steering wheel and scouring some gunk that had spilled in the center console when I heard a couple of wolf-whistles form nearby. I didn’t think much of it and kept on scrubbing.

Then a big 4x4 pulled up in the next stall with a noisy exhaust and the stereo blasting. The engine shut off and the stereo turned down. A man’s voice said, “Hey, how are you doing?” in a very warm tone. I figured it was someone I know, so I wriggled out of the truck and stood to face him.

His face went white. He said, “Shit, sorry. I thought you were someone else!” He fired up his engine, cranked his stereo and peeled out down the road.

Lol. I wonder what he was thinking.

 

[Crios]

I was cleaning and vacuuming out my truck at a self-carwash yesterday. I was leaning in under the steering wheel and scouring some gunk that had spilled in the center console when I heard a couple of wolf-whistles form nearby. I didn’t think much of it and kept on scrubbing.

Then a big 4x4 pulled up in the next stall with a noisy exhaust and the stereo blasting. The engine shut off and the stereo turned down. A man’s voice said, “Hey, how are you doing?” in a very warm tone. I figured it was someone I know, so I wriggled out of the truck and stood to face him.

His face went white. He said, “Shit, sorry. I thought you were someone else!” He fired up his engine, cranked his stereo and peeled out down the road.

Lol. I wonder what he was thinking.

What were you wearing, Alex?