Question for the women

[Beck31]

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[echologue]

Bear with me if I lecture too much but I'm both a nurse who has researched this a lot and

someone who rarely had a satisfying orgasm until just a couple years ago and I really want to

share my thoughts and experiences. Obviously, becoming orgasmic, often multiply, has been life

changing for me.

So, statistically as many as 70% of women don't have vaginal orgasms. That doesn't necessarily

mean they couldn't just that they haven't before. The orgasms seem to be completely different in

nature. In my experience, clitoral orgasms are very focused at the source and then on peaking,

the sensations blossom and spread out from there. Vaginal orgasms are more generalized, it's

almost hard to pinpoint the source of the sensation, and tend to rise, peak, plateau, and almost

immediately start building again toward the next peak if stimulation continues. For me, often this

is associated with a whole body sensitivity, I crave all kinds of sensation ( heat, cold, hair

tugging, scraping on my skin with beard, teeth, or fingernails, whatever) and have reached new

peaks from almost any type of stimulation.

Apparently, there are several vaginal "sweet spots," (I just love the way that sounds) many of

which remain unexplored..... people, we need more dedicated frontiersmen out there,lol. The one

that seems to cause squirting/ ejaculation is near the urethra, kind of between it and the internal

portion of the clit. Experts disagree about the whole female ejaculation thing but when tested, it

contains some amount of urine since it comes out the urethra and, also, some kind of saline carrier

fluid, much like from a guy's prostate. When stimulated enough, it squirts. This can happen before

or during a peak of sensation/ orgasm. This fluid is watery and has a totally different feel, taste,

and smell than our lubricating fluids and often lead to a need for extra lubricant since it washes

away the bodies own lubricating fluid. I enjoy the taste of my vaginal secretions but not of my fluid

that gushes out.

(From Wiki: It required the detailed anatomical work of Helen O'Connell[36] from 1998 onwards to

more properly elucidate the relationships between the different anatomical structures involved. As

she observes, the perineal urethra is embedded in the anterior vaginal wall and is surrounded by

erectile tissue in all directions except posteriorly where it relates to the vaginal wall. "The distal

vagina, clitoris, and urethra form an integrated entity covered superficially by the vulval skin and

its epithelial features. These parts have a shared vasculature and nerve supply and during sexual

stimulation respond as a unit")

Some women like this kind of stimulation, some don't. Personally, I think it has a lot to do

with whether or not you like to play on that pleasure/pain edge which changes how you perceive

sensations. If you think it's all good, then it is!

I would really like to hear about other people's experiences with all this. Thanks...

The Hite Report also is a wonderful reference for the female orgasmic response.

 

[eric60red]

I come the hardest from my clit being sucked and played with.
I love it when a man worships it...I will worship him too, I can get off like that.

Cliterol worship, is one of the arts more guys should learn about, some dont like the taste I know, but the rewards of having your mouth filled with warm sticky jiuce as she moans, and pushes herself up to your mouth, after you have been sucking, licking, tasting, blowing, fingering and smelling her for at least an hour is so rewarding. The she wants more and more

Who wants to cum for me?

 

[andria306]

Cliterol worship, is one of the arts more guys should learn about, some dont like the taste I know, but the rewards of having your mouth filled with warm sticky jiuce as she moans, and pushes herself up to your mouth, after you have been sucking, licking, tasting, blowing, fingering and smelling her for at least an hour is so rewarding. The she wants more and more

Who wants to cum for me?

I agree ... would luv to spend time with a guy (or girl) worshipping my clitty

 

[stujack66]

I agree ... would luv to spend time with a guy (or girl) worshipping my clitty

andria...I would be more than happy to service you in this way!!!

Not sure why more guys don't help the fairer sex out in this way. I LOVE to do it!

 

[Corbal]

Click here for more info

The big bang is the moment when the uterus, vagina, and anus contract simultaneously at 0.8-second intervals. A small orgasm may consist of three to five contractions; a biggie, 10 to 15. Many women report feeling different kinds of orgasms — clitoral, vaginal, and many combinations of the two. According to Beverly Whipple, Ph.D., coauthor of The G-Spot and Other Discoveries About Human Sexuality, the reason may simply be that different parts of the vagina were stimulated more than others, and so have more tension to release. Also, muscles in other parts of the body may contract involuntarily — hence the clenched toes and goofy faces. As for the brain, a recent small-scale study at the Netherlands' University of Groningen found that areas involving fear and emotion are actually deactivated during orgasm (not so if you fake it).

 

[prunedfingers]

For me I need clit stimulation, but its usually intensified by penetration whether that's vaginal or anal it brings the o to a whole new level!! As for cum - usually inside me, but if its strictly a blowjob we're talking I love it shot all over my face and in my mouth... Love it

 

[satin_and_lace]

I need clitoral stimulation to cum. My orgasms are intensified if I have a dildo in my pussy. I've come close during sex to cumming from penetration alone, but it has never happened yet.

As for where my man cums, I like to see it on my body

 

[Beck31]

Hmm. That is interesting

 

[LauraWilling]

For me, I really enjoy clitoral stimulation, but the most intense orgasms seem to be caused deep inside me . In fact, a spot or area, I guess is more accurate on the lower part of vaginal canal and what I suspect is the opening to my cervix. I could be wrong, but speaking from experience I think the "g-spot" is actually nerve ending in the clit that extend down to an area on top an just inside the vagina. For me I have found that men with a thicker than average penis and average length does great if he knows how to use if. Men with very long penis's can sometmies hurt when getting very excited. They are fun to play with, but the thick average usually does the job best for me.

 

[Beck31]

thanks for the reply

 

[iwantyoufuckme]

this is probably more true for most women than it being untrue.
the vagina is a muscle, has no nerve endings.
the clitoris has over 3,000 nerve endings.

 

[Beck31]

Hmmm. Thank you iwyfm.

 

[Justine42D]

Cum during nipples and clit stimulation

 

[Amanda83]

Yes I need my clit rubbed in some way. It causes me to squirt the hardest.

 

[MercedeSexy]

I had vaginal orgasms solely from penetration for years before I ever had my first clitoral orgasm. They're very different experiences. I can have both now, but the only kind I can achieve through masturbation is clitoral.

 

[FunTonightTO]

I recently started cumming from vaginal penetration in addition to clitoral which is fun. It took a while and they aren't as intense yet, but still delicious to ride that beautiful wave.

I may be alone, but I like taking it in the face. I also enjoy a good tit shot.

 

[thatshowshelikesit]

I have been able to cum without clitoral stimulation, but its extremely rare for me and I never cum quite as hard. But with my clit, I am able so cum hard multiple times, so it is definitely what I prefer.

 

[Puffynsweet]

When i masturbate with my fingers it's almost always the clit i rub to get off. When i have a man inside me it is so intense that it often feels like i can't stop having orgasms.