What is it that a man does that makes you feel like you have surrendered control? In fact, what makes you feel helpless? Moreover, why would you want to surrender to him?
Okay, the weird part about this is I just posted a story about this very thing....
I'd have to agree with Bridget and Chicklet. I love a man that takes some control in bed. I don't want to be tied up (well, not every day) but there is something painfully appealing about a man that is interested enough in what makes me tick to pleasure me. When he's concentrating on where to place his hands, where to place his mouth, where and when to kiss, nibble or bite then I don't have to think about anything other than enjoying every moment. A man that can read my mood and figure out whether I want soft, slow love or a good hard fucking is a treasure indeed! That, too, is an aspect of control. I agree, too, the voice can be the most powerful tool a person has.
You know, anyone can be naked with someone else, and anyone can fuck. But to give in to that final vulnerability...to put yourself in the hands (both figuratively and literally) of someone else is a very liberating experience.
If you can find the right person with whom to explore this, it can be incredible!
Okay, the weird part about this is I just posted a story about this very thing....
I'd have to agree with Bridget and Chicklet. I love a man that takes some control in bed. I don't want to be tied up (well, not every day) but there is something painfully appealing about a man that is interested enough in what makes me tick to pleasure me. When he's concentrating on where to place his hands, where to place his mouth, where and when to kiss, nibble or bite then I don't have to think about anything other than enjoying every moment. A man that can read my mood and figure out whether I want soft, slow love or a good hard fucking is a treasure indeed! That, too, is an aspect of control. I agree, too, the voice can be the most powerful tool a person has.
You know, anyone can be naked with someone else, and anyone can fuck. But to give in to that final vulnerability...to put yourself in the hands (both figuratively and literally) of someone else is a very liberating experience.
If you can find the right person with whom to explore this, it can be incredible!