Quickies

[fille]

This afternoon Sir asked me to find a pause in my dinner preparations and come upstairs for five minutes. Upstairs, he instantly instructed me to strip and lay on my back, and within a few minutes he had fucked me and come. I then went back to work in the kithen.

The whole 5 t 10 minutes made me quite "hot", though I did not have any particular physical pleasure, and it just seemed so "right." But afterwards, I was thinking, "Boy, if my ex had ever treated me like that, it would have been a different story." In fact, my ex's lack of imagination and "wham bang" quickie sex style had a lot to do with our eventual divorce.

I find this to be rather interesting. Anyone else find that things or qualities you have found a turnoff in a vanilla partner, are a turn ON in your Dominant/submissive partner?

- justina

I find many things that my husband does exciting, although I would have found the same things annoying with my first husband. Like you said, he was so vanilla and our sex life was so boring, heaven knows a quickie was the norm. The man to whom I am married now makes sex so exciting all the time that on the rare occasion that he just throws me down and fucks me for a few minutes and then walks away, I find it thrilling.

 

[rosco rathbone]

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I find many things that my husband does exciting, although I would have found the same things annoying with my first husband. Like you said, he was so vanilla and our sex life was so boring, heaven knows a quickie was the norm. The man to whom I am married now makes sex so exciting all the time that on the rare occasion that he just throws me down and fucks me for a few minutes and then walks away, I find it thrilling.

This is an interesting point. The idea that; if you make sex all thrilling and sensual; you know--with the coco butter, the footrubs, the candlelight, the deerhide floggers, the poetry; you'll be allowed a few quickies. That's as may be. My sexuality, on the other hand, is entirely based on quickies. The quickie is the sort of the base line, the gold standard as it were.

I'm quite fascinated by the quickie VS berry white loooooovemaking....and bdsm VS vanilla sexual toplogy. Seems like one could draw up one of those cartesian grids; as I've seen done to determine one's political orientation with Authority vs Anarchy on one axis and Left vs Right on another.

To me, quickie sex is gnome sex. It is rape sex. It is male sex. It's premature ejaculation. I like to think of it as anti woman. Who's to say that the sexes have identical goals in looooove making?? eh?

Anyhow, quickies to me are the sine qua non ; if I may strike a pedantic pose.

 

[fille]

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This is an interesting point. The idea that; if you make sex all thrilling and sensual; you know--with the coco butter, the footrubs, the candlelight, the deerhide floggers, the poetry; you'll be allowed a few quickies. That's as may be. My sexuality, on the other hand, is entirely based on quickies. The quickie is the sort of the base line, the gold standard as it were.

I'm quite fascinated by the quickie VS berry white loooooovemaking....and bdsm VS vanilla sexual toplogy. Seems like one could draw up one of those cartesian grids; as I've seen done to determine one's political orientation with Authority vs Anarchy on one axis and Left vs Right on another.

To me, quickie sex is gnome sex. It is rape sex. It is male sex. It's premature ejaculation. I like to think of it as anti woman. Who's to say that the sexes have identical goals in looooove making?? eh?

Anyhow, quickies to me are the sine qua non ; if I may strike a pedantic pose.

Well, Roscoe, I think it's sorta scary that anti-woman, quickie "rape" sex culminating in premature ejaculation is really the only kind you care to have.

 

[rosco rathbone]

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Well, Roscoe, I think it's sorta scary that anti-woman, quickie "rape" sex culminating in premature ejaculation is really the only kind you care to have.

Not the only kind; but definitely the gold standard. The point I was making was that to some, the quickie is the exception. To me, it's the rule--that's all. And I know that many feel the same as I, though they may not choose to admit it.

 

[WriterDom]

Slowies are nice too. Where she is tied and you hit it how ever many strokes you want, and then go back to what you were doing.

Cumming is optional.

It is about time for the little gym butts in Greece to come on. I like the college level better. They pack more meat back there.

 

[Justina123]

WriterDom:
It is about time for the little gym butts in Greece to come on.

Sir especially likes watching the Olympic womens' beach volleyball. Have you noticed how the cameras zoom in when the girl on the net puts her hands behind her butt to hand signal the strategy to her partner?

-justina

 

[Sir_Winston54]

WriterDom:
It is about time for the little gym butts in Greece to come on.

Sir especially likes watching the Olympic womens' beach volleyball. Have you noticed how the cameras zoom in when the girl on the net puts her hands behind her butt to hand signal the strategy to her partner?

-justina

What I'm waiting for is for the girl in back to really screw up a point, and the girl at the net to shove her bottoms down to moon the unfortunate miscreant!

 

[meatflower]

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Not the only kind; but definitely the gold standard. The point I was making was that to some, the quickie is the exception. To me, it's the rule--that's all. And I know that many feel the same as I, though they may not choose to admit it.

I'll admit it.

I enjoy being unexpectedly mishandled and prefer not to be messed with much of the time. Get in, get off, leave me alone.

 

[Bandit58]

Hmmmmm.......being woken at 6am.....hand placed on hard cock....a few strokes then head pushed down......He came in my mouth a couple of minutes later and we went back to sleep - I loved it

 

[sweet4poison]

yup

It is like his idea of foreplay is for me to pleasure him, and when i have been doing that for awhile, then he may or may not decide fuck me. But it is a definite pleasure for me to give him head at any time. He found out years ago i am able to cum just from him sqeezing my tips of my nipples.
when we were apart for awhile a few years ago, i found out i do not like it when someone else does this. I tried and i just got frustrated. They would ASK me if i liked this or that... ASK me if i REALLY got off on pain. ASKING me what i wanted? i could not deal with that. It has to be Master. Not good for me. He laughs. i say not fair. he looks at me and i drop my gaze...

 

[AngelicAssassin]

and then ... there's the off the wall, literally, face fucking followed by face down over the nearest horizontal surface nooner fuck.

 

[ethicalslut]

...face down over the nearest horizontal surface nooner fuck.

Now THAT's the good shit.

 

[TigerClaw]

Romance, love, sex, lust are all good.

But if there are no quickies it lacks spice.

 

[h_i_s]

Anyone else find that things or qualities you have found a turnoff in a vanilla partner, are a turn ON in your Dominant/submissive partner?

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In my last relationship (with a vanilla partner):

If he woke me at an ungoddly hour and wanted to play, i would grumble back, "fuck no. go play with YOURSELF, in traffic.". -- when my Dom wakes me for play, i LOVE it and don't care what time it is, i'm ready to please Him.

If he pulled my hair or even touched it i would tell him to stop messing my hair up.--when my Dom plays with my hair or pulls it i am instantly purrrrring on my knees at His feet, could care less how messed up it gets.

If he wanted a quickie... (hell what am i saying ALL he ever took time for were quickies),most times he didn't get one unless *i* wanted one. i wasn't into it at all and found him to be a selfish ass.--when my Dom takes me with a quickie, i LOVE it.. especially when i am suddenly pulled aside and taken behind closed doors in the middle of the day and told to get on my knees to worship His cock.
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The difference for me is simple. The vanilla guy was a selfish and uncreative dud who i had no respect for to begin with. Respect plays a huge role in sexual matters for me. i just never acknowledged it before. My Dom shows me respect (and demands His respect be returned). He has my respect. One of the major parts of the foundation of our D/s relationship is respect. i LOVE pleasing HIM and serving HIM.

 

[TigerClaw]

Quickies, slow, fast, hard, pounding, soft.

I want it all. A variety. Touches, teasing, groping, holding, hugging.

Whether it is vanilla or not if she doesnt like it. Tough. She is out the door. I dont have time to waste on someone who doesnt want to please her man. When she holds an important spot in my life and feels she doesnt need to show it in return, I am outta there.

Been there, done that, never again.

In reason of course. If she is not that kind of a woman then that is fine. That is what I am looking for though. We would have to mutually agree we dont match. If some things are done and others are not. I could have an open ear to her feelings. Again I dont see a match here though.

As for a sub, I would be even less tolerant. That would not be submissive.

 

[FreeGal]

and then ... there's the off the wall, literally, face fucking followed by face down over the nearest horizontal surface nooner fuck.

Yep, that would get me every single time.

Quickies, long torturous sessions, rough physical sex, love-making in bed. It's all good. It's all sex!

But, I do love to be taken by force, quickly and furiously. It's all about him using me and getting exactly what he wants from me, with complete disregard for me.

A few times now he's phoned me from work and told me to get to a certain place by a certain time (a secluded area in some woods that we know well). It takes me an hour to drive there, so I quickly get ready, so as not to be late. I park up and wait for him.

He pulls up next to my car, and we both get out. Then he'll tell me to kneel, and he unzips his trousers and I'm to suck him. Except it's not really me sucking him, it's him fucking my face. Once he's had enough of that for while he'll tell me to get up. Then he'll shove me into my open car door, face down in the passenger seat, usually. He'll just push my skirt up, move my knickers to one side, then forcibly fuck me from behind. Once he's finished and come inside me, that's it, over. He might talk to me for a little while, and hold me and kiss me, but it's his lunch break, so he has to hurry up and get back to work. I then drive home, with his cum seeping out of me, feeling incredibly sexy.

Sometimes there are variations on this. One time we didn't actually fuck, but just did oral. He told me to remove my knickers, then sit on the passenger seat, with my feet outside the car, and he knelt between them and ate himself some pie, as he puts it. Hehehe! He then fucked my face, until he came in my mouth.

He quite literally has me for lunch. So, yep, quickies are good. Very good.

 

[FreeBloke]

About half the subs/slaves are jelouse...

And the Dom/mes Are mulling it over in their heads the right time to get their sub/slave...

You damn well got that right!

 

[SirViper]

I must have a few quickies a week.