race play and names

[DennisB]

This just proves that sex can be wonderful if all parties agree on how they want it. Some get off on race play, some like feathers, some want to be spanked, some want to be peed on, some want to be watched, some want to watch, some want to role play, the list can go on and on. One person’s interest may not be another’s. Don’t look down on someone’s kinks because someone may look at yours and think you’re weird, lol! Just say it is not your cup of tea and move on.

Find someone that shares your kinks, desires, and fetishes and have fun!!!

 

[Andreinasstud]

I’m Latina. Not really slurs, but I love a man or woman calling me Mamacita

 

[WSM98]

This thread confuses my brain.

 

[georgerb]

I understand the race play attraction. I enjoy it, but the two ladies I continue to discuss/play with here were the ones that approached me about it. To the OP, Google can show you slurs for most any ethnic/race background.

 

[KinkyLaughs]

I was today years old when I realized there is such a thing as race play. I actually don’t know what slurs are used against Polynesians…

Probably a good thing...

 

[wallstreetguy]

I’m Latina. Not really slurs, but I love a man or woman calling me Mamacita

I prefer when latinas call me Papi.

 

[wallstreetguy]

This thread confuses my brain.

why?

 

[wallstreetguy]

I’m southeast Asian and I get this too.

This is a natural.

 

[Celand]

 

[Bookiegirl]

and heres me.

Adorable cutie

 

[Bookiegirl]

Does anyone else get extra turned on and stimulated by using race or racial terms, name calling either in sub or dom role. Its something that really gets me going onto another level. Talked to a few about it but wondering home common it is?

Yes I do as well . Maybe the knowledge I am in a way allowing it to happen by a Man or another Woman is inwardly a craving being permitted

 

[blkjames]

My thoughts are that to many folks take things to personal and seriously. Just enjoy each other and have fun. Not everyone agrees with each other, that's fine, no need to let it affect the way you live your life. Don't give others the power to mess up your joy. I learned that when I was in the military.

 

[Bookiegirl]

My thoughts are that to many folks take things to personal and seriously. Just enjoy each other and have fun. Not everyone agrees with each other, that's fine, no need to let it affect the way you live your life. Don't give others the power to mess up your joy. I learned that when I was in the military.

Many time He will offer up the names He wishes to be called by , if not it is a “ read “ for us to call Him by something

 

[Cob083]

I prefer when latinas call me Papi.

I love that too. When they break out the Spanish in the bedroom it drives me wild.

 

[Escierto]

Many time He will offer up the names He wishes to be called by , if not it is a “ read “ for us to call Him by something

What does he wish to be called? My gf and I are different races with a huge age gap between us. However age and race never come up between us. I am not sure why really.

 

[alphapleaser69]

Yes I do as well . Maybe the knowledge I am in a way allowing it to happen by a Man or another Woman is inwardly a craving being permitted

I'm a bisexual white married male - and have a HIUGE addiction to BBC! LOVE race play as I submit to the powerful, addictive Black Alpha Bull and his BBC! LOVE to be his slutty white fuck toy for the Black Breeding Bull. So yeah, race play def. gets me hot and bothered, particularly with me as the submissive, slutty, white-boi. ricki

 

[Toffer_Guy]

Does anyone else get extra turned on and stimulated by using race or racial terms, name calling either in sub or dom role. Its something that really gets me going onto another level. Talked to a few about it but wondering home common it is?

I’m not one to judge what consenting adults get up to. If you enjoy race play in your sex life, you should enjoy that. I love dirty talk during sex, more intense the better. When the topic comes to ‘race play’ is where I’m uncomfortable. Such as if you’re using racial slurs.

The issue comes in that a lot of people don’t know where to cross the lines between sex play and the real world. Someone who casually uses racial slurs during sex are equally as likely to be that way outside of sex. BDSM relationships only stay healthy when the sub’s limits are respected. A person can’t be racist and respectful at the same time.

If my partner enjoys it, I’ll call her whatever nasty thing she likes in sex. Outside of sex I’d never degrade a woman in such a way.

You should enjoy the race play all you want, but be very, very cautious you only practice it with partners that you know would never disrespect you in such a way outside of sex.

 

[alphapleaser69]

As a bisexual BBC lover - my personal preferences are to use raceplay anytime I can. I'm submissive bottom for the powerful/addictive BBC - I totally get off pleasing, pleasuring, serving and submitting to what I believe is the Superior Black Bull. It's not for everyone - I understand that clearly. But for me, being called his "slutty lil fucktoy" or his "white boi faggot" turns me on like anything! I also call him my "Black Bull" and always scream for his "delicious black babymakers". Black Men are just so more alluring, desirable, mesmerizing, erotic and thrilling than the average white guy. Again, just a personal preference. ricki