cookiecat
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Ass to mouth? Thoughts on clean ass sex...
I mentioned in a previous post I used to have anal sex just like I had vaginal sex... it wasn't a big deal. This was in my 20's and 30's. I didn't worry about the clean factor - it wasn't really an issue.
When anal became tangled up with bdsm - the power exchange, fucking around with my head, using an enema to heighten the arousal, using plugs to focus on what's to come... I started getting really wigged out about the mess. The poop factor.
It never really was a factor, though. (Other than that one time a plug was inserted too soon after an enema and, well... ) I just seemed to create more angst in my brain about all the what ifs.
I like the enema used as part of a ritual...
As to ass to mouth? Who's done it? Is it a hard limit?
For me, it was similar to anal... a lot of worry about not a big huge deal... I struggled against doing it, it grossed me out but ultimately I did it and it was ok. I was more turned on that he was turned on because I did it.
But, it is considered unhealthy. The basic rule of anal sex is to NEVER go from ass to pussy or ass to mouth. Now, everyone is entitled to do as they wish, but that is the way I do things. The only time I "might" change this is if the woman INSISTED that she wanted to. And, I still would be aprehensive about it. I would explain the possible health problems that she could encounter and even at that I think it is close to being scat, once removed.
I'm a very clean person and like my women that way, too. Oh, I understand the desire or intrigue of such an act, as it can be degrading and humiliating, and that can be sexy. But, we all have our limits and I think that is one of mine.
As for an enema, I can see how some people would think it's necessary before anal sex. In fact, that too seems erotic to me, as long as it's done in the same method as the anal sex will be. I hesitate to call it a punishment enema, because of the confussion it might cause to some who could read this. I guess I'll just call it a forced play enema. Too many labels tend to confuse even more, but that's the PC world, I guess.
I enjoy anal while my sub is naked, bound in a very submissive position and sometimes even gagged. For the PC people, she is more than a willing victim. Now, if an enema is performed, it would be done in the same manner, almost as a part of a ritual, so she knows she's going to get her ass fucked after the enema. Yes, I'm really into the mental things. Just knowing that all during the enema she's thinking of what's to come. I love that thought.
But, I don't consider it necessary for an enema to be done before anal sex. Sure, it seems like it would be a very dirty mess, but it isn't. Although, I see nothing wrong with giving an enema first. Cleanliness is next to Godliness. But, even if you do give an enema, you must stick to the rule of not going from ass to pussy or mouth, but trust me, the other way is fine.
Actually, I sometimes enjoy starting by fucking her pussy, and quickly switch to her ass. I stop for lube, but I like the non-stop motion from pussy to ass, not allowing her much time to even catch her breath.
EDITED to include...
I'm circumsized. I have no problem keeping my cock clean, after anal sex. But, I can imagine someone who isn't circumsized maybe having issues with keeping clean, with the foreskin intact. If that's the case, you might want to either consider an enema, or thorough cock cleaning afterwards. Just remember that an enema...even two or three is not a guarentee of bacteria free anal sex.
I mentioned in a previous post I used to have anal sex just like I had vaginal sex... it wasn't a big deal. This was in my 20's and 30's. I didn't worry about the clean factor - it wasn't really an issue.
When anal became tangled up with bdsm - the power exchange, fucking around with my head, using an enema to heighten the arousal, using plugs to focus on what's to come... I started getting really wigged out about the mess. The poop factor.
It never really was a factor, though. (Other than that one time a plug was inserted too soon after an enema and, well... ) I just seemed to create more angst in my brain about all the what ifs.
I like the enema used as part of a ritual...
As to ass to mouth? Who's done it? Is it a hard limit?
For me, it was similar to anal... a lot of worry about not a big huge deal... I struggled against doing it, it grossed me out but ultimately I did it and it was ok. I was more turned on that he was turned on because I did it.