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A ghost from your dreams
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Ass to mouth? Thoughts on clean ass sex...
I mentioned in a previous post I used to have anal sex just like I had vaginal sex... it wasn't a big deal. This was in my 20's and 30's. I didn't worry about the clean factor - it wasn't really an issue.
When anal became tangled up with bdsm - the power exchange, fucking around with my head, using an enema to heighten the arousal, using plugs to focus on what's to come... I started getting really wigged out about the mess. The poop factor.
It never really was a factor, though. (Other than that one time a plug was inserted too soon after an enema and, well...) I just seemed to create more angst in my brain about all the what ifs.
I like the enema used as part of a ritual...
As to ass to mouth? Who's done it? Is it a hard limit?
For me, it was similar to anal... a lot of worry about not a big huge deal... I struggled against doing it, it grossed me out but ultimately I did it and it was ok. I was more turned on that he was turned on because I did it.
For me, it's just a personal thing...I don't like it. I don't know what the risks are. Unlike ass to pussy, I do know there are risks there. But, I can't say others should or shouldn't partake in any of this. As long as you know the risks, it's then up to you and your partner. Just like many other things in BDSM. You assess the risks and decide for yourself what to do.
If you enjoy taking those little risks and nothing goes wrong, everything is fine. Actually, I see nothing wrong with any of this as long as nobody is forced into it against their will. It's that SSC thing. You stay safe, you make sane choices and everybody involved is consensual with it.
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