Raw Anal Lust

[CTGalPal]

PArdon me...the Nutmeg state? I'm sorry, but which one is that? And here I thought I knew about such things.

LMAO...Connecticut.

Hey I started my own thread...want to help me answer my questions over there too???

 

[DVS]

Sir, you are very right....i wish i had a place such as this to learn about this wonderful kinky lust. My first experience was quite tramatic and violent....no lube, alot of pain....he did not stop....my begging only fed his hunger.....

And it took me many many years before i let anyone near me in that capacity again.....i had really never heard much about anal sex until that first experience.

Had i been able to have a place such as this one to teach me about this wonderful treat....i could have coped with it all better....and really enjoyed it as i soooo love it now.

As you know i love this thread and use my little "bayou voodoo" (lol) to be in the right place at the right time to catch your installments as quickly as they come out.....i thank you for all your words of wisdom and your patience in helping us out here, as we enjoy the pure pleasures of our "raw anal lust"

Gypzie

It is unfortunate, but you are not alone in that type of first anal experience. Some men can be quite insensitive when it comes to some things. I consider those guys the scummy sludge in the bottom of the gene pool. That poolboy really needs to cahnge the filter more often! Society doesn't benefit from their existance that much. They make it more difficult for the more carring man to meet someone special.

I'm also glad this thread has been of some benefit, if only for masturbation fun.

 

[CTGalPal]

Sir, you are very right....i wish i had a place such as this to learn about this wonderful kinky lust. My first experience was quite tramatic and violent....no lube, alot of pain....he did not stop....my begging only fed his hunger.....

And it took me many many years before i let anyone near me in that capacity again.....i had really never heard much about anal sex until that first experience.

Had i been able to have a place such as this one to teach me about this wonderful treat....i could have coped with it all better....and really enjoyed it as i soooo love it now.

As you know i love this thread and use my little "bayou voodoo" (lol) to be in the right place at the right time to catch your installments as quickly as they come out.....i thank you for all your words of wisdom and your patience in helping us out here, as we enjoy the pure pleasures of our "raw anal lust"

Gypzie

I am so sorry that happened to you Gypzie...thanks for sharing that story with us.

 

[FurryFury]

Hopefully close enough for me to pet!

Mais naturellement.

Fury

Sorry I need more...there is only one man who can get me going and off with words.

And that would be . . . whom?

Fury

Thank you for the insightful thoughts on everything I was wondering about.

I guess for me I am very shy when it comes to sex and expressing my fantasties and sexual explorations with someone.

The idea of a "rape" is interesting to me and has always been a fantasy of mine.

But the whole idea is "trust" and knowing that the person will stop if you are genuinely in pain or not enjoying yourself.

I don't trust easily...so this is a hard concept for me.

But I will read your stories.

Thanks again for the words to think upon!

P.S. I live in the Nutmeg state.

A lot of people are into the rape fantasy. It is certainly one I think about, and write about a lot.

However if you are thinking on anal rape, think about it WITH lube that's my advice!

No matter how wet you get and I'm told I am the wettest my lover has ever seen, it's not the same as using lube.

We tried anal once before and only used my copias juices. It wasn't a good deal. There was much pain and even bleeding for a few days.

But oh, done right it, which I wrote a story about based on our wonderful second try, it can be incredible!

I just wrote last night in an SRP about a what a character of mine was feeling when she was being anally raped with no lube. That was great fun to write but I'd hate to actually be feeling it right now!

I like a small butt plug, beads and other toys. The KEY is to go slow, use lots of lube and open it slowly.

I've gotten in trouble more than once because I was impatient and wanted to rush ahead to getting ass fucked without taking the time to do the above the ass is not a vagina it needs special care but I just want it and right damned now! LOL!

Fury

Sir, you are very right....i wish i had a place such as this to learn about this wonderful kinky lust. My first experience was quite tramatic and violent....no lube, alot of pain....he did not stop....my begging only fed his hunger.....

And it took me many many years before i let anyone near me in that capacity again.....i had really never heard much about anal sex until that first experience.

Had i been able to have a place such as this one to teach me about this wonderful treat....i could have coped with it all better....and really enjoyed it as i soooo love it now.

As you know i love this thread and use my little "bayou voodoo" (lol) to be in the right place at the right time to catch your installments as quickly as they come out.....i thank you for all your words of wisdom and your patience in helping us out here, as we enjoy the pure pleasures of our "raw anal lust"

Gypzie

*HUGS Gypziedoll*

I'm so sorry that happened to you. I'm glad you've been able to overcome it though.

Fury

 

[CTGalPal]

And that would be . . . whom?

Fury

:X



A lot of people are into the rape fantasy. It is certainly one I think about, and write about a lot.

However if you are thinking on anal rape, think about it WITH lube that's my advice!

No matter how wet you get and I'm told I am the wettest my lover has ever seen, it's not the same as using lube.

We tried anal once before and only used my copias juices. It wasn't a good deal. There was much pain and even bleeding for a few days.

But oh, done right it, which I wrote a story about based on our wonderful second try, it can be incredible!

I just wrote last night in an SRP about a what a character of mine was feeling when she was being anally raped with no lube. That was great fun to write but I'd hate to actually be feeling it right now!

I like a small butt plug, beads and other toys. The KEY is to go slow, use lots of lube and open it slowly.

I've gotten in trouble more than once because I was impatient and wanted to rush ahead to getting ass fucked without taking the time to do the above the ass is not a vagina it needs special care but I just want it and right damned now! LOL!

Fury

QUOTE]

Yes, I think I will take someone's suggestion and buy some toys to play with...or find someone to play with me. I want the first time to be right.

Thanks for all the incredible advice!!!

 

[FurryFury]

And that would be . . . whom?

Fury

:X



A lot of people are into the rape fantasy. It is certainly one I think about, and write about a lot.

However if you are thinking on anal rape, think about it WITH lube that's my advice!

No matter how wet you get and I'm told I am the wettest my lover has ever seen, it's not the same as using lube.

We tried anal once before and only used my copias juices. It wasn't a good deal. There was much pain and even bleeding for a few days.

But oh, done right it, which I wrote a story about based on our wonderful second try, it can be incredible!

I just wrote last night in an SRP about a what a character of mine was feeling when she was being anally raped with no lube. That was great fun to write but I'd hate to actually be feeling it right now!

I like a small butt plug, beads and other toys. The KEY is to go slow, use lots of lube and open it slowly.

I've gotten in trouble more than once because I was impatient and wanted to rush ahead to getting ass fucked without taking the time to do the above the ass is not a vagina it needs special care but I just want it and right damned now! LOL!

Fury

QUOTE]

Yes, I think I will take someone's suggestion and buy some toys to play with...or find someone to play with me. I want the first time to be right.

Thanks for all the incredible advice!!!

You are very welcome!

BUT you didn't answer my question above.

Fury

 

[DVS]

And that would be . . . whom?

Fury

:X



A lot of people are into the rape fantasy. It is certainly one I think about, and write about a lot.

However if you are thinking on anal rape, think about it WITH lube that's my advice!

No matter how wet you get and I'm told I am the wettest my lover has ever seen, it's not the same as using lube.

We tried anal once before and only used my copias juices. It wasn't a good deal. There was much pain and even bleeding for a few days.

But oh, done right it, which I wrote a story about based on our wonderful second try, it can be incredible!

I just wrote last night in an SRP about a what a character of mine was feeling when she was being anally raped with no lube. That was great fun to write but I'd hate to actually be feeling it right now!

I like a small butt plug, beads and other toys. The KEY is to go slow, use lots of lube and open it slowly.

I've gotten in trouble more than once because I was impatient and wanted to rush ahead to getting ass fucked without taking the time to do the above the ass is not a vagina it needs special care but I just want it and right damned now! LOL!

Fury

QUOTE]

Yes, I think I will take someone's suggestion and buy some toys to play with...or find someone to play with me. I want the first time to be right.

Thanks for all the incredible advice!!!

You konw....if you want the first time to be right, Connecticut really isn't that far from Kansas City. Really it isn't...not far at all. Let's just say I'd make it worth your trip.

 

[CTGalPal]

You konw....if you want the first time to be right, Connecticut really isn't that far from Kansas City. Really it isn't...not far at all. Let's just say I'd make it worth your trip.

I will definitely keep that in mind...

I meant to ask you if age has any bearing on these conversations we're having?

And by age, I mean does a Dom look for a certain age type?

 

[CTGalPal]

You are very welcome!

BUT you didn't answer my question above.

Fury

The question about who makes me hot with his words...

I have an ex-boyfriend, who sexually drives me insane...we can talk
on the phone about the weather and there is something sexy about
his voice that makes me horny.

 

[FurryFury]

The question about who makes me hot with his words...

I have an ex-boyfriend, who sexually drives me insane...we can talk
on the phone about the weather and there is something sexy about
his voice that makes me horny.

Too cool. I had a gf who knew a guy that could make her come just by saying her name. Until one day he couldn't. They drifted away after that.

If I were single and close, I'd take DVS up on that offer.

*grins*

Fury

 

[CTGalPal]

Too cool. I had a gf who knew a guy that could make her come just by saying her name. Until one day he couldn't. They drifted away after that.

If I were single and close, I'd take DVS up on that offer.

*grins*

Fury

>sigh< Baby steps...although I do want my first time to be with someone I can trust and is experienced.

 

[DVS]

I will definitely keep that in mind...

I meant to ask you if age has any bearing on these conversations we're having?

And by age, I mean does a Dom look for a certain age type?

Well, just like everything else, everybody is different. Sure, some older Doms look for younger women, for various reasons. Maybe they make them feel younger, themselves. And, some younger Doms prefer older women. I'd guess maybe they enjoy the older more experienced woman, maybe?

As for me, I don't have that much of a preference for age. Actually, what I look for is a desire for the same things as I have. If she enjoys being used by me, spanked by me, tied down and have her clothes stripped off of her...maybe whipped or forced to swallow my cock down her throat...or to be tied in some lewd position and have her ass fucked good and hard. I'm not too picky, am I? LOL. Give me a woman who enjoys squirming around on my lap...I'll take it from there.

Oh, I'm also into electroplay and I also enjoy introducing newbies to that, too. Just like anal sex, electroplay can have a stigma of taboo and that might keep some from giving it a try. Sadly there are those out there that know very little about electiricty, yet they have all of the fancy electroplay toys.

If you ask me, experience is the key to many sexual things. Knowing what to do and when has quite a lot to do with it all. This really does apply to anal sex, and electoplay, but it could also apply to most anything, when you get down to iit. You wnat it done right in the first place, find someone with experience in doing it right.

 

[CTGalPal]

Well, just like everything else, everybody is different. Sure, some older Doms look for younger women, for various reasons. Maybe they make them feel younger, themselves. And, some younger Doms prefer older women. I'd guess maybe they enjoy the older more experienced woman, maybe?

As for me, I don't have that much of a preference for age. Actually, what I look for is a desire for the same things as I have. If she enjoys being used by me, spanked by me, tied down and have her clothes stripped off of her...maybe whipped or forced to swallow my cock down her throat...or to be tied in some lewd position and have her ass fucked good and hard. I'm not too picky, am I? LOL. Give me a woman who enjoys squirming around on my lap...I'll take it from there.

Oh, I'm also into electroplay and I also enjoy introducing newbies to that, too. Just like anal sex, electroplay can have a stigma of taboo and that might keep some from giving it a try. Sadly there are those out there that know very little about electiricty, yet they have all of the fancy electroplay toys.

If you ask me, experience is the key to many sexual things. Knowing what to do and when has quite a lot to do with it all. This really does apply to anal sex, and electoplay, but it could also apply to most anything, when you get down to iit. You wnat it done right in the first place, find someone with experience in doing it right.

Dare I ask what electroplay is??? Ok I am curious...I am asking...what is it?

 

[DVS]

Dare I ask what electroplay is??? Ok I am curious...I am asking...what is it?

Of course, but if you don't mind, I'll save this for tomorrow. It can be rather involved, and I want to explain it so you understand. Like I said, it does have a stigma surrounding it, because of the word electricity. So, i'm going to force you to wait...deny your satisfaction of an answer until tomorrow. I suppose the submissive in you will enjoy the denail.

If you want to explore on your own a little., try www.violetwand.org
or google violet wand and/or TENS units. I don't know what you'll find, but it might feed your need, so the denial isn't so bad. LOL.

Oh, www.violetwand.org just shows what a violet wand is and the different ways it works. Just don't form any conclusions until I post about these things.

I've gotta feed my cats and get to bed now. I have work tomorrow.

 

[CTGalPal]

Of course, but if you don't mind, I'll save this for tomorrow. It can be rather involved, and I want to explain it so you understand. Like I said, it does have a stigma surrounding it, because of the word electricity. So, i'm going to force you to wait...deny your satisfaction of an answer until tomorrow. I suppose the submissive in you will enjoy the denail.

If you want to explore on your own a little., try www.violetwand.org
or google violet wand and/or TENS units. I don't know what you'll find, but it might feed your need, so the denial isn't so bad. LOL.

Oh, www.violetwand.org just shows what a violet wand is and the different ways it works. Just don't form any conclusions until I post about these things.

I've gotta feed my cats and get to bed now. I have work tomorrow.

Hmmm you're right I didn't understand while reading that website. I think someone has mentioned them before on the board because I remember seeing a picture similiar to the link you sent me.

But I will await an explanation when you're ready.

 

[gypziedoll]

Mais naturellement.

Fury



And that would be . . . whom?

Fury



A lot of people are into the rape fantasy. It is certainly one I think about, and write about a lot.

However if you are thinking on anal rape, think about it WITH lube that's my advice!

No matter how wet you get and I'm told I am the wettest my lover has ever seen, it's not the same as using lube.

We tried anal once before and only used my copias juices. It wasn't a good deal. There was much pain and even bleeding for a few days.

But oh, done right it, which I wrote a story about based on our wonderful second try, it can be incredible!

I just wrote last night in an SRP about a what a character of mine was feeling when she was being anally raped with no lube. That was great fun to write but I'd hate to actually be feeling it right now!

I like a small butt plug, beads and other toys. The KEY is to go slow, use lots of lube and open it slowly.

I've gotten in trouble more than once because I was impatient and wanted to rush ahead to getting ass fucked without taking the time to do the above the ass is not a vagina it needs special care but I just want it and right damned now! LOL!

Fury



*HUGS Gypziedoll*

I'm so sorry that happened to you. I'm glad you've been able to overcome it though.

Fury

thank you Fury......*hugs*

 

[gypziedoll]

It is unfortunate, but you are not alone in that type of first anal experience. Some men can be quite insensitive when it comes to some things. I consider those guys the scummy sludge in the bottom of the gene pool. That poolboy really needs to cahnge the filter more often! Society doesn't benefit from their existance that much. They make it more difficult for the more carring man to meet someone special.

I'm also glad this thread has been of some benefit, if only for masturbation fun.

It has....more than you can ever know Sir

 

[gypziedoll]

I am so sorry that happened to you Gypzie...thanks for sharing that story with us.

thank you CTGalPal....it did take about 6 yrs before i ever let anyone get close to even touching my ass again.....but the next time it happened it was done the right way...in a very relaxed atmosphere.....now i love it....even beg for it at times

 

[lust4us]

>sigh< Baby steps...although I do want my first time to be with someone I can trust and is experienced.

Hi CT GalPal, I see my hubby G. was rather active last night on many threads. I always enjoy reading the area's of his posts, and vice a versa. I think you had a question that I didn't see answered last night. About being married or attached and it being difficult with jealousy? I think that was the gist of it? I will take a stab at answering that from my own experience. You have to have rules set up in any relationship. Trust is everything! We have some hard core rules in our marriage. First we never touch another mans wife. Second, I can have sex with anyone I want, as long as he approves what she looks like. I know that sounds a little bit much but since we have the same tastes in women and the same taste for kink. It has never been a problem.

I am bi-sexual and he is not. So all of our playing outside of ourselves, involves other woman but no other men. (Oh do I love eating pussy and having my pussy sucked by a sexy woman! )

As far as wanting and waiting for your first anal experience, to be with someone you can trust and is experienced, I could not agree with you more! It is vitally important that it is what you do. I had some really trumatic experiences from bad lovers, that poisoned my taste for anal for years. It wasn't until I married my husband that I tried it again. He was very patient with me. It was a least 2 years into our marriage before it happened. He had teased me and tongued me so often and fingered me, that one night I just begged him for it. I think Furry said it best, your ass is not like like your pussy and it needs to be warmed up first. A good stretching during foreplay.
He also told me there was such a thing as having an asshole climax. Of course I thought he was just B.Sing me. But you know what, I can tell you first hand, that there is. I now love anal very much, both recieving it and giving it, I actually love giving a little more because I do it more often.

Finally, I want to welcome you to Lit, even though we are new too. I feel like as much as I have been on here and all that I have read, that it was years already, when in fact just a month or so.

I also want to let you know that my hubby was born and raised in Manhattan, N.Y.C. and still has family in Westchester county N.Y. We go back a half a dozen times a year. We are very familiar with Connecticut and have friends there. It is a beautiful state.

P.S. I will tell you this, as hot as DVS sounds, I know my man would give him a run for his money, breaking your ass in the right way and introducing you to a lot more. Not that I am bias or anything! Lol..

 

[CTGalPal]

Hi CT GalPal, I see my hubby G. was rather active last night on many threads. I always enjoy reading the area's of his posts, and vice a versa. I think you had a question that I didn't see answered last night. About being married or attached and it being difficult with jealousy? I think that was the gist of it? I will take a stab at answering that from my own experience. You have to have rules set up in any relationship. Trust is everything! We have some hard core rules in our marriage. First we never touch another mans wife. Second, I can have sex with anyone I want, as long as he approves what she looks like. I know that sounds a little bit much but since we have the same tastes in women and the same taste for kink. It has never been a problem.

I am bi-sexual and he is not. So all of our playing outside of ourselves, involves other woman but no other men. (Oh do I love eating pussy and having my pussy sucked by a sexy woman! )

As far as wanting and waiting for your first anal experience, to be with someone you can trust and is experienced, I could not agree with you more! It is vitally important that it is what you do. I had some really trumatic experiences from bad lovers, that poisoned my taste for anal for years. It wasn't until I married my husband that I tried it again. He was very patient with me. It was a least 2 years into our marriage before it happened. He had teased me and tongued me so often and fingered me, that one night I just begged him for it. I think Furry said it best, your ass is not like like your pussy and it needs to be warmed up first. A good stretching during foreplay.
He also told me there was such a thing as having an asshole climax. Of course I thought he was just B.Sing me. But you know what, I can tell you first hand, that there is. I now love anal very much, both recieving it and giving it, I actually love giving a little more because I do it more often.

Finally, I want to welcome you to Lit, even though we are new too. I feel like as much as I have been on here and all that I have read, that it was years already, when in fact just a month or so.

I also want to let you know that my hubby was born and raised in Manhattan, N.Y.C. and still has family in Westchester county N.Y. We go back a half a dozen times a year. We are very familiar with Connecticut and have friends there. It is a beautiful state.

P.S. I will tell you this, as hot as DVS sounds, I know my man would give him a run for his money, breaking your ass in the right way and introducing you to a lot more. Not that I am bias or anything! Lol..

Thank you!!!

I loved reading what you wrote about the whole trust thing. Thank you for answering that question.

Doing anal is my biggest fantasy at the moment...

 

[raven2]

I've gotten in trouble more than once because I was impatient and wanted to rush ahead to getting ass fucked without taking the time to do the above the ass is not a vagina it needs special care but I just want it and right damned now! LOL!

Fury

Fury

I would certainly love to give that ass of yours VERY special care. and lots and lots of time (like all night).

 

[lust4us]

Thank you!!!

I loved reading what you wrote about the whole trust thing. Thank you for answering that question.

Doing anal is my biggest fantasy at the moment...

You are welcome sweetie. It is a great fantasy but even better in real life! Have you had a chance to read my husband's story yet?

 

[CTGalPal]

You are welcome sweetie. It is a great fantasy but even better in real life! Have you had a chance to read my husband's story yet?

Yes I did and I loved, loved, loved it...

 

[DVS]

...P.S. I will tell you this, as hot as DVS sounds, I know my man would give him a run for his money, breaking your ass in the right way and introducing you to a lot more. Not that I am bias or anything! Lol..

I wasn't aware I was in a competition. And in my thread, too. Interesting. I guess all is fair in love, war and virgin anal sex?

Oh, don't get me wrong. I completely understand your bias. I also see nothing wrong with it, in theory. But, she has a mind of her own and I"m inclined to let her use it. I don't like someone making my decisions for me, so I give that same respect to others.

It's my guess she already has someone in mind to take her anal virginity, and it's not your husband, nor is it me. And, more power to her.

 

[CTGalPal]

I wasn't aware I was in a competition. And in my thread, too. Interesting. I guess all is fair in love, war and virgin anal sex?

Oh, don't get me wrong. I completely understand your bias. I also see nothing wrong with it, in theory. But, she has a mind of her own and I"m inclined to let her use it. I don't like someone making my decisions for me, so I give that same respect to others.

It's my guess she already has someone in mind to take her anal virginity, and it's not your husband, nor is it me. And, more power to her.

You are very intuitive...

I do have someone in mind and he and I have discussed it. Although I think he wants to assrape me (read my grudge fuck posts) due to the fact that I have been pressing his buttons.

But he would be very gentle and push me to the limits I want to attain...then assrape me.

I have a question...

Do men like brazilian waxes???