role reversal

[Blushing Bottom]

Yes Sir but is that wrong?

*wiggling botom*

gently rubs the switch in a circular motion over the reddning hand print. "it's the luscous bottom you are so eager to offer up for my enjoyment my dear.
Terri

 

[raven2]

Yes Sir but is that wrong?

*wiggling botom*

Doesn't sound wrong to me. But a little more reddening would make it more attactive. plus the wiggling just helps you improve you aim. lol

 

[Blushing Bottom]

Oh you Doms are all the same...the blushing bottom is never red enough.

Doesn't sound wrong to me. But a little more reddening would make it more attactive. plus the wiggling just helps you improve you aim. lol

 

[Terri_Vixen_cd]

Yes Sir but is that wrong?

*wiggling botom*

no, it is quite arousing to see you wiggle against the switch you cut, tenderly I take a few strokes,,,
Terri

 

[Blushing Bottom]

Purrrrrrrfect

no, it is quite arousing to see you wiggle against the switch you cut, tenderly I take a few strokes,,,
Terri

 

[pandoravampire]

from my own experience, i wanted to sub. But never got that vibe toward a dom/me. None inspired me to want to submit to them. Hence my topping phase. Which i was crap at. The one area that really interests me, is the sado part. And i discovered i dont have the necessary control for that.

But in my search and getting to know a few Dom/mes. When it came to play, turned out............they were pretty submissive. Or rather their control was not as strong as mine. So i ended up on top again. zzzzzzzzz So i stopped looking.

i wouldnt identify as a switch, coz im not versatile and only serial monogamy for me, not a popular stance, but mine anyhow. If i got Dom chemistry from a person, id lap it up. Just didnt.

Till now. Now im in a D/s 24/7 monogamous relationship and loving it

But when the sap rises, gee it caused problems in the beginning. It took time to find a compromise that works for us. It is something that we are aware of and can prepare for. But that still doesnt stop some of the fireworks!
But my need to dominate, is less than my need to submit to Him. I keep that in mind.

in the early days, i was cognitively sabotaging our relationship, with thought like, id not of done that, or, he's made a mistake there. Once made the huge mistake of wielding the whip myself. Ouch, never again!

Being any identification in this lifestyle is difficult within a relationship. Being what might be termed a switch, is more so i think. Duality in a submissive is something that i struggle with from time to time.
As our relationship developed, so did our coping mechanisms.

One of mine, is to deliberately not fuel my dominant side, by exposing myself to it. I dont watch fem domme porn, i dont read fem domme threads. And i avoid male submissives. I dont communicate with them. And i went on the pill to prevent pmt which lowers my acceptance of dominance over me.

some may believe that this is a denial of my full self. But on a needs fullfillment list, im doing great. I know what side my bread is buttered. And its subwise.

pandoravampire ( a old name from pre-sub days)