Sassy/Playful pets

Friendly reminder: being a brat isn't the same as being an irritating or manipulative ass.

That is all.
 
I can't even really figure out if I do or not.

I like personality. I have a really wide latitude, I really don't care about the small stuff, in fact my bottom half probably makes 90 percent of the detail decisions around us.

When I put my foot down, it's down. I expect it to be heeded, and that's it. If this happened all the time, then things would be rigid and boring. Since it doesn't it's hot and interesting. I like struggle everywhere except my bedroom, unless it's "ha ha you win" levels of fucking around, and that I have a low threshold for compared to a lot of people.
 
sassy or bitchy

I think there is a big difference between the two.
because when I'm sassy its adorable but
when I'm bitchy it never ends well.. I like to be a
little to sassy sometimes to get spankings tho;) lol
 
I tend to be a pretty sassy sub. I enjoy pushing my Dom to the point that he playfully reminds me of my place. There is nothing more arousing to me then when he refers to me as "subby". The mental sparing is stimulating and this can be a really fun certain of foreplay especially if their is wrestling involved. Every D/s relationship has something that works for them but I know we wouldn't want anything else. My Dom always says that he doesn't want a doormat or a robot that just says "Yes Sir" all the time. My number one priority is always good pleasure and I want to be a good and obedient sub but a little resistance is fun sometimes. That feeling when he is just emanating with power, strength, and control is what makes me love him more and more everyday.
 
I tend to be a pretty sassy sub. I enjoy pushing my Dom to the point that he playfully reminds me of my place. There is nothing more arousing to me then when he refers to me as "subby". The mental sparing is stimulating and this can be a really fun certain of foreplay especially if their is wrestling involved. Every D/s relationship has something that works for them but I know we wouldn't want anything else. My Dom always says that he doesn't want a doormat or a robot that just says "Yes Sir" all the time. My number one priority is always good pleasure and I want to be a good and obedient sub but a little resistance is fun sometimes. That feeling when he is just emanating with power, strength, and control is what makes me love him more and more everyday.

I agree with you:) A little resistance is fun .
 
I'm afraid I couldn't get through the first paragraph of your post, OP. You must be very physically attractive.
 
Switching is what works for me...I like being in control of a sexual situation,deciding on the positions I want us to fuck in, then later....I like to be manhandled....nothing like a strong man pulling my hair and shoving his cock down my throat in passion...

Switching can be incredibly erotic.. as the best subs know how to top....;)
 
Marquis why do you say you couldn't get through the first paragraph? Also how does that translate to her being attractive?
 
my partner and I don't really do the official Dom/sub thing, but it IS that kind of dynamic. I used to feel like to be a good sub/bottom/whathaveyou I had to be 100% obedient, and that sassyness was just disrespectful and immature. I've kind of done a 180 on that. I'm a person first, and a sub second. Sometimes I'm just not in the mood to kowtow to ANYone, straight up. Those moods are rare, but they do happen. More often, it's more that I just feel like being playful. I just feel like a relationship where every order is followed to the letter and every sentence is replied to with "yes Sir", ect... loses some spontaneity and fun. I pushed my PYL the other day. I was just playing, and he knew it (and trust me, it was a SOFT, playful push). He told me later that he liked that I did it :) But I had to see what he would do..and he reacted even more forcefully than I expected... which was of course, fun :cool:

So yeah. Put me down as a playful, occasionally sassy sub. it's just how I'm most comfortable, and how he wants me as well, so it works for us :)
 
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It really depends on my mood.

I'd say this was true for me too. I usually think of myself as someone who likes the sub to do as she's told, but at the same time, if I don't have an excuse to put her over my knee it's just not as fun.

I wouldn't say I necessarily go for the "bratty" type though. I just don't mind a little cheekiness now and then.
 
Yes

I enjoy when my little Star acts up in minor ways. She only does it at home which is a plus. I don't think pets should act up publicly because it reflects badly on me. When there is company about or other males she is always on her best behavior. But sometimes when we are at home she will get just sassy enough to get a time out on her knees or spanked. It keeps me on my toes and reminds me as well as her when I'm being too lenient or when she's getting away with a bit too much. I very much enjoy her little spark.
 
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