Second meetup

[curiousguy80]

So envious of you congratulations! I bet you can’t wait to see him again

Things went well the 2nd time, I feel each meetup going fwd will be less awkward and with less nerves to meetup. Just not sure when he'll be here next, or when I'll be able to make my way to his state.

I do have a more local person I met here on lit years ago, we still chat often. He's up to date with my 2 meetups, and is eager to meet with me as well, however getting our calendars to match up is difficult.

 

[mtsnowrider]

Things went well the 2nd time, I feel each meetup going fwd will be less awkward and with less nerves to meetup. Just not sure when he'll be here next, or when I'll be able to make my way to his state.

I do have a more local person I met here on lit years ago, we still chat often. He's up to date with my 2 meetups, and is eager to meet with me as well, however getting our calendars to match up is difficult.

Good luck. Obviously more local would be ideal if it works out

 

[Uncut1969]

Things went well the 2nd time, I feel each meetup going fwd will be less awkward and with less nerves to meetup. Just not sure when he'll be here next, or when I'll be able to make my way to his state.

I do have a more local person I met here on lit years ago, we still chat often. He's up to date with my 2 meetups, and is eager to meet with me as well, however getting our calendars to match up is difficult.

good luck hopefully it will work out for you

 

[dingdongditchding]

Back in January (2025), after years of being curious, I was able to push past the nerves and met a business traveler at a hotel local to me, and was able to briefly give him oral. I remember it being awkward at first when he opened the door. He was the first person I had met in real life who had similar bi thoughts that I have. Before him, I had never seen another cock, other than my own, in real life.

As I took him in my mouth and felt him come fully erect, I remember liking the feeling of having a cock in my mouth. My only regret is it didn't last long, I needed to get home asap.

Fast forward almost an entire year, and he'll be back in town next week. We've stayed in touch the entire time. In fact, he was here a few months ago, but I could not break away from my home life to meet with him.

Problem is, I'm feeling the same nerves I did the first time I met him in person. After the first encounter, I would've met him the next night if he was in town. I had zero reservations. I couldn't wait to feel him in my mouth again. Now, I'm afraid I may back out, like I've done countless times in my journey.

Anyone else go through similar for their 2nd time? I thought once I got the 1st experience behind me, it would be easier. Especially since it's with the same guy who I met and gave head to just a few short months ago. I know I need to push past the nerves again like I did back in Jan, and that I'll enjoy it once I have his cock in my mouth again. As the day approaches, my anxiety builds.

just had my 2nd with the same guy and I was nervous too, we had a great time.

 

[curiousguy80]

just had my 2nd with the same guy and I was nervous too, we had a great time.

Nice! Did you try anything new during your 2nd time?

 

[dingdongditchding]

yes, cum in mouth this time

 

[dingdongditchding]

You are so very fortunate that you have come up with this arrangement. I'm still trying to figure out the logistics of how I can suck my first cock without my wife finding out and I'm in my 50's.

Did you manage to get him to cum in your mouth the first time if that was your goal? Time after time I read personal accounts that once that happens you're addicted to it, and deep down that is also what I fear - developing a thirst for the cum of other cocks after experiencing it for myself the first time and never getting to quench it again.

Be brave. You can do this. Don't allow yourself to have regrets later on about what could have been. I have a few of those of my own and I could kick myself for not taking advantage of the opportunities.

addiction, well you (me) had the desire beforehand and when I first tasted another mans load right from his cock I realized I DO LOVE this fantasy, now real action. I am still new to COCK, I want more. I also want to be careful so it takes time to meet a man for fun. I live alone so I can host!!!

 

[bobmd]

Happy to say I was able to push past the nerves and met with my friend again last night. This time I got to get the full BJ experience, sucking him from start to finish; and had my cock sucked by a guy for the first time in my life

That’s terrific!

 

[SCRob95060]

One second meet up began well enough then became very scary but ended up great.

Despite hardly knowing the guy I got naked in his apartment. He was holding my head as I sucked his cock when the front door opened and in walked three guys laughing. They knew exactly what was going on it had been a set up.

I couldn’t run away, I was trapped, fortunately they weren’t violent, they all wanted to, and got, blowjobs.

 

[tall758]

For me, it’s not anxiety, but anticipation. My heart poinds when I think of the upcoming encounter, knowing how submissive I’ll feel with his hard cock in my mouth as he’s using me to extract his pleasure! The point of his release is one of the best feelings in life to me, then I proudly swallow it down waiting for the next encounter.

 

[Persuademe]

For me, it’s not anxiety, but anticipation. My heart poinds when I think of the upcoming encounter, knowing how submissive I’ll feel with his hard cock in my mouth as he’s using me to extract his pleasure! The point of his release is one of the best feelings in life to me, then I proudly swallow it down waiting for the next encounter.

You could sell ice to Eskimos .

 

[Uncut1969]

For me, it’s not anxiety, but anticipation. My heart poinds when I think of the upcoming encounter, knowing how submissive I’ll feel with his hard cock in my mouth as he’s using me to extract his pleasure! The point of his release is one of the best feelings in life to me, then I proudly swallow it down waiting for the next encounter.

So sexy

 

[Uncut1969]

One second meet up began well enough then became very scary but ended up great.

Despite hardly knowing the guy I got naked in his apartment. He was holding my head as I sucked his cock when the front door opened and in walked three guys laughing. They knew exactly what was going on it had been a set up.

I couldn’t run away, I was trapped, fortunately they weren’t violent, they all wanted to, and got, blowjobs.

Wow sounds scary and hot all at same time

 

[klippert]

My buddy and I will often meet for a beer and casual conversation. He said to me once.. "At times he feels the bartender, she knows what we do together" or other people in the establishment know... as if we are wearing shirts that say..."we suck and fuck each other"

 

[bobmd]

One second meet up began well enough then became very scary but ended up great.

Despite hardly knowing the guy I got naked in his apartment. He was holding my head as I sucked his cock when the front door opened and in walked three guys laughing. They knew exactly what was going on it had been a set up.

I couldn’t run away, I was trapped, fortunately they weren’t violent, they all wanted to, and got, blowjobs.

Nice happy ending!

 

[dingdongditchding]

I would like to have 2 or 3 male FWB. at least one that only feeds me. I just suck his cock.

 

[Lemmetri]

Happy to say I was able to push past the nerves and met with my friend again last night. This time I got to get the full BJ experience, sucking him from start to finish; and had my cock sucked by a guy for the first time in my life

Congratulations! It feels so good to be intimate with a man!

 

[Lemmetri]

One second meet up began well enough then became very scary but ended up great.

Despite hardly knowing the guy I got naked in his apartment. He was holding my head as I sucked his cock when the front door opened and in walked three guys laughing. They knew exactly what was going on it had been a set up.

I couldn’t run away, I was trapped, fortunately they weren’t violent, they all wanted to, and got, blowjobs.

That is my favorite fantasy! I hope you enjoyed living my fantasy!

 

[PG564E]

He did suck me as well. We took turns, and we 69'd until I came (not in his mouth), then I turned around to keep sucking him until he came in my mouth. The only thing i hoped would be different is that I would've been able to swallow. I'll try again next time, whenever that may be.

3rd time will alter your sex life forever - very sexy your first 2 times I know. Your going to love the intimacy, the texture and amount of his warm sperm. your deep desire to swallow your friends cum will rule your mind until the 4th time perhaps. You and I, so many men just fall in love with sucking dick - it is fantastic.

 

[gk6h]

3rd time will alter your sex life forever - very sexy your first 2 times I know. Your going to love the intimacy, the texture and amount of his warm sperm. your deep desire to swallow your friends cum will rule your mind until the 4th time perhaps. You and I, so many men just fall in love with sucking dick - it is fantastic.

So true can’t get enough

 

[Cardinal]

Lucky man, how did you meet this occasional business traveler? This sounds ideal

 

[SigmaJay]

Problem is, I'm feeling the same nerves I did the first time I met him in person.

I have been blown three times. I also started in late 2025. My first time I was very nervous. Each additional time, each with different people, have been less so. I am hoping to continue and make it a matter of routine. Being married 30+ years makes the whole experience doubly awkward having been accustomed to the same sex partner for decades.

 

[Britva415]

Being married 30+ years makes the whole experience doubly awkward having been accustomed to the same sex partner for decades

Awkward? Or awesome?

 

[Don_private]

Things went well the 2nd time, I feel each meetup going fwd will be less awkward and with less nerves to meetup. Just not sure when he'll be here next, or when I'll be able to make my way to his state.

I do have a more local person I met here on lit years ago, we still chat often. He's up to date with my 2 meetups, and is eager to meet with me as well, however getting our calendars to match up is difficult.

You were originally asking for advice for this feeling…ok, here is exactly how I got over my nervousness when meeting men or couples…before I arrived at their place or hotel…I would text them that I will be there soon and I want to jump in the shower when I get there to wash up………THAT started the ball rolling for the session/situation, they knew exactly what my first step would be when I got there, they knew that I would be naked after the shower…(I always came out of the bathroom with just a towel on)…it gave the guy or couple easy access to my naked body when they decided to begin…and it put people at ease…when one person is already naked (except for towel)…it tends to get the ball rolling quicker.
If I was hosting…I would greet whomever, women, men and couples…in just silky gym shorts and no underwear, and a tee shirt…and as I was the host…I would ALWAYS make the first move…if with a bi couple, I would crawl onto the bed and see which of the couple followed first…lots of ways to make people relaxed and comfortable …if they host, after the shower, they make first contact…if me?…I go to the bed first to start. Hope that helps

 

[Don_private]

One second meet up began well enough then became very scary but ended up great.

Despite hardly knowing the guy I got naked in his apartment. He was holding my head as I sucked his cock when the front door opened and in walked three guys laughing. They knew exactly what was going on it had been a set up.

I couldn’t run away, I was trapped, fortunately they weren’t violent, they all wanted to, and got, blowjobs.

Still scary situation