Self moderation in Pro BDSM

[Netzach]

I'm strictly a girl's girl myself. I'm actually pretty relaxed about sex in general. But i've also been with partners that I found frustrating to have to communicate with on the topic. I dunno, maybe the rest of the relationship was so fairy-tale that to have to be reasonable and practical in this aspect was just frustrating and all.
Its entirely possible that it was just me, too, and where I was in my life.

Oh, well yeah, that.
Definitely. I guess when it comes to pure sexual mechanics, I can talk all day and don't get why some dude paying me to whip his ass can't explain himself. When it comes to the backdrop, ugh, those conversations are always less pleasant.

 

[Vail_Indigo]

Oh, well yeah, that.
Definitely. I guess when it comes to pure sexual mechanics, I can talk all day and don't get why some dude paying me to whip his ass can't explain himself. When it comes to the backdrop, ugh, those conversations are always less pleasant.

You have to wonder, if he COULD explain himself (and I'm willing to bet even he doesn't fully understand what he needs), maybe he wouldn't need to go to a pro

 

[Netzach]

You have to wonder, if he COULD explain himself (and I'm willing to bet even he doesn't fully understand what he needs), maybe he wouldn't need to go to a pro

Depends. The reasons are as myriad as the clients, and not all of them are socially weird, some of them are socially agile.

Some of mine were perfectly good communicators, they became the ones I kept seeing. Sometimes they were communicating between the lines, not really aware of what they were telling me, but they were always very happy with the scenes because I *could* make sense of them by watching and interpreting.

 

[Vail_Indigo]

Depends. The reasons are as myriad as the clients, and not all of them are socially weird, some of them are socially agile.

Some of mine were perfectly good communicators, they became the ones I kept seeing. Sometimes they were communicating between the lines, not really aware of what they were telling me, but they were always very happy with the scenes because I *could* make sense of them by watching and interpreting.

*chuckle* I think I'm far too lazy and self-centered to do this work