The Ocotopussy is a lovely thing, but its better when you also use a wand on top of it, as is the Crystal Jelly G-Spotter. While the Crystal Jelly looks like an alien creature, its just fine, but you have to move it a bit, for it to do anything but buzz. The Slimline is the same way- hard seems to make me come a little more slowly, but having something to clamp down on does help.
For the best time I've ever had, try a Pices Pearl or Beaver Pearl(?). It has a rotating head to insert and a clit stimulater that vibrates against you. Both of the speeds are variable, but try to get one with a remote control, so you don't have to keep your hand between your legs the entire time controlling it(how embarrassing!).
The Pices Pearl has given me some earthshattering moments- its well worth the money (It even has a little face of a man on it, its kinda cute). Hell, I've recommended it to several girlfriends, and they all agree that its-possibly- better than a man.
The little ones by Candida Royalle aren't worth the money, so don't bother.
The little strap on dolphin didn't do much for me, except hurt, but then, I'm kind of delicate <g>.
If you like strap on buzzers, though, A ladybug is the way to go, its a jelly, and the antennae vibrate against your clit in the most amazing way, and you can wear it when you are haiving intercourse. It has a remote, so he can play with the speeds, while you're on top <swoon>. That particular toy helped with the best orgasm of my life. If your man likes toys, that's the way to go, for your first *together toy (aside from handcuffs, of course).
I agree- the Beaver is the best. Rotates a shaft inside you for that "full" feeling while the beaver tongue vibrates your clit. Amazing. Works every time.
Ben wa balls just haven't done much for me. Not enough stimulation I guess.
Toys are great.. couldn't live without em.. but I broke my favourite... a Pearl Bird I think its calld.. rotating shaft with "pearls" in it and has a clit tickler.
Word of warning >>Dont sneeze with a vibrator in you!<< I busted the rotating mechanism. grr.. at least the clit tickler still works, but its just not the same...
You Sneezed? Oh, thank God that's all it was, I broke mine, too, but I thought I had just worn it out :O (It seemed a little sudden and soon for that to have happened)Though it came with a registration and warrenty, I didn't send it in, since who the heck wants to say that she broke a vibrator from overuse?