Sex With Married Others

[Nicenashguy615]

I traveled for work for many years. Nice hotels big expense account there were always a lot of good looking woman doing the same. Some picked me up some I picked up. Many were married, the rings gave it away but seldom did the married part come up.

Always wondered if my wife ever did with all my traveling. If I was a betting man I'd say the odds are high that she did which is fine with me. Sex is sex then move on. Do you think its more common than what we think? I know everyone on this site talks about sex and its on our minds so who knows

I’ve heard a thousand times, always from women, that men are FAR more prone to cheating. Nothing could be further from the truth! I’ve slept with a dozen married women and most of them got that ball rolling. It was never me wearing them down.

And I worked thirty years in law enforcement so tons of women in the agency. Plus, that industry has no secrets so everyone knows their coworkers habits. Out of all those women, I am hard pressed to think of five who didn’t cheat. Everybody was fucking one another. And since everyone also dated and married from that same pool of people, scandals were fucking nonstop! Like a damn soap opera. Hell, I can think of one lady who used to soapbox preach constantly about the sanctity of marriage and how cheating was evil. She had a years long affair blow up when her husband (another cop) caught her on her back. It was ugly!

So yeah, everyone is more than capable of giving in to temptation. I applaud the ones who don’t but never pretend one gender is somehow above that. And after all, it’s just sex.

 

[wildchild24143]

I don't really care much if the man I hook up with is in a relationship or not tbh.

I'm willing, he's willing and that's good enough for me.
Especially one night stands.
It's just sex for us. No strings attached.

I grew up in Japan where it's not uncommon for both men and women to have sexual affairs.
They often won't admit or mention it.

In the Netherlands (where I live now), I have a fwb who's married. His wife knows (she even watched sometimes).

So I guess it's no big deal for some.

I'd like to be in thay type of situation but with me being the one who watches.