coastalfishingguy
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We are a sad bunch…. I am horny as fuck most of the time. You’d think at 69 that would have slowed down. Well is has for my wife..
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Hit me up if you want to do more than talk.Lol. Actually quite sick of talking if you know what I mean
Rivvie, I will be happy to help. PM and let's see if we can help each other.One more thing I’ll offer that’s a bit personal..
He finally heard me. And he agreed to an open marriage for me to fill the needs I have that he does not and has no desire for in the future. He’s not open enough to want to know if I do or not... but at least he finally understands.
It may only be a bandage. Time will tell.
I’d eat out your pussy and ass and fuck you deep and hard.we have sex but it is so boring
You should put more men on the job. Contract it out like the government does.we have sex but it is so boring
Her statement was in 2019.Hit me up if you want to do more than talk.
tell him to spice it up, or you will!we have sex but it is so boring
Its hard isn't it. I long to feel desired and wanted. We still have sex very occassionally, but it's such a lottery and never from her.So I’m not married but long term live in relationship. His health has not only caused ED but total and complete lack of libido at only 57 years old. I’m not even 50 yet. He’s not touched me sexually in a year. It was bearable during my long term relationship on lit but it’s since ended many Months ago so now just here. lol thanks for reading my ramblings
Just dropped on this thread - what an eye opener. I am on Lit exactly for the same reason - intact sex drive and needs while my wife has lost hers and avoids sex. Would love to PM with any of you M or FI know all about the health issues. My wife has them. That can be definitely frustrating.
I can relate. Lit is great. But you just can't beat the real thing once in a while.Just dropped on this thread - what an eye opener. I am on Lit exactly for the same reason - intact sex drive and needs while my wife has lost hers and avoids sex. Would love to PM with any of you M or F
My issue is that my wife is willing and pretty good but no way she can keep up with me and how often I want it and how long I can go.
She does try but it's nowhere near enough.
Yep, nothing kills the mood than...."Honey can you hurry up and cum?"
....and shades of High School flash through my mind.....
That happened to me this weekend. Finally had a weekend where we could at least have sex. I initiated in the middle of the night Saturday morning. She was asleep and I cupped her pussy with my hand so she woke up wet. When she moved I sucked a nipple. Finally got her to climax and hopped on as I know she isn't going to do that for me. I gave her another and got my nut. There I was pushed off to go to sleep. Sunday morning she wanted it. Started good playing with me really hard and the sex part was boring kind of. She couldn't cum? Was wet different than normal. When I was on top it was like she wasn't participating. I don't know. Odd. Did you come yet was her words. I felt like I was jerking off. Then this morning all was well. She got on for her ride she likes. I got on top and got her another before I did. Then I stayed close and was ready to enter for round two and I was rebuffed. She did have to go to work. Maybe I was making her late.Or when you've cum once, still hard and the wife doesn't want round 2
I feel this could go on a t-shirt.... "More Pussy, Less Porn"10 years now....I need a fuck buddy....more pussy less porn...lol
My situation is exactly the same as yours and yes a lit relationship would be a great thingI'm on the male side of your situation although we are both 60.
Menopause & health issues killed her sex drive, nothing in 3 years but it would help having a Lit relationship.
Fingers crossed
That was my situation at first, boring sex. She never initiated anything then acted like it was a chore for her, no matter what I tried. Finally became nonexistent and been that way for several years nowwe have sex but it is so boring
In exactly the same position but this is due to her not being so well at the moment.Anyone else with this problem?
I have a high sex drive and the wife doesn't.
Looking for others with this problem, and possibly helping fill our needs.
You should convince to go for a 69, at least both of you get off!So just an update after a post into giving cunnilingus without getting reciprocated.
Our marriage is still mostly sexless - I haven't actually had intercourse for almost a year. However had 2 intermate sessions lately.
3 weeks ago I used my usual trick of slowly using my wondering hands in bed to turn from a sort of massage - feel to brushing over her pussy. This usually causes a whisper of "no not now" or having my hand quickly removed. On the odd occasion i get away with then proceeding to massage her lovely pussy.
As I did so i could feel her pussy lips moisten. As I continued she gently placed her hand on the back of my head encouraging me as I kissed down her body. Needless to say I was then busily swirling my tongue around her pussy lips and clit. Now I do have a thing about analingus and as my tongue moved down to her anus he hand reached out and stroked my hardness.
I loved every moment of using my tongue and giving her a lovely orgasm. I didn't get one but loved the intimacy. This coupled with me giving her cunnilingus in to the weekend is showing glimers of her enjoying my attension.
I know she struggles with intercourse now and feels guilty about not giving me my horny needs - but I'm hoping she is beginning to trust that I want to keep the intimacy and that we have to go with the changes that we go through. She is right on the edge of menopause (and has been for some time) so I am hoping that she can still get pleasure and we can do more rather than just put up with a sexless marriage. WIll probably be back to nothing for a few months again but will keep you posted.
Still will find my horny release here on Lit or other places for the moment - its almost like a double life.
We are all in this crazy thing together... But look across the Literotica dialogues and there’s so much sadness and frustration as relationships are tested to the limits. Behind all the fantastic exploits and explicit scenarios there's so much unhappiness too. Women who are not getting the satisfaction they need from insensitive partners. Men who ache for better sex lives than they’re getting from unresponsive wives. The loneliness of people who are denied rewarding relationships at all. And we all fret over those missed opportunities and failed loves in our past, when things went wrong and fell apart.It is tough living without sex. There are so many on Lit that are experiencing this. It is a terrible club to be a member of. It's been 3 years for me. He still wanted to hug and kiss hello sometimes but it was actually too hard for me to have a tiny bit of affection and never having anything else at all. It is emotionally draining. Sigh