Sexual frustration and symptoms

[YourCaptor]

Viewing women as objects… yes I know, it fucking sucks.

I swear I’m about to start foaming from the mouth and go on a fuck rampage.

I cant let myself do it, it goes against my morals, and at this point exploding into fire during orgasm is a serious concern.

Frankly this goes against every ounce of moral fiber within me, I hate viewing the world through this lens, I hate seeing women this way.

Theirs no end in sight, I can just go and pick up that 1 in 10, I have never done that, it goes against my values, if I was to do that then why not just view all women as sex objects too. I can’t do it, must control it.

I wonder how long till I start viewing men as objects? I think my blood has a higher testosterone content then it does oxygen.

 

[faeriefire]

huh?

*laughs* oh, wow! poor baby...sooo much angst *evil grin* I suspect there's at least one lady out there who'd love to be objectified by u. Good luck with that *still laughin* Ah sarcasm.

 

[YourCaptor]

*laughs* oh, wow! poor baby...sooo much angst *evil grin* I suspect there's at least one lady out there who'd love to be objectified by u. Good luck with that *still laughin* Ah sarcasm.

Not angst but frustration with myself.

And I don’t want to objectify, I hate that, I usually take other guys to task for doing that.

The hypocrite I am.

It’s very disturbing when you realize you’re only watching this perfect stranger walk across the room because you know she has a pussy.

Finals week is coming up, and I can’t seem to go 30 seconds without thinking about pussy.

The whole teacher student thing is breaking down too, have been taking one too many professors to task. Too aggressive.

I try to take out the aggression in the gym, but the gym of course is coed too, and a lot more girls appear to be flashing me more smiles then usually, and all the ones I know wants hugs. Grrrrrr!!

To top it all off, I think I took the wrong meds today.

Crumbling, but I'm still holding it together.

Something tells me this years spring break is going to be something I regret.

 

[faeriefire]

I'm sorry

...sorry life is frustrating for you at the moment. As a student myself I can definately empathize. It can be hard to concentrate when your mind is elsewhere

For me exercise seems to work, but then I avoid the gym and stick with running outside, swimming or biking, so a little less watching hot sweaty bodies may be the reason that works.

Is it hypocritical if you don't act on your frustration?...or just if you seek and find a nameless, faceless body for mutual use? And if you do is the physical relief greater, or the mental anguish?

Here I was thinking men really delight in the college frat-boy mentality. Good to know there's at least one exception. Take care and be safe if you do let loose

 

[YourCaptor]

I think I may have to place a booty call.

At least it will be with someone I know well.

But on the other hand I wonder how much relief that would buy me, days, hours, minutes, I don’t know.

Shit, I need to get back to this essay

The irony is this would probably be one of those awesome, stay in bed all week things, if I had a SO

 

[zeldaisabella]

For me I obsess about it for about a week. I plot ways to get him or any other male alone and undressed. I spend hours reading/watching porn. And then I get bored. By the second week, I have found other things to occupy my time. I rearrange the furniture, clean out the cabinets, do all the laundry and do all those little things I've been threatening to do all month.

I've been married (divorced now) so going without seems almost second nature, lol.

 

[astarfallaway]

Those all sound like symptoms. Irritability, feelings of loneliness and isolation---like you're not part of the social happening. Generally sexual frustration is a result of not getting any, which can make you feel left out, ugly, or inferior in other ways. And because you don't get that release, which your body rather feels is healthy due to endorphines, then you can get heightened sex drive, yes.

I know EXACTLY how you feel. I haven't gotten ANY action, that includes kissing, for over two years. *Sigh* I went through all that stuff you're going through----only went past it into the realm of apathy and indifference. My body responds to drought by shutting down. It's annoying.

 

[satindesire]

I get stupid.

Literally.

When I can usually calculate even large numbers in my head only, have a vast database stored up in my grey matter of all sorts of geeky trivia and can even rub my tummy AND pat my head at the same time...

...but when I don't get laid regularly my IQ goes down about 40 points.

I lose my glasses (on top of my head) can't find my keys (left them in the door) don't know where my wallet is (put it in the grocery bag) etc. To top it all off I also forget how to spell very simple words like "except" and "Malicious".

I also have a tendency to cut myself whenever I'm handling anything sharp, and being a server I handle knives all the time. I also drop shit constantly and break things without meaning to.

I get really clumsy and stupid. It's ridiculous.

 

[VelvetDarkness]

I swear I’m about to start foaming from the mouth and go on a fuck rampage.

I think my blood has a higher testosterone content then it does oxygen.

Something tells me this years spring break is going to be something I regret.

You are truly priceless. Dry spells are soul destroying, I hope yours ends soon and that you don't regret it... too much.

when I don't get laid regularly my IQ goes down about 40 points.

I'm exactly the same. Anything more than a month and my IQ drops below my shoe size. I have short term memory loss too, it's like some kind of twisted, hormone induced Alzheimer's.





*sigh* I really could be such a slut if Master didn't have me on a short leash.

 

[priapiscean]

Yeah, good old sexual frustration. I get a condition called priapism which is basically a boner that lasts forever. And then, since the merry months of February and March are when I emerged from the womb, sexual frustration will lead me to create fancy nicknames for myself that meld my hard-cock condition with my birth months and come up with something like....

Oh wait a minute. Fuck.

Fucking sexual frustration.

 

[FuckMeEyes]

ROFL!

Haha, I don't think I have the chutzpah for that.

Just wait until one of those nights where you have a hard time falling asleep and your hear your roomy's bed sheets fluttering away in the dark.

Well, that's what happened to me, anyways. Then I looked at my roommate a little bit differently after that and saw him as being just as human and needing as I. Getting caught quietly, yet furiously pumping away with my hand doesn't feel nearly as embarrassing as having said roommate describe how I kept him awake in my top bunk during a wet dream.

 

[loststar]

I am an army wife, and I go for loooooooooong dry spells.
Its been 8 months and I am going fucking INSANE! I have turned incredibly cruel,
tormenting guys in bars that try to pick me up, leading them on, on and on.
But to be just a little fair, I tell them they dont have a chance before hand, but
youd be surprised how many dont listen. I have also taken to objectifing people
somedays I feel absoultly awful because when a hot woman walks by all I can
think about is pinning her to the wall. I cant think strait most days, and on my worst days I cant start my day without at least 2 orgasams. I have gotten far
more controlling, and right now want nothing more than to completely dominate
any one for a night.

 

[TirelessTongue]

Sexual frustration is a topic I know much about. I've spent alot of time sexually frustrated and have had massive dry spells with dating.

There are times where I would masturbate once a day which is a lot more than usual for me. My sexual frustration has led me to visit a local AMP (Asian massage parlor) where the massages have a happy ending and cost $180 per session. I'd also blow money at regular strip joints where I just needed some sort of female contact. Just to have a woman nearly or fully nude sitting on my lap and giving me a dance was nice once in a while.

Then there was the point of me being too horny. I was taking interest in Transsexuals/shemales and wondering what it would be like to have a hookup with one. They seem rather hard to find if you are looking for a passable one that won't cost you money. This added to the frustration.

Working my hours also hurts my potential for dating and potential relationships.

 

[satindesire]

Sexual frustration is a topic I know much about. I've spent alot of time sexually frustrated and have had massive dry spells with dating.

There are times where I would masturbate once a day which is a lot more than usual for me. My sexual frustration has led me to visit a local AMP (Asian massage parlor) where the massages have a happy ending and cost $180 per session. I'd also blow money at regular strip joints where I just needed some sort of female contact. Just to have a woman nearly or fully nude sitting on my lap and giving me a dance was nice once in a while.

Then there was the point of me being too horny. I was taking interest in Transsexuals/shemales and wondering what it would be like to have a hookup with one. They seem rather hard to find if you are looking for a passable one that won't cost you money. This added to the frustration.

Working my hours also hurts my potential for dating and potential relationships.

You should be more judicious where you go for your flings, a lot of those little Asian massage parlors are human slavery dens where those girls are held as unwilling laborers trying to pay off a massive, illegally incurred debt.

Craigslist might be a safer option. I've seen the ads and they might be a little less pricey...The pros there are more than likely willing prostitutes instead of imported slaves.

 

[Happily_Variant]

Sexual frustration can result in negative cognitive and affective states of intense physiological response. I have observed responses that involve social withdrawal, depression, anger, more violence in fantasy and increased masturbatory activities that intensify beyond the normal pleasure that an individual has experienced in the past.

 

[midwestyankee]

If significant and persistent physical presentations that coexist with the condition are considered to be symptomatic, then I would have to say that the most common symptom of frustration for me would be breathing.

 

[FurryFury]

I'm wondering if my husband will have more time and energy soon.

*prays*

 

[Bi_Kitty]

I know when it has gotten bad when the dresser starts looking good only if it moved in the right way, LOL.

 

[TeachMeSir]

ON or OFF

I have an ON/OFF switch. I can't just switch it though (unfortunatly). But if I'm horny I can just take care of it myself .. not so satisfying but still does the job. If there is someone inspiring me then I can't do it myself ... it just isn't as good ..... Then unfortunately the switch is ON but I don't control it.

And to be honest, there are times I would rather go without sex ... well, not in the last few years, but when I was dating boring guys. It wasn't that I didn't want it. It was just that I would rather do it alone with my wicked thoughts than suffer through 15mind of fumblings in the dark to be left wide awake & pissed off & most likely in the wet spot which was never from me due to their absolute selfishness!

 

[TirelessTongue]

You should be more judicious where you go for your flings, a lot of those little Asian massage parlors are human slavery dens where those girls are held as unwilling laborers trying to pay off a massive, illegally incurred debt.

Craigslist might be a safer option. I've seen the ads and they might be a little less pricey...The pros there are more than likely willing prostitutes instead of imported slaves.

Craigslist also has plenty of police stings and con artists. I guess that just goes with the territory.

 

[satindesire]

Craigslist also has plenty of police stings and con artists. I guess that just goes with the territory.

I concur.

Perhaps a visit to a local fuckbuddy would be in order, then? Both of the aforementioned avenues of satisfaction have their extreme shortcomings.

 

[TirelessTongue]

I concur.

Perhaps a visit to a local fuckbuddy would be in order, then? Both of the aforementioned avenues of satisfaction have their extreme shortcomings.

Fuckbuddy? I haven't had one of those in a long time. I sure miss that...

 

[satindesire]

Fuckbuddy? I haven't had one of those in a long time. I sure miss that...

ah, too bad. Try a local bar, there seems to be enough one night standers and promisucious girls here in Muskogee to go around. It can't be THAT hard to pick up a random drunken fling every once in a while in a city the size of New York. ^_^

 

[TirelessTongue]

ah, too bad. Try a local bar, there seems to be enough one night standers and promisucious girls here in Muskogee to go around. It can't be THAT hard to pick up a random drunken fling every once in a while in a city the size of New York. ^_^

I avoid New York City like the plague. Bars and clubs are not my thing either. I just tried to meet a dominatrix from Craigslist where she gave me a complete run around. Total waste of time. She gave me a number to call, I called 3 or 4 times and even left a message because all I ever got was an answering machine. She claims I never called her and she never got my message and that the number she gave me was the right one.

I'm very fucking sexually frustrated right now.

 

[Daddyslilpet]

I guess I'm an odd duck here, because when I get sexually frustrated I shut down after it has been too long. I can't be left frustrated or my body will no longer crave sex. Just how it works for me.