Sexy Dreams

DVS said:
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In fact, I'd rather not remember them, because I get them mixed up with reality. I haven't been able to remember them for so long, if I started remembering them, I'd be totally confused. I don't like being confused.

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I can relate to this, during the past year or so I have had dreams which feel like a memory of things that happened when my sons were young. Yet when I wake up it is very clear the incidents I remembered never actually happened. Nothing in the dreams have been awful, they have been simple ordinary stuff such as a conversation or a day out. Nothing special.

They leave me puzzled and confused as to why I would think such a thing.

I usually remember my dreams but they used to be a patchwork quilt of ordinary stuff in my subconscious. Not all of them, some were very bizarre or ones which would cause me to wake up terrified.

I have a fear of the dark which may account for some of the terrible dreams I have had.

In an odd way the ones that seem to be a memory are more unsettling than any other sort.

Retrival, it sounds like you used to be able to have lucid dreams. :)
 
graceanne said:
I've found that dream orgasms suck. *shrugs*

That is not the case for me on the rare occasions I have sexy dreams and those dreams actually reach completion.

leavessnailtrails said:
I feel the opposite. They can be so much better than my real ones.
Luckily for me, I dream so vividly that often times I have no way of distinguishing between reality and dreams. It gets sort of problematic at times, you know, when you wake up mad at the person who's lying next to you. Or you plan on playing in the snow with your dog and kid, until you realize it hasn't snowed. Funny how you can make perfect sense out of it snowing in Los Angeles in your dreams. I remember arguing about how long it had been since the last time that happend in my dream...

As for the orgasms, they rock!
I remember a dream I had not too long ago, about being a cumbucket or something like that, for the entire Senate. Something about their being old and ugly, and (maybe most disturbing) Republican turned me the heck on.
Maybe no more progressive (now mainstream) talkradio for me, right before bed.

I've done that before but usually it was bad stuff like I had broken both of the thermometers and my dad was sick so I'd wake up and look for them.

Sometimes they were including sleep walking so I'd walk out of the house, around the pool and to the car to get catsup out of the car because Chad Everett was coming over for dinner and I'd made eggplant sticks. I'd wake up and eventually realize it was only a dream while I tried to open the car door. *sigh*

There are times I wake up and say to my husband don't you dare ever do that to me. Whatever he did in my dreams. LOL.

Oh and children are very often in my dreams. I have them, complete with labor. I am given them. I find them abandoned. I inherent them. I'm working on that. Supposedly it means I'm not taking enough care of the child within me.

But that cumbucket thing for icky folks? That is a hot fantasy of mine in my waking hours. LOL.

shy slave said:
I can relate to this, during the past year or so I have had dreams which feel like a memory of things that happened when my sons were young. Yet when I wake up it is very clear the incidents I remembered never actually happened. Nothing in the dreams have been awful, they have been simple ordinary stuff such as a conversation or a day out. Nothing special.

They leave me puzzled and confused as to why I would think such a thing.

I usually remember my dreams but they used to be a patchwork quilt of ordinary stuff in my subconscious. Not all of them, some were very bizarre or ones which would cause me to wake up terrified.

I have a fear of the dark which may account for some of the terrible dreams I have had.

In an odd way the ones that seem to be a memory are more unsettling than any other sort.

Retrival, it sounds like you used to be able to have lucid dreams. :)

Stuff like that puzzles me. I dream a lot of that.

I also dream a lot about people that are dead now. It hurts. Whether it is my dad and I want to know where the fuck he has been but he won't tell me.

Or my ex to whom I'm irretrievably married when I want to be married to my current husband. My ex also keeps coming back alive not matter how many ways I kill him to hurt me and my girl again.

Even sweet memories are somewhat painful when I wake up and the person I miss Dad or Grandfather is not there.

There is often conflict with my Dad over religion or his duplicity and abandonment. That's why it was so nice to have the cock sucking dream. I've dreamed of sex with him often but this time was pure joy and without guilt which has never happened before. Lovely.

The other night I dreamed about a girl with short curly hair. This is very unusual because I'm not into short hair on most women. I love looooong hair. Anyway, she and I were intensely attracted. She made the first move into me, our bodies curving against one another while she nibbled my neck. I moved with her, slammed her into a wall, we made out a LOT. It was as hot and suprising (to me) as hell.

*sighs*

I need to get laid. I need a scene. I need me time. I need a lot of things. LOL.

Fury :rose:
 
leavessnailtrails said:
I feel the opposite. They can be so much better than my real ones.
Luckily for me, I dream so vividly that often times I have no way of distinguishing between reality and dreams. It gets sort of problematic at times, you know, when you wake up mad at the person who's lying next to you. Or you plan on playing in the snow with your dog and kid, until you realize it hasn't snowed. Funny how you can make perfect sense out of it snowing in Los Angeles in your dreams. I remember arguing about how long it had been since the last time that happend in my dream...

As for the orgasms, they rock!
I remember a dream I had not too long ago, about being a cumbucket or something like that, for the entire Senate. Something about their being old and ugly, and (maybe most disturbing) Republican turned me the heck on.
Maybe no more progressive (now mainstream) talkradio for me, right before bed.

I hear that. I spent years furious with my mother, because when she got married she told me that my sister could be the flower girl, but I was just there cause I was her daughter. Turns out it never happened - not even my sister recalls that happening (my mother used to have split personalities - I don't rely on her memory much). All I can figure is I dreamed it. Once I woke up crying, and spent the whole day depressed because I was sure my cousin was dead. It wasn't till part of the way through the day that I realized I'd dreamed it. :rolleyes: Luckily most of my dreams are impossible so once I wake up I know it didn't happen. There aren't vampires in the bathroom of my house(which oddly enough looks like the bathroom at the highschool I went to) that are turning everyone into bats. Large, human sized, spiders are not on the cliffs by my house (no cliffs by my house, fyi) waiting to drop down and suck my blood.
 
graceanne said:
I hear that. I spent years furious with my mother, because when she got married she told me that my sister could be the flower girl, but I was just there cause I was her daughter. Turns out it never happened - not even my sister recalls that happening (my mother used to have split personalities - I don't rely on her memory much). All I can figure is I dreamed it. Once I woke up crying, and spent the whole day depressed because I was sure my cousin was dead. It wasn't till part of the way through the day that I realized I'd dreamed it. :rolleyes: Luckily most of my dreams are impossible so once I wake up I know it didn't happen. There aren't vampires in the bathroom of my house(which oddly enough looks like the bathroom at the highschool I went to) that are turning everyone into bats. Large, human sized, spiders are not on the cliffs by my house (no cliffs by my house, fyi) waiting to drop down and suck my blood.

That would be terrible to be angry for something that never happened.

But dreaming of vampires and bats is way cool in my book.

Fury :rose:
 
FurryFury said:
That would be terrible to be angry for something that never happened.

But dreaming of vampires and bats is way cool in my book.

Fury :rose:

I thought so, too. Which is why I don't mess with my dreams - I'd have never thought to do that myself. My dreams, left alone, are way cooler than anything I can think of.
 
hehe lets see, last one i had invovled me, my sub, and a lesbian... the rest u can come up wiht on your on :p
 
I enjoyed my poly dream. I blame it on Marquis both because of his thread about it and for saying that Big Love is good. I was afraid of Big Love. So thanks Marquis!

*smiles*

Fury :rose:
 
I had not had a wet dream in years...

As with most of my dreams, specifics are hard to recall or sort out...

I was tied, wrists only above my head. She was sitting on my face and I was getting great fellatio...

She came and fell off me, and I was still getting head... but came quickly...

when I saw a latex (or leather, I don't know) clad woman doing it to me...

then I woke up, cum all over... it was intense.

I wish I could remember more of it.
 
When I first started researching BDSM I had a series of dreams. Sometimes they would be about the Dom I was chatting with. Sometimes about things I had read about. In one I was babysitting for a couple and they asked me if I was interested in doing a few other things for them as well... Gah. That dream was hot. Once I dreamed that I was eating out a female friend of mine. Hot and odd, since I have no reason to think she's not straight and I've haven't tried being with a woman yet.
 
I didn't have sexy dreams last night, just weird dreams. I spent all night just sure I NEEDED to sleep in the living room. I woke up like 11 times in the hall way, on my way to the living room. At one point I dreamed that K told me to go sleep in the living room, so I did. A few hours later I woke up and though 'huh?' and went back to my bed. :confused:
 
graceanne said:
I didn't have sexy dreams last night, just weird dreams. I spent all night just sure I NEEDED to sleep in the living room. I woke up like 11 times in the hall way, on my way to the living room. At one point I dreamed that K told me to go sleep in the living room, so I did. A few hours later I woke up and though 'huh?' and went back to my bed. :confused:
I'm a little confused. Were you waking up in your dream, or really waking up in the hallway? :confused:
 
Otherkorean said:
When I first started researching BDSM I had a series of dreams. Sometimes they would be about the Dom I was chatting with. Sometimes about things I had read about. In one I was babysitting for a couple and they asked me if I was interested in doing a few other things for them as well... Gah. That dream was hot. Once I dreamed that I was eating out a female friend of mine. Hot and odd, since I have no reason to think she's not straight and I've haven't tried being with a woman yet.

Interesting. I've dreamed of being with a woman but haven't do it yet and probably won't. My dreams are not about oral sex but simply kissing, stroking skin, making out and such.

Fury :rose:
 
graceanne said:
I didn't have sexy dreams last night, just weird dreams. I spent all night just sure I NEEDED to sleep in the living room. I woke up like 11 times in the hall way, on my way to the living room. At one point I dreamed that K told me to go sleep in the living room, so I did. A few hours later I woke up and though 'huh?' and went back to my bed. :confused:

I'm confused too.

It sounds like a rough night indeed.

*hug*

And to think I was only trying to save the world (children, animals and people close to me, mostly,) from aliens and bad guys.

Fury :rose:
 
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I mean when I woke up I was in the hallway, walking toward the living room. I don't recall getting out of bed, I'm not even sure why I got out of bed. (And no, I don't have a history of sleep walking.) I do know that when I woke up I knew I had to go sleep in the living room.
 
graceanne said:
I mean when I woke up I was in the hallway, walking toward the living room. I don't recall getting out of bed, I'm not even sure why I got out of bed. (And no, I don't have a history of sleep walking.) I do know that when I woke up I knew I had to go sleep in the living room.

Sounds really strange to me.

*hug*

Fury :rose:
 
Ever have one of those endless nights of dreaming or dream fragments that stream all night long? Usually they are irritating, indicating a lack of solid sleep but I had a great night of them last night.

I barely started dreaming about sex and came! Shocked me awake!

Then I had some wonderful scene dreams that didn't make me come. Strange but wonderful!

Fury :rose:
 
I ahd a dream about an ex last night.....
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Yeah ex dreams ain't pretty for me either.

I was busy saving the world again last night.

There was no sex damn it.

Fury :rose:
 
I have vivid dreams so often that I feel odd when I don't have one. Sadly, few of them are sexy dreams.
 
Otherkorean said:
I have vivid dreams so often that I feel odd when I don't have one. Sadly, few of them are sexy dreams.

Maybe you should see if you can "prime" the pump?

You know read a little Lit before hand. Keep sexy images in your mind and then see what happens?

If you can sleep at all.

LOL.

Fury :rose:
 
FurryFury said:
Maybe you should see if you can "prime" the pump?

You know read a little Lit before hand. Keep sexy images in your mind and then see what happens?

If you can sleep at all.

LOL.

Fury :rose:

Odd thing is that I normally have a few random sexy daydreams throughout the day, but they rarely impact my dreams. That and the last 3 dreams I've had have all been epic style, very vivid and followed the same 'script'. Sadly, this means no sex in any of them.
 
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