Sexy not slutty

[greyjim]

Which photo would you find sexier for not just having in private but also to be published on your social media site where friends and family could see your significant other in photos that would in previous years been kept private?

...both are nice pictures, however in the second picture....the smile is fantastic

 

[Inspirinious]

Which photo would you find sexier for not just having in private but also to be published on your social media site where friends and family could see your significant other in photos that would in previous years been kept private?

Ah, now we have something a bit more specific.

I vote #2, the pic with a smile and leather jacket.

 

[lexiexstacy]

Ah, now we have something a bit more specific.

I vote #2, the pic with a smile and leather jacket.

So why is the one with the smile and only my face showing better then the one with much more skin showing?

 

[MacGuffinn]

I would say both those are sexy. The first is a more provocative sexy, though.

 

[de_valmont]

Which photo would you find sexier for not just having in private but also to be published on your social media site where friends and family could see your significant other in photos that would in previous years been kept private?

They are both sexy and wonderfully slutty, in a different way. You have a quite weird method of fishing for compliments, little one. And you perfectly triggered many guys' attention for the photos.

 

[lexiexstacy]

I didnt want to post my pics but it seemed to be the only way to get what I was trying to say and dont want compliments just opinions on why guys opinions on sexiness change so suddenly to where anything could almost be seen as sexy which leaves many women confused on what that fine line between the two really are.

 

[Inspirinious]

So why is the one with the smile and only my face showing better then the one with much more skin showing?

Good question. I believe that some earlier posts hinted about how confidence is sexy. I will add that personality is sexy. A smile, especially a lovely smile, and a sparkle in the eyes, say a lot about a lady.

Just showing skin, or pulling the hair up in a provocative way does not make someone sexier.

And to confuse things a bit more, being sexy is not all about sex. It is more about being attractive and interesting in many ways, one of which may involve sex.

 

[lexiexstacy]

Good question. I believe that some earlier posts hinted about how confidence is sexy. I will add that personality is sexy. A smile, especially a lovely smile, and a sparkle in the eyes, say a lot about a lady.

Just showing skin, or pulling the hair up in a provocative way does not make someone sexier.

And to confuse things a bit more, being sexy is not all about sex. It is more about being attractive and interesting in many ways, one of which may involve sex.

Okay then to take another twist on it, Which would you avoid, an over abundance of confidence making the person cocky or "A bitch" or someone shy and unsure of themselves

 

[Inspirinious]

I didnt want to post my pics but it seemed to be the only way to get what I was trying to say and dont want compliments just opinions on why guys opinions on sexiness change so suddenly to where anything could almost be seen as sexy which leaves many women confused on what that fine line between the two really are.

It is NOT a fine line. It is a wide fuzzy area dependent upon many variables. The person, the viewer, the pose, the look, makeup, clothes, the situation and the context. So many factors.

 

[Inspirinious]

Okay then to take another twist on it, Which would you avoid, an over abundance of confidence making the person cocky or "A bitch" or someone shy and unsure of themselves

I like a self-assured, independent lady. Not overly bitchy, rude, or aggressive. One that wants to be friends in a comfortable, sharing mode. She can be a bit playful, and teasing.

I would avoid someone that is overly abundant (extreme) on anything.

 

[Porkwarrior]

Which photo would you find sexier for not just having in private but also to be published on your social media site where friends and family could see your significant other in photos that would in previous years been kept private?

I don't find the smiling leather pic sexy at all...now if I knew you, or knew the setting, it could be. But it could also just be you having a drink on a Friday at your favourite lounge.

Now the second pic...that is sexy because it is you being deliberately provocative and looking for very animalistic reactions. Either wanting someone very specific to crave you physically, or alternatively to get a little envy & jealousy at how good you look & feel from a circle of friends if you post it publically on a social media site.

And my personal take on the line between sexy & slutty pics...if you can only show it to someone you want to be naked with, or post it anonymously...it's slutty.

If you can show it to your real life friends, and won't be fired over it...that's sexy.

Okay then to take another twist on it, Which would you avoid, an over abundance of confidence making the person cocky or "A bitch" or someone shy and unsure of themselves

The one that doesn't take seventeen posts to answer a single question ofcourse!

(just teasing you a little)

 

[LongPenStroke]

Okay then to take another twist on it, Which would you avoid, an over abundance of confidence making the person cocky or "A bitch" or someone shy and unsure of themselves

I always avoid the bitch. I have come to the opinion that women who think of themselves as a bitch are really nothing more than bitter people who feel insecure.

 

[RawHumor]

Which photo would you find sexier for not just having in private but also to be published on your social media site where friends and family could see your significant other in photos that would in previous years been kept private?

If these pics would be on my Facebook, then definitely #2. I really like your smile there anyway, so that'd get my vote either way. Plus, I don't really want my family and friends to see my girlfriend in her bra.

That being said, the bra pic would be sexy if you sent it just to me (as your theoretical boyfriend - I'm not literally asking you to send it to me).

 

[lexiexstacy]

If these pics would be on my Facebook, then definitely #2. I really like your smile there anyway, so that'd get my vote either way. Plus, I don't really want my family and friends to see my girlfriend in her bra.

That being said, the bra pic would be sexy if you sent it just to me (as your theoretical boyfriend - I'm not literally asking you to send it to me).

Thank you for your response and honesty

 

[Red320319]

PM'd you a response

 

[PhxPlay4n6]

Where is the line between sexy and slutty and how can you be sure not to cross it?

It's about your self-esteem and whether or not you feel ashamed to do what you're doing. In my opinion, no man or woman should feel shame for enjoying the best their body has to offer.

 

[Good2BeBad67]

In my opinion these are two entirely different things. Sexy is a very positive thing, slutty isn't. Slutty means you will fuck anything that walks. Slutty to me means you don't have standards. Someone is sexy for who they are. Slutty is more of how you behave. You can be both sexy and slutty.