sexy talk with wife

[bobb64]

my wife knows I suck cock but don't want to know who i'm sucking or when i'm doing it. so not much sexy talk about it.

 

[sterculius]

My wife and I have been married for 30 years, but it was only about 5 years ago that I admitted to her that as a teenager I'd been my best friend's personal cocksucker and would give him blowjobs usually every day and often 2 or even 3 times that same day. She was surprised, but ultimately dismissed it as adolescent sexual experimentation, which, in a way, I guess it was. I neglected to tell her that I still 'experiment' and routinely meet with men to suck their cocks. When she did ask if I still felt the urge to suck cock, I lied and told her no. I don't like being dishonest with my wife and I have attempted, on numerous occasions, to reopen the conversation in the hope that I might somehow get her to accept my oral obsession, but she immediately changes the subject, the last time becoming quite annoyed by my persistence. I think she might suspect that I'm still a cocksucker but would prefer not to know for sure.

 

[Curious51228]

I’ve been married 20+ years. Super happy together, great sex, but sort of dwindling in frequency. Wife and I have used a strapon, had some naughty talk about having a 3 some with another guy, but never had a direct conversation. Long story involving chatting, trading emails and pics with other guys, and finding that I really really liked it led me to have “the talk” with her. I told her straight out that I was attracted to sex with other guys and admitted to my online activities. She was very cool about it and we had an amazing talk about what I wanted to do (pretty much everything), whether I wanted to try the “real thing” (I don’t right now) and how we would navigate that if/when I do want to. The conversation opened up a whole new channel of communication for us and led to some amazing sex for weeks. Probably had more sex in the month after we talked than in the previous 6 months. Lots of fun fantasy talk about sharing a cock, me getting fucked while I fuck her, and talk about having an MMF threesome. Neither of us is ready to take that step, but it’s given our sex life a real shot in the arm!

I feel really lucky that I can be open about this with my wife and she’s OK with me continuing to explore virtually. If anyone is up for online “play”, PM me with a little of your “story” and what interests you. I love hearing from married guys who have had experiences that they’re willing to share. Have already heard some really amazing (and hot) stories from several guys.

 

[sardog1]

I’ve been married 20+ years. Super happy together, great sex, but sort of dwindling in frequency. Wife and I have used a strapon, had some naughty talk about having a 3 some with another guy, but never had a direct conversation. Long story involving chatting, trading emails and pics with other guys, and finding that I really really liked it led me to have “the talk” with her. I told her straight out that I was attracted to sex with other guys and admitted to my online activities. She was very cool about it and we had an amazing talk about what I wanted to do (pretty much everything), whether I wanted to try the “real thing” (I don’t right now) and how we would navigate that if/when I do want to. The conversation opened up a whole new channel of communication for us and led to some amazing sex for weeks. Probably had more sex in the month after we talked than in the previous 6 months. Lots of fun fantasy talk about sharing a cock, me getting fucked while I fuck her, and talk about having an MMF threesome. Neither of us is ready to take that step, but it’s given our sex life a real shot in the arm!

I feel really lucky that I can be open about this with my wife and she’s OK with me continuing to explore virtually. If anyone is up for online “play”, PM me with a little of your “story” and what interests you. I love hearing from married guys who have had experiences that they’re willing to share. Have already heard some really amazing (and hot) stories from several guys.

This is almost my exact situation as well. Was great to open up to my wife.

 

[Vafunman42]

Sucking

I told my ex wife that I had sucked some cocks when I was younger and she replied that she would like to see me do it. I found a guy and then we sucked each other while she watched, It was so hot and it turned her on. We only did it a couple of times before we got divorced .

 

[CaffeinatedHub45]

I told my ex wife that I had sucked some cocks when I was younger and she replied that she would like to see me do it. I found a guy and then we sucked each other while she watched, It was so hot and it turned her on. We only did it a couple of times before we got divorced .

I told mine a few years ago, too, and she said the same. Thank goodness for kinky wives

 

[BrokenQuill]

I mentioned it to my wife several years ago. It was probably the worst mistake ever, and has it taken many years to recover our marriage.

Now I keep my thoughts and desires to myself.

 

[Wageslave]

I mentioned it to my wife several years ago. It was probably the worst mistake ever, and has it taken many years to recover our marriage.

Now I keep my thoughts and desires to myself.

That's such a shame. A little understanding would have been nice.
Did this happen before you met her?

 

[BrokenQuill]

That's such a shame. A little understanding would have been nice.
Did this happen before you met her?

Yes, it was something so far in the past that I didn't think it relevant to our relationship in the early days. As time passed, it became an elephant in the room that needed to be out in the open.

 

[Wageslave]

Yes, it was something so far in the past that I didn't think it relevant to our relationship in the early days. As time passed, it became an elephant in the room that needed to be out in the open.

It her past without blemish?
Why is she so bothered about it?
How did you resolve the issue?

 

[BrokenQuill]

I'm sure that no ones past is without blemish, but she was uncomfortable with the situation. I'll pm you later with the full details

 

[Wageslave]

I'm sure that no ones past is without blemish, but she was uncomfortable with the situation. I'll pm you later with the full details

Ok.
But no pressure - only if you feel comfortable