Sharing wives

[Silvergrizzly31]

How do people do this? The thought of it sounds interesting but then I read cuckold stories and I just don’t think I could do it. The thought of sharing someone else’s wife sounds fun, but I think I would be too insecure to think that my wife would like fucking someone other than me. How do guys get over this fear or is it just a step you have to take in order to potentially get another girl in the bedroom

That logic of doing it to potentially have another female join you makes sense, but I have found both in real world experiences as well as some of the people I work with that really doesn't enter their thought process. Some, yes, but very few with my experiences. I think sharing a wife is a kink like getting a blowjob, or liking anal or heavy petting. The couples I have been fortunate to be with all have that same kink, as well as knowing and communicating (if you read my posts at all that is the theme of the day...communication haha)

What part of those cuckold stories makes you hesitate? Is there a demeaning aspect to it, not being able to participate, a power dynamic etc? I would suggest, not that you asked so my apologies, boiling it down to the simplest aspect and see if that triggers you to not wanting to move forward. so like if you saw your wife touching another man's arm and giggling, or hugging, with her arms above his shoulders LOL. Your reactions can tell you an awful lot in the direction you want to go.

 

[waynevan]

My asian wife and I have shared. It was great.

 

[Handydan]

My asian wife and I have shared. It was great.

Agreed. Lots of fun.

 

[Not Normal]

I'm in a bit of the opposite position. I'm currently a shared husband. My wife isn't interested in playing with others, but I always have been. 10 months ago she made it happen for me, and though not without some growing pains, it has made me and my new partner (her friend) quite happy.

 

[lc69hunter]

How do people do this? The thought of it sounds interesting but then I read cuckold stories and I just don’t think I could do it. The thought of sharing someone else’s wife sounds fun, but I think I would be too insecure to think that my wife would like fucking someone other than me. How do guys get over this fear or is it just a step you have to take in order to potentially get another girl in the bedroom

Maybe I am bit a bit naive, but what are you afraid of? It is just sex. I have never understood this

 

[lc69hunter]

I'm in a bit of the opposite position. I'm currently a shared husband. My wife isn't interested in playing with others, but I always have been. 10 months ago she made it happen for me, and though not without some growing pains, it has made me and my new partner (her friend) quite happy.

My second wife loaned me out several times

 

[Handydan]

My second wife loaned me out several times

Nice of her.

 

[Not Normal]

My second wife loaned me out several times

Yeah, it's pretty great to have that sort of trust from the most important person in your world.

 

[Handydan]

Agreed. I've shared my wife. Trust is a huge part of it.

 

[lc69hunter]

Yeah, it's pretty great to have that sort of trust from the most important person in your world.

It is all about trust, and love, and knowing that you are the most important person in each other's lives. That is why neither one of us were interested in affairs, or boyfriends or girlfriends, or bulls, or anything of the like. Remember, a marriage is about the core bond between the two of you. It is like a plant, and needs to be nurtured and watered on a regular basis. Keep that strong, and the marriage can and will go where you guys want it to go. Sound sappy? I admit, I am a romantic, and believe in love. And I do not believe that consensual non-monogamy violates that precept.

 

[kcanuk]

My asian wife and I have shared. It was great.

Would you care to tell about it?

 

[truman2005]

It is all about trust, and love, and knowing that you are the most important person in each other's lives. That is why neither one of us were interested in affairs, or boyfriends or girlfriends, or bulls, or anything of the like. Remember, a marriage is about the core bond between the two of you. It is like a plant, and needs to be nurtured and watered on a regular basis. Keep that strong, and the marriage can and will go where you guys want it to go. Sound sappy? I admit, I am a romantic, and believe in love. And I do not believe that consensual non-monogamy violates that precept.

Would love
To share wife

 

[Not Normal]

It is all about trust, and love, and knowing that you are the most important person in each other's lives. That is why neither one of us were interested in affairs, or boyfriends or girlfriends, or bulls, or anything of the like. Remember, a marriage is about the core bond between the two of you. It is like a plant, and needs to be nurtured and watered on a regular basis. Keep that strong, and the marriage can and will go where you guys want it to go. Sound sappy? I admit, I am a romantic, and believe in love. And I do not believe that consensual non-monogamy violates that precept.

That's all very true. I'm a dorky hopeless romantic as well. I remember the first time I went to see my Intimate Friend, I came home and talked to my wife about it, and told her I felt closer to her after the experience.

 

[NightL]

"Sharing wives"??? Like you really believe the husbands have any control over it? Sounds like a tacky 70s porn flick.

As for the original post - the words sharing and cuckold don't really work together.

 

[Handydan]

You might be surprised, I've known quite a few couples into sharing. My wife and I included.

Us as well. It's amazing how many are willing if the opportunity arises. I just received a nice naked picture of a friend wife last night who we haven't played with in years. Captioned " We are thinking about you"