she flashes me but im in trouble?

[bibethhotwet]

I know my husband checks out other women and he knows I in turn check out other men and women as well. No jealousy here and actually is a turn on. If there is another man or woman I am attracted to hubby will way with a smile, "we'll have to talk about that later", which usually means that person will be the object of some intense fantasy talk when we are fucking.

Jealously is a sign of a self confidence problem. Fortunately he nor I have that.

 

[Asian_Flower]

Maybe it was more your reaction....did you just look and smile or did your tongue roll out of the corner of your mouth?

 

[followmenow6969]

LOL..I have been known to say something like that many times

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It's pretty obvious Hubby nd I have th same taste in Women (we met on Lit 7 years go)

 

[followmenow6969]

Jealously is a sign of a self confidence problem. Fortunately he nor I have that.

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Agreed

 

[Eastcoast1956]

This weekend my wife and i went out for her friends 30th birthday with some other people as the night got late and people morr drunk the birthday girl flashed her big DDs. A nice sight...the second time she did it my wife hit me and tells me to stop looking. Really how am i not suppose to check out some nice big titties when they present themselves!!

My husband did not handle memorial day well, Husbands father set me up to go for drinks with a friend of his after a cookout on our porch, When the man offered his arm my husband offered a ride, to the emergency room to remove his arm from his rear. Offered the same to his father, except it was to preform a rectal crainial extraction as my husband put it, then husband took the place of the man I was supposed to escort, was this far beyond the bounds of good mannors, did my husband have this right?

 

[followmenow6969]

My husband did not handle memorial day well, Husbands father set me up to go for drinks with a friend of his after a cookout on our porch, When the man offered his arm my husband offered a ride, to the emergency room to remove his arm from his rear. Offered the same to his father, except it was to preform a rectal crainial extraction as my husband put it, then husband took the place of the man I was supposed to escort, was this far beyond the bounds of good mannors, did my husband have this right?

Your FIL is a huge DOUCHE My hubby would have kicked both their ass's on the spot and I would have spit on them both

 

[Eastcoast1956]

I know my husband checks out other women and he knows I in turn check out other men and women as well. No jealousy here and actually is a turn on. If there is another man or woman I am attracted to hubby will way with a smile, "we'll have to talk about that later", which usually means that person will be the object of some intense fantasy talk when we are fucking.

Jealously is a sign of a self confidence problem. Fortunately he nor I have that.

MY husband was not jealous he intended to prove who was in control memorial day and it scared the hell out of us.

 

[twister947]

First your father in law pimps you out, and then your husband goes macho. Quite a pair.

 

[Eastcoast1956]

MY husband was not jealous he intended to prove who was in control memorial day and it scared the hell out of us.

We had a cookout at our house, over the last 32 years we tried to get my husband to be responsible to others, We would scream, cajole, threaten him into working weekends and holidays, I guess we went to far ourselves, The society people that we have been inviting to holidays for the last 32 years while my husband worked 16 hour days are now his targets, one man was joking about how I was seen to by others while he worked, My husband returned the joke with one of his own, about how his first wife was seen to by a new husband who is black, said that son of yours that was born two years before your divorce looks a little tan, my father in law says his son better think to forgive us making him the better man, even when we had to do it at the point of a shotgun, that shotgun was found yesterday with a flattend barrel, and the receiver eaten up with battery acid.
Think my husband intentionaly ruined our holiday because we spent so many years ruining his. would other people forgive the past, or would you step in and make the holiday embarrassing, intrusive, and humiliating, I think my husband needs to be placed back in anger management.

 

[PokingFun]

**Steps up onto soap box**
I just don't understand where we have ended up as a society. So much emphasis has been placed on "being equal" that we have forgotten to recognize the differences that make us beautiful. Can't we just recognize beauty without all of the baggage?

I don't have tenancies toward sleeping with women, but if a woman walks by and she's hot I can recognize that she is beautiful without feeling like its a threat to me personally. I might direct my hubby's vision her way. I know he enjoys looking. It doesn't change that he is coming home to sleep with me. If he is all excited, then more power to us.

Recognizing and accepting beauty and our natural reactions to beauty is the first step in solving the body issues that people are having these days.

Next time you see those DDs LOOK and then tell your wife you're doing a public service.
Beauty without baggage.

**steps down from soap box and exits quickly before crowd throws food**

 

[sea7688]

my wife will point out other women as well if i dont see them. we will both enjoy the look

 

[mjolnir_1]

I have a clue I am just very quiet and using my superior height and peripheral vision to my advantage.

 

[LWulf]

My suggestion is to know the difference between "noticing" and "staring". If you are going to stare, then you need a backup plan like soflabbwlvr mentioned.

If you are getting in trouble for noticing then you have to explain that when you have a foot or two of dirt in front of your face (dead and buried), you won't notice anymore, but until that day...

Most women crotch-watch or buns-watch too, but they are better at just "noticing" it and not staring.

It's human to notice, but lecherous to stare.

 

[Aamazing1]

Lmao

When your wife hit you you should have just said "fake" in a derisive tone before she had a chance to tell you off.

Hahaha

 

[TimeCrisis]

Maybe it was more your reaction....did you just look and smile or did your tongue roll out of the corner of your mouth?

I might of looked harder then i should of but it wad a really nice sight!

 

[policywank]

We had a cookout at our house, over the last 32 years we tried to get my husband to be responsible to others, We would scream, cajole, threaten him into working weekends and holidays, I guess we went to far ourselves, The society people that we have been inviting to holidays for the last 32 years while my husband worked 16 hour days are now his targets, one man was joking about how I was seen to by others while he worked, My husband returned the joke with one of his own, about how his first wife was seen to by a new husband who is black, said that son of yours that was born two years before your divorce looks a little tan, my father in law says his son better think to forgive us making him the better man, even when we had to do it at the point of a shotgun, that shotgun was found yesterday with a flattend barrel, and the receiver eaten up with battery acid.
Think my husband intentionaly ruined our holiday because we spent so many years ruining his. would other people forgive the past, or would you step in and make the holiday embarrassing, intrusive, and humiliating, I think my husband needs to be placed back in anger management.

I don't think we ever get to tell someone else how to feel. It isn't something anyone can control. We can control how we react to our feelings and we may suggest to others how they might better react. However, no matter how much you think someone is wrong you don't get to disregard their feelings.

It sounds like whatever issues he has are made worse by your conduct. To the extent your reasons for not wanting him around are valid all the more reason it will feed his insecurity.

Also note their is a massive difference between guys joking with other guys about this sort of thing and you as the wife going along with it. The former is just hot air.....the way men bond. The latter can be taken as proof that you do want to be with other men. Yes one hopes your husband is mature enough to realize you are just joking, but are you? It doesn't sound like you give a damn about dispelling that insecurity. In fact it sounds like you would rather side with everyone else when taking his side would diffuse the whole situation. Next time his father or someone else makes a joke about you being serviced by other men try telling him how ridiculous that is when you have such a great man at home. If you can't bring yourself to do that and would rather mock your husband in front of everyone......well maybe he has good reason to be angry.

 

[policywank]

I don't mind a bit if my husband looks at other women. I know he wants to just like every other heterosexual man who is now living or has ever lived on this planet.

Asking him not to is just asking him to be dishonest. In a weird way when I see men pretending like they don't want to look I lose just a smidge of respect for him and his wife. She has obviously brow beaten him to be dishonest and he has capitulated.

There is a certain degree of decorum I suppose so that the person he is looking at doesn't become uncomfortable, but otherwise enjoy the view because I know I will.

 

[amofiga]

I've often wondered about some of those porno video clips I've seen, especially the ones that seem to come from Europe, where a woman is pissing in a subway station or on the street or she is getting her pussy eaten or sucking some guy's cock in a public park and there are all these people in the background watching. Are they real or set up "extras" for the scene? Most don't seem to running away shreaking in horror. Both men and women seem to stand there and watch with interest and amazement. Kind of like watching somebody freed from a car wreck. I've always lamented that whenever I've been in a subway station or walking by a park, I never see anything like that. LOL!!

 

[SoulWeavinGirl]

Oh, I know. I'm a bona fide freak of fucking nature.

And that's why you're my girl crush!

 

[EbonyBelle]

I've often wondered about some of those porno video clips I've seen, especially the ones that seem to come from Europe, where a woman is pissing in a subway station or on the street or she is getting her pussy eaten or sucking some guy's cock in a public park and there are all these people in the background watching. Are they real or set up "extras" for the scene? Most don't seem to running away shreaking in horror. Both men and women seem to stand there and watch with interest and amazement. Kind of like watching somebody freed from a car wreck. I've always lamented that whenever I've been in a subway station or walking by a park, I never see anything like that. LOL!!

The 'Public Disgrace' videos filmed in Europe use extras for the public. A few years ago they filmed some in the UK and trawled sex worker boards for extras. UK Flasher's is real, I have a friend who has done a few videos with them.

 

[stu_gats_2000]

And that's why you're my girl crush!

I think how you are thinking