Silent Communication

Shadowsdream said:
Silence changes dynamics if coupled with the removal of eye contact.
It changes once again with intense eye contact.
Silence can be as loud as thunder or as quiet as emptiness.

Silence is strength showing itself. Silence is weakness afraid of being found. Silence is hiding your true feelings. Silence is the sharing of completeness and comfort in a relationship. Silence is love/displeasure expressed with the eyes. Silence is deep thought.

For me, silence is also something that tells one that knows me well that something is troubling me.
 
As interesting as bumping threads up can be, it often kind of freaks me out to be reading feelings I had for people at that time that I no longer have at all, heh.

My how time changes things.

Anyhow...silent communication is still a big favourite of mine, although I haven't experience subspace in a long time. Ma'am and I have taken to using and learning some sign language lately, which is very interesting.

I want to take my ability to communicate silently to another level. I can't hear, so I'm very tuned into actions and my surroundings in ways others are not always alert to. I would like to be blindfolded for an entire day as well. No hearing, no eyesight. I could talk...but I would have to come up with new ways to understand the orders given me, to understand what Ma'ams desires for me are. I think the objectification feeling of that would be very powerful. I wonder if I would come up with new ways to understand my surroundings if my surrogate hearing was removed as well as my very lacking primary hearing.
 
J and i are often silent with each other and W/we are comfortable with it.

Silence during a scene when i can't see what's going on kills me because i am anticipating what is happening next.

Silence after i am asked a question usually means that i am embarassed to answer or i just don't know the answer or can't find the words. Silence by J after i ask Him a question usually means He just plain doesn't want to answer or He doesn't want me to know because it is a surprise. This kind of silence drives me BATTY. i love giving up control but this is one area that i have a hard time giving up control in. i need to know what is going on. Well, ok...i don't NEED to know.

Anyway, i have heard silence being used as punishment as well. Ignoring the sub in other words. i think this could be very effective. i haven't had it done to me. i would hate that.

Silence actually plays a huge part in my relationship with J because W/we do a lot of puppy play and puppies don't speak. i have to communicate with J without words a lot of the time. He is coming up with hand signals to use as commands in public which will be another level of silent communication.
 
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