Silly Irrational Sexual Fears

[Melesse]

My wife has the pee problem thing. She jumps up and runs to the bathroom.

Mine is more of a ...I dunno. I'm always afraid I'm going to come too soon. Most likely because when I was eighteen and nineteen, I could go for hours, but now (just 6 years later!) I'm lucky if I get 15-20 minutes of intercourse. I know all the stats about time lasting, etc etc, but I still can't help be afraid every time that I'm going to dissapoint her (We got together in my 'heyday').

Melesse

 

[onlyerics]

Farting. Not queefing. Farting.

LOL! That sounds like me! Before E and I do the deed, I make absolutely sure that if I feel like I do have to pass gas before we do it, I run to the bathroom and just let the air out.

I also have asthma, and once our lovemaking was so intense that it sounded like I was having an attack. E had to stop and asked if I was doing okay because he thought I was wheezing. I wasn't having one of course, but I did tell him that I had to catch my breath for awhile. I never think about having an asthma attack while we make love, but since that incident E likes to have my inhaler nearby.

 

[jadefirefly]

Once, several several years ago, a former partner was absolutely horrified to discover that I'd begun that months period during sex. To him it was the most awful, grossest thing.

Since then I've been with partners who don't have a problem with intercourse during that time, and I've got no problem with it... except I still have that stupid, irrational fear that I'll start -during- sex. For some strange reason, that is ridiculously embarrassing.

 

[SaraClarisse]

I remember being afraid that the slightest bit of semen could get me pregnant. I'd be wary of unisex toilets, and was very fastidious about cleaning myself off when when a boyfriend came on my body (I never used the pill...just condoms). I thought it might drip somewhere near my vagina or my washcloth might push some inside me. A particularly energetic sperm might wiggle all the way to my cervix, and I could get pregnant.

Of course, now that my husband and I have been trying for a baby for several months, all that early fear seems ironic.