Single older men..where are you??

[KatNW1]

It's the kindnesses, consideration and admiring looks that get me, not the bravado and bombast!

Truer words were never spoken...

I'm in my late thirties and my SO is, as he says, sniffing 50. (LOL) You're right - I don't know what it is, but even just the eleven, almost twelve year age difference makes SUCH a difference. I think part of it is they're not trying to prove themselves - they've done that already - they're more secure in who they are and what they've become (some aren't, but everyone's got a cross to bear from somewhere and we've all got baggage - but that's another thread).

He can be bombastic - and it makes me laugh because it's so incongruous with the rest of him.

And me? They're not busy chasing a twenty year old with huge tits and the rest of the stereotype. I'm not stacked, but I'm certainly no slouch - but I feel like what I do to take care of myself is as much for me as it is for him - can't explain it, but I think you get it...sometimes with someone younger I'd feel like I had to do X or Y to keep him (doesn't make it right, ladies or gents, but the girls know what I mean). I don't feel that way anymore. There's less judging, less BS - even around his friends, whom of course are all older as well - they feel more like real people.

Or maybe I'm just crazy.

Oh, yeah - and the sex? DEFINITELY better.

 

[WhatamIdoinhere]

In Colorado....I know of several.

 

[piccicatopolka]

When I was younger I REALLY dug older men but Clint Eastwood and the like are a bit too old to lust over now. Its funny to get older and realize that men in their 40s/50s are really what I'm sexually attracted to. It wasn't until very recently that I'd ever been with a guy younger than me.

If it was the love of my life I'd adore them through their aging and changes. Loving older couples are precious and I wish that for myself.

 

[LindsayRae]

I will help you live out what ever fantasies your sweet little heart desires I have been and acutal dad for 16 years (stepdad) but wife left me for her high school sweet heart. I like all sex so you fantasies cant posable offend or frighten me away. I alway liked the dad daughter fantasies. my ex used to call me dad or daddy and it gave me the biggest hard on. PM me if you want to go over a few fantasies and let me see if I can get thoes juices flowing

Ummm, Luvsthebeach28 started this thread back on 04/12/11 and never even bothered to come back to it. You're probably better off "helping her with her fantasies" in a PM.

 

[WhatamIdoinhere]

When I was younger I REALLY dug older men but Clint Eastwood and the like are a bit too old to lust over now. Its funny to get older and realize that men in their 40s/50s are really what I'm sexually attracted to. It wasn't until very recently that I'd ever been with a guy younger than me.

If it was the love of my life I'd adore them through their aging and changes. Loving older couples are precious and I wish that for myself.

I have nothing but the greatest respect for those who have survived 50 plus years of marriage. Takes a multitude of good qualities I think.

 

[CaliNineIncher]

Awesome...

an older man def gave me the best sex of my life

How old were you guys??