Sissy Obsession Overload...

[Bisexguy70]

I like this lol.....

I agree. But i still want pussy too. But when i have pussy, i imagine a cock in my mouth

 

[SuperSissy]

I think I need to add something to my post. I don't like the word "sissy" for reasons I've already explained. But I don't condemn or criticize anyone who uses the term or describes themselves as such. I don't like "sissies" in the same way I don't like tattoos, body piercings, or eggplant. It's just not something that appeals to me. Maybe it will someday. I might even learn to like eggplant. But my distaste for the lifestyle and my dislike of the word are two totally different things. If a new word were suddenly to replace sissy as it's used in these forums, a word that didn't have the emotional baggage for me that "sissy" has, I would still dislike that lifestyle. You're free to be a sissy, or anything else you might call it, and more power to you. But don't expect me to embrace it. I celebrate your freedom, not your lifestyle.

I can't find that post now, but sometime last year, I think it was, someone posted a comment (it may have been the original post in a thread) expressing surprise that any man wouldn't want to be a sissy. I replied to the effect that I would never do so, and I got blasted in the forum for being bigoted. Go figure.

I'm with you on the eggplant. However, it sounds to me as if your distaste for the term sissy is very personal. I have always been very masculine, even a bit of a bully in my teen days. On that stupid masculine/feminine test from the 50's I rate very masculine (I think it's mostly the questions about destroying stuff for fun). But I have been bisexual for decades, and I love sex with men, in which I have nearly always been submissive to the man. One role I love to take with a man is to be dressed feminine, and being a completely subservient, weak, cowardly sex-toy whose purpose is to satisfy and pleasure a man -- a "sissy", with all the sexual and societal connotations you so hate. I suspect it's not much different from some submissive cross-dressers (a label I happily wear as well), but I like the added label of sissy. To each their own. Some partners haven't wanted or liked that, so I get it. But avoid the eggplant, it's poison!

 

[xdresssissytoes]

I started viewing Literotica about 15 or more years ago. I only looked at pictures of women and especially lesbian photos as well as reading lesbian stories. As the years have gone by, I am 72, and the sex with my wife started to drop off I got interested in wearing panties. As time went on I have enjoyed dressing up with slips,stocking, garter belts and other sexy items. My wife somewhat put up with it. Sometimes she got into it and other times not so much. For the past 8 to 10 years I have had a desire to get together with a crossdresser. When I first started to look at Lit pic's and came across shemale pictures I thought they were all photoshopped. Duh! Now I know better and love looking at all the shemale and crossdressing pics. Still love pussy but that is not happening much with my wife. So I think for me the lack of sex and my desire to dress up has led to a desire to be submissive and be with another crossdresser. Hope that makes sense.

Makes a lot of sense to me...could have posted this myself! I'm in the same place with my girl...and the same place regarding dressing and being a submissive cd wanting to give pleasure to another cd or guy who loves receiving oral and giving me anal>

 

[tristantrotsky]

My God!! Im exactly like you. I feel your desires as well. Im in a very similiar situation. Sex with wife diminished after alot of her health issues. I started to try crossdressing. It turned me on so much. I started to experiment playing with other men. Now i find it incredibly erotic to dress up and submit to another man. I get a raging hard on dressed slutty and becoming a mans cocksucking whore.

Many years ago my school’s career advisor talked to me and told me to learn a trade. So I sucked the cocks of a couple of friends, discovered I enjoyed it, and thought yes, here’s a rewarding trade I can learn. So I did. Becoming a man's cocksucking whore is an worthy ambition we share...

 

[Bisexguy70]

Many years ago my school’s career advisor talked to me and told me to learn a trade. So I sucked the cocks of a couple of friends, discovered I enjoyed it, and thought yes, here’s a rewarding trade I can learn. So I did. Becoming a man's cocksucking whore is an worthy ambition we share...

I think mine is more of a hobby. But they say do what you love

 

[tristantrotsky]

I think mine is more of a hobby. But they say do what you love

The cocks we enjoy sucking don't care if its a vocation or a hobby, they just like to be sucked by the warm welcoming mouths that we supply...

 

[2tallpaul]

I was quite macho until I began dating sissies...........then turned gay.


https://i.imgur.com/YovsPEe.gif

I still play with women but men get me off more. When my lady said she would rock my world, she did. I didn't know I was submissive or a bottom until she brought it out.

 

[Bisexguy70]

The cocks we enjoy sucking don't care if its a vocation or a hobby, they just like to be sucked by the warm welcoming mouths that we supply...

Very true!! Its our duty to please. Nothing makes me more happy then making a guy moan and eventually shoot his semen

 

[bi_cpl_with_crossdresser]

Very true!! Its our duty to please. Nothing makes me more happy then making a guy moan and eventually shoot his semen

God, I love your thoughts.

 

[Tayloroc]

I suspect there are lot more closet dressers and fetishists with the advent of easy online shopping.

That is an astute observation. And the ease of seeing cocks online of course!

 

[Tayloroc]

I started viewing Literotica about 15 or more years ago. I only looked at pictures of women and especially lesbian photos as well as reading lesbian stories. As the years have gone by, I am 72, and the sex with my wife started to drop off I got interested in wearing panties. As time went on I have enjoyed dressing up with slips,stocking, garter belts and other sexy items. My wife somewhat put up with it. Sometimes she got into it and other times not so much. For the past 8 to 10 years I have had a desire to get together with a crossdresser. When I first started to look at Lit pic's and came across shemale pictures I thought they were all photoshopped. Duh! Now I know better and love looking at all the shemale and crossdressing pics. Still love pussy but that is not happening much with my wife. So I think for me the lack of sex and my desire to dress up has led to a desire to be submissive and be But panties and thigh highs are very much so. !with another crossdresser. Hope that makes sense.

We are in the same boat. Sex at home is maybe twice a year and not thrilling

 

[CurtGiles46]

I think the growth of the female domination kink during the 1990’s which was popular even among Washington politicians, cultivated the environment for more sissies nationwide and throughout the Western world in the 2000’s.

The sex therapy radio shows began getting more femdomme/crossdressing calls as early as the late 1990’s.

 

[MaryGlossMatte]

I think it my have more to do with the user base here than society more broadly... when I have looked at non-straight hook-up sites the sissy/fem/cd/trans users seems to be a small minority... When I am here it is to explore the non-straight side of myself, so my interactions might be more to that flavor... I don't go to gun sites, truck sites, photography sites, or golf sites to discuss my sexuality, and I don't discuss guns/trucks/photography/golf here...

I will add, I think there are a lot of people reading threads and not necessarily responding to them publicly... I have received a number of PM's (some of them very hot and steamy) from users whom I've never seen a post from... the who is posting vs who is reading dynamic may play it to the disparity you are seeing...

your post was an enjoyable read and well thought out and articulated. I just may follow you.

 

[tristantrotsky]

Very true!! Its our duty to please. Nothing makes me more happy then making a guy moan and eventually shoot his semen

Us cocksuckers are providing a valuable service in relieving male sexual frustrations and tensions that might otherwise have festered and resulted in violence and rape against women. I'm delighted to offer my mouth to be fucked if it will prevent just one case of unwanted sexual harassment against women...

 

[muycurioso]

https://www.sex.com/pin/65848719-cumshot-redhead-sissy-caption/ imagine the fun

 

[xdresssissytoes]

https://www.sex.com/pin/65848719-cumshot-redhead-sissy-caption/ imagine the fun

Mmmmm...want to lick the drip from her lips!!!

 

[stickygirl]

It's good to see a thread we can read instead of just another porn-pic thread - there are plenty of those.

From my pov as a trans woman, I view the sissy genre with respect but little interest. A comparison might be someone who restores furniture looking at steam train enthusiasts ie "I can see the appeal, but it does nothing for me."

As a baby trans, my early years were more kink and sexually driven because I was dazzled by porn, exploring my own sexuality and hormonally driven by testosterone: my Lit stories from 2012 reflect that. As time went on and I went from teen to adult, from pre-transition to full transition, my outlook changed. Instead of being mixed up about my sexual orientation, I've accepted I'm pansexual, which avoids a lot of heart-ache and confusion - make love to the person you love. Simple.

However on both sides of the Atlantic, there is a huge amount of transphobic politics, with laws being introduced every day to try to make us disappear. Instead of politicians presenting their economic ideas, they're talking about 'family values, pedophiles, women's spaces invaded' and even 'women being cancelled'. It's all a smoke screen to hide their incompetence by appealing to red-mist fear mongering.

If you're into a private sissy life and accept people have different passions, I hope you'll do what you can to back us up. Transgender people need your help, so please vote for equality and let us breathe. We're just people, not monsters.

 

[FeelingLikeMyself]

I have replied to this b4, but I agree. I like the idea of submitting to another man and sucking his cock. I am not gonna call him daddy, wear a cage, be degraded, ect. Wearing girls clohtes is fun and I do it once in awhile. IT IS A FREE COUNTRY and each to their own. I also dont understand all the humiliation and degration. Not for me I guess.

I don't get the humiliation and degradation myself. But I also personally don't roll that way, even though it seems that it seems to be extremely intertwined with the sissy and sissification kink itself. The humiliation/degradation aspect is definitely a BDSM sub kink (ba-dum-tiss) that I never desired to participate in as a Dom or Sub.

I even found the whole "sissy" label distasteful until I had it explained to me by a friend and was introduced to others who were into the kink itself and explained to me how chastity and other details of the kink work. And how even that there are sissies who don't feminize or crossdress.

I have tons of respect for people who put themselves out there like this, and the porn is definitely something else. The lust is fully driving them and it's just so damn hot.

 

[ChasBozwell30]

I think it's a very exciting fantasy, it has a lot of layers to it. Being a sissy, or feminised, is a new way to explore being bi, or exploring your own femininity. I have bisexual fantasies, fantasies about being submissive, beng pretty, yet being used. It's all as much psychological as it is physical.

Sissy porn/media is a great way to explore something you don't quite understand about yourself, it helps me to flick switches in my brain, realise that's there's more to me than i ever thought. It's hot.

 

[Escierto]

I don't get the humiliation and degradation myself. But I also personally don't roll that way, even though it seems that it seems to be extremely intertwined with the sissy and sissification kink itself. The humiliation/degradation aspect is definitely a BDSM sub kink (ba-dum-tiss) that I never desired to participate in as a Dom or Sub.

I even found the whole "sissy" label distasteful until I had it explained to me by a friend and was introduced to others who were into the kink itself and explained to me how chastity and other details of the kink work. And how even that there are sissies who don't feminize or crossdress.

I have tons of respect for people who put themselves out there like this, and the porn is definitely something else. The lust is fully driving them and it's just so damn hot.

One thing that you mentioned here I am curious about: sissies who don’t feminize or cross dress. What exactly does that mean?

 

[FeelingLikeMyself]

One thing that you mentioned here I am curious about: sissies who don’t feminize or cross dress. What exactly does that mean?

I was talking to a guy who identified as a sissy, a complete, submissive bottom who was very much into the scene but didn't feminize. I thought it was kind of strange myself, but he was from the UK and I thought maybe different scene, different meaning.

I don't think he would have put up too much of a protest if someone bothered to feminize him, though.

 

[Escierto]

I was talking to a guy who identified as a sissy, a complete, submissive bottom who was very much into the scene but didn't feminize. I thought it was kind of strange myself, but he was from the UK and I thought maybe different scene, different meaning.

I don't think he would have put up too much of a protest if someone bothered to feminize him, though.

Interesting. I was curious because I am a pure bottom for my transgender girlfriend. I don’t dress or feminize at all but I admit when it comes to sex with my partner, she is the man and I am the woman. My job is to serve her sexually.