Size queens and tit fucks

[K0fcali]

Unfortunately, I think that a lot of people of my generation felt reticent about expressing any sort of non-traditional sexual desires. Women who expressed such things might be thought to be promiscuous or impure (even if they just wanted to get freaky with their monogamous partner). And men who expressed such things were often viewed as "pigs" even if they simply wanted to experience these things with their trusting and loving partner. And it becomes more difficult to raise them as time goes by if the premise has already been established that one party or the other is not interested.

I have been fortunate to have a fairly adventurous husband. But I would say that once we opened our marriage up I made a fairly explicit point of being more direct about my desires with my husband and others. At this stage in life I feel as though my sexual partners have the right to know what I like in case it doesn't align with what they want. But I shouldn't feel hesitant to express it or ashamed of how I feel. Better to know where we all stand so that nobody is wasting their time. I have no idea if or how I could have gotten here without the opening of our marriage or some other relationship change (i.e divorce, etc.).

On that topic, I have known a number of people who changed their sexual habits substantially after being divorced or widowed. Most times it seems as though third-parties observing them conclude that they have changed somehow. I think that is more often the case that they haven't changed so much as they have decided to take the occasion of a new beginning to be more forthright about what they want. Hot wives are a great example of this dynamic. In every case that I know of we are seeking sexual variety and adventure (as opposed to a "better" man), but it is inevitably rooted in our sense of the variety and adventure that we want. I suppose that some would say that there is a selfishness to that in which case so be it. But for me exploring that freedom means doing so on my terms. I accommodate my husband, but won't let him be a constraint in any way, which can be a challenge to navigate.

so what you're saying is that women fake who they were entering into a committed relationship? if she was honest from the beginning she wouldn't have to "take the occasion of a new beginning to decide to be forthright about her wants".
I will never understand women that would rather fake an orgasm than show her man how to properly pleasure her.

 

[Britva415]

so what you're saying is that women fake who they were entering into a committed relationship? if she was honest from the beginning she wouldn't have to "take the occasion of a new beginning to decide to be forthright about her wants".
I will never understand women that would rather fake an orgasm than show her man how to properly pleasure her.

You don't have to assume bad faith. People tell us all the time here on Lit about how they were too immature, inexperienced, conditioned, ignorant, or repressed to confidently assert themselves, or even clearly know what they want, at a young age early in a relationship which turned out to be "forever" or close enough.

 

[policywank]

so what you're saying is that women fake who they were entering into a committed relationship? if she was honest from the beginning she wouldn't have to "take the occasion of a new beginning to decide to be forthright about her wants".
I will never understand women that would rather fake an orgasm than show her man how to properly pleasure her.

No, I don't mean either partner intentionally misrepresenting themselves. Nor do I mean one partner not finding pleasure and preferring to give up rather than invest in their sex life together. I am not saying those things don't happen - they do and it sucks - but that isn't what I was attempting to address.

I am thinking more about the manner in which external pressure (society, family, church, etc.) and our own internal doubts discouraged us from exploring sexual compatibility and addressing it early on in the relationship. We were discouraged from accepting (and encouraged to suppress) any aspect of ourselves that didn't adhere to the societal narrative. In many cases we were also encouraged too look past sexual compatibility to more practical considerations.

Ideally we should have known better. We should have looked past what society urged us to do. It is nobody else's fault if we made a bad relationship decision. But some did. I'm not making excuses for that, just observing some of the results.

I think that for some couples it happens that years later when we mature and learn to understand and embrace ourselves we realize that we aren't sexually compatible. It isn't a matter of right or wrong. It is just a matter of wanting different things. For others it may well be that we are sexually compatible, but we have built so much around false or distorted assumptions that it takes a lot of work (worth it) to get on the same page. Even so, it may take a while to get to this realization.

In any event, as we get to the point in our lives where we are better equipped to make decisions that suit us more properly we are also living the accumulation of everything that we have built with a partner. We have built something that we value so we aren't just going to burn it all down without a lot of careful consideration. Whether we decide to make big changes or small changes or just live with things as they are we aren't operating from a clean slate. Any decision we make has immediate and significant consequences.

For all of the pain that it involves the end of a relationship can be a clean slate. As such tends to be the trigger for a substantial change in approach to sexual compatibility if the need for such a change has been stewing.

 

[FeelingLikeMyself]

i don't love the term "tit fuck" but there's not a lot of other ways to describe it. . . my girlfriend loves it when i put my cock between her tits, but also tells me that as an act, it's way more pleasurable when a man with a huge dick does it. women-- is this true (obviously if you love a person that covers over a variety of shortcomings etc)

She has HUGE (f or g cups)... natural tracts of land, and I'm pretty big when I'm not caged. Her 5ft 2, 110lbs is definitely 15lbs of boobs. I'm about 7ins and thick and she's not shy about wanting more. I think it's hot and I can't wait to bring her a nice big cock that will just make her cravings worse.

Her boob enhanced blowjobs are amazing, BTW and I can't wait for her to get comfortable enough for me to share them with another cock.

 

[whenagain]

She has HUGE (f or g cups)... natural tracts of land, and I'm pretty big when I'm not caged. Her 5ft 2, 110lbs is definitely 15lbs of boobs. I'm about 7ins and thick and she's not shy about wanting more. I think it's hot and I can't wait to bring her a nice big cock that will just make her cravings worse.

Her boob enhanced blowjobs are amazing, BTW and I can't wait for her to get comfortable enough for me to share them with another cock.

Sounds like you have a really good situation!

 

[live4thebj]

Majority of the woman I been with have huge knockers. Most of the time DD’s. But my exwife whom I was with eleven years and my current fiancé I been with 12 years both with DD’s I never titty fucked them. I just don’t get the fetish. Mouth pussy or ass. What is the point of a hand or titties when I have those other three holes?

 

[UtilityCurve]

Majority of the woman I been with have huge knockers. Most of the time DD’s. But my exwife whom I was with eleven years and my current fiancé I been with 12 years both with DD’s I never titty fucked them. I just don’t get the fetish. Mouth pussy or ass. What is the point of a hand or titties when I have those other three holes?

Taking a WAG (wildcard guess) here, but I have often wondered if the fact that I need to engage in breast play has something to do with how long tits and hands were the only thing on the menu with that first GF.

In my case, it felt like a long time, and firstie never opened any of her three to my cock.

Guess I got attached to what was available (readily, too--she could shuck her top and bra faster than you could imagine, bless her!) and never let go.

 

[TonyF862]

We've been together for over 30 years - married for 28+. Of course one of the things that attracted me then and still does is my wife's glorious cleavage - that has only grown more beautify and alluring over the years. I still get hard seeing her or even thinking about that luscious valley.

As such, you would have thought that I'd been titty fucking those globes whenever I had the chance, but for reasons unknown, it never really "came up". Until recently.

You see, my wife is an incredibly sexual and creative lover, but is extremely reserved about expressing her inner most desires. I've spent these 30 years drawing these desires out of her, ie her various pleasures, fantasies, and dare I say "kinks" (e.g. pegging, facesitting, cum cleanup, and most recently her desire to see a man suck my cock!).

So - you can imagine my surprise and delight when she recently share with my that she LOVES to be titty fucked!! and titty fuck we did! all over those delicious d-cup tits. I sense a lot more cavernous cum dumps in my immediate future.

 

[Cuckolded_BlK_Male]

I've never heard "tit fuck" a day in my life. It has always been "titty fuck" in my neck of the woods.

 

[StrongMaster7]

As a guy who dated very busty women, I wanted to titfuck all of them, but I couldn't muster the courage to ask. I was afraid they would be put off and shut me down completely. When I finally managed to do it, it was amazing. The girl put too much baby oil on her tits and it was almost impossible to squeeze her tits together! I don't think her huge tits were very sensitive. All the caressing, sucking, kissing, and fucking never got much of a reaction from her. But her tits completely enveloped my cock.

My wife, on the other hand, who has nice big tits, but not massive ones, is very sensitive to all contact. She has become more sensitive since age 50. She can orgasm from breastplay. I have not made her come from titfucking, but I'll bet I can!

 

[Sienna62]

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Lucky people, beautifully proportioned pair, perfectly matched for mutual pleasure .. people, beautifully proportioned

 

[Sienna62]

As a guy who dated very busty women, I wanted to titfuck all of them, but I couldn't muster the courage to ask. I was afraid they would be put off and shut me down completely. When I finally managed to do it, it was amazing. The girl put too much baby oil on her tits and it was almost impossible to squeeze her tits together! I don't think her huge tits were very sensitive. All the caressing, sucking, kissing, and fucking never got much of a reaction from her. But her tits completely enveloped my cock.

My wife, on the other hand, who has nice big tits, but not massive ones, is very sensitive to all contact. She has become more sensitive since age 50. She can orgasm from breastplay. I have not made her come from titfucking, but I'll bet I can!

Wonderful thoughts!

 

[Kelvin8or]

It does seem to be something that a lot of women are not inclined to do - kind of like cumming on their face or tits or swallowing. I take quite a bit of pleasure in being able to afford a man these things as long as he isn't a jerk about it.

For instance, the typical porn scene with a guy doing some of these things often has some sneering douchebag being disrespectful and aggressive. That is a hard "no" for me. But that is not the only scenario. In most cases I find that decent guys are turned on by these things, but are afraid to ask or worry how their desire will be perceived. A good guy who is an attentive lover and a positive presence and wants to engage in some of this modestly dirty stuff ? - sure I'd be happy to let him tit fuck me and cum on my tits. Personally I don't see any of these acts as intrinsically disrespectful, but they can be so context is important.

For a lot of men, one of the benefits of dating a hot wife is that we are relatively less encumbered by self imposed limitations. Being the woman who will do things that your wife won't is part of who I am....as long as you appreciative and respectful.

I'm quite lucky to have a wife who is inclined to do some of these things out of her curiosity to try new things

 

[Morton81]

My wife has DD tits. I must say they are the first things I noticed. Met her at a bar with an ample amount of cleavage on display. She does enjoy my cock between her breasts, as well as I do. Luckily I am endowed enough to not get lost in her wonderful valley. I love to watch as the head reveals itself as I stroke. Love to cum between her tits. Someday I will do a proper cleanup.

 

[TravisAW]

I think the term tit wank is also used a lot - she's using her tits rather than her hand to wank you off.

Last time I had it done to me wasn't Mrs AW, but the female in question looked down at the result of her work, scooped it up and ate it, which was far sexier than I expected it to be. I'd imagine the benefit of doing that to a well hung guy is that when he gets near, she can have her mouth in place to receive directly.

 

[TonyF862]

I think the term tit wank is also used a lot - she's using her tits rather than her hand to wank you off.

Last time I had it done to me wasn't Mrs AW, but the female in question looked down at the result of her work, scooped it up and ate it, which was far sexier than I expected it to be. I'd imagine the benefit of doing that to a well hung guy is that when he gets near, she can have her mouth in place to receive directly.

So, was said "female in question" w/ wife's permission (and observation) or was it BW (before wife)?

 

[TonyF862]

My wife has DD tits. I must say they are the first things I noticed. Met her at a bar with an ample amount of cleavage on display. She does enjoy my cock between her breasts, as well as I do. Luckily I am endowed enough to not get lost in her wonderful valley. I love to watch as the head reveals itself as I stroke. Love to cum between her tits. Someday I will do a proper cleanup.

You are a blessed man. My wife is very petite but has D cup mounds that hang perfectly for a 57 yo woman. Never cease to turn me on or get me hard. I have stared at those tits for 30 years and have dreamed of cumming all over them more times then I can count. Imagine my surprise, and slight disappointment, that I learned in the last few months that she LOVES to titty fuck (tit wank?) me! Who knew?!? All this time I could have been blowing my load between those gorgeous mounds.

Re cleanup: licking up the "fruits of my labors" I'd gladly do, as I do so anyway when I cum inside of her. The problem with Titty-Fuck-Cleanup is it is all mixed up with lube!

 

[Treeview]

The problem with Titty-Fuck-Cleanup is it is all mixed up with lube!

Be creative...change lube to an oil. There is something poetically proper about using Extra Virgin Olive Oil. Coconut oil has connection since Half Shells are used by Islanders [on stage anyway] as bra cups.

 

[TonyF862]

Be creative...change lube to an oil. There is something poetically proper about using Extra Virgin Olive Oil. Coconut oil has connection since Half Shells are used by Islanders [on stage anyway] s bra cups.

I like it! This has become downright philosophical!

 

[Morton81]

You are a blessed man. My wife is very petite but has D cup mounds that hang perfectly for a 57 yo woman. Never cease to turn me on or get me hard. I have stared at those tits for 30 years and have dreamed of cumming all over them more times then I can count. Imagine my surprise, and slight disappointment, that I learned in the last few months that she LOVES to titty fuck (tit wank?) me! Who knew?!? All this time I could have been blowing my load between those gorgeous mounds.

Re cleanup: licking up the "fruits of my labors" I'd gladly do, as I do so anyway when I cum inside of her. The problem with Titty-Fuck-Cleanup is it is all mixed up with lube!

Most times the only lube we need is my saliva, or her pussy juice. Either one makes for a great fit fuck.

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

Most times the only lube we need is my saliva, or her pussy juice. Either one makes for a great fit fuck.

Precum, which is usually freely available during a tit fuck, is also a great lube.

 

[Morton81]

Precum, which is usually freely available during a tit fuck, is also a great lube.

Can't believe I forgot that. Couldn't agree more

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

Can't believe I forgot that. Couldn't agree more

Never take precum for granted. It's not only a good lube, but it's tasty too.

 

[Morton81]

Never take precum for granted. It's not only a good lube, but it's tasty too.

It sure is

 

[whenagain]

Be creative...change lube to an oil. There is something poetically proper about using Extra Virgin Olive Oil. Coconut oil has connection since Half Shells are used by Islanders [on stage anyway] as bra cups.

Coconut oil is a very good lube.