Sleeping with married women

I've messed around with other guys wives, granted it was in threesome situations, but still. Now I haven't had the opportunity for some one on one, but maybe some day
 
It's always safer to cheat with those who are cheating too... Hence all my affairs have been with married women.

Having said that however, my current FWB of over five years is single and half my age.
 
When I was at college, my friend married this girl called Laurie. Laurie had been very promiscuous and most of the guys in our group had fucked her at some point

Of course, we all anticipated that Laurie would become a "good girl" once she promised to be faithful to Dave. But not at all. I slept with her at least twice after that

I wonder what kind of arrangement Laurie and Dave had
 
A few months after my first wife left me her married friend started calling me. After a few phone calls she stopped at my house and me being angry , hurt and horny I was very willing to sleep with her. She was a very nice sexy girl and I enjoyed every time we had sex. What I didn't enjoy was the constant worry of getting caught , or her husband shooting me and the constant feelings of quilt. Needless to say it only lasted a few months and as far as I know her husband had no clue.
 
I think it goes both ways. So many women are attracted to married men as well.

Sometimes it feels like my wedding ring is an advertisement for women to flirt. It’s wild
Flirt, yeah, sure. Fuck? Could be a whole 'nother story.

As a married man, I've been flirted with by women who have no intention at all of being taken seriously as interested in doing anything with me. I think they think it's "safe" to pursue someone who's ostensibly not available.

It so happens that I am available (open marriage), and, some of these interactions come to an abrupt end when I signal that I'm free to take it as far as they want to go.

Some don't! But for some of these women, flirting is all they want, and, the reason they do it with a married guy is 'cause they think it's low stakes compared to someone they know could actually take them up on it.
 
Why does it have to be so tokenized? I connect with who I connect with. Married or single. I don’t get off on the idea of being with someone else’s spouse or sneaking around. I just don’t turn away from the one I’m connected to just because of his marital status.
 
A few months after my first wife left me her married friend started calling me. After a few phone calls she stopped at my house and me being angry , hurt and horny I was very willing to sleep with her. She was a very nice sexy girl and I enjoyed every time we had sex. What I didn't enjoy was the constant worry of getting caught , or her husband shooting me and the constant feelings of quilt. Needless to say it only lasted a few months and as far as I know her husband had no clue.
I love that situation. Was the sex amazing? I only had one sort of affair with a married woman but just didn't go onto full sex but the desire was intense knowing she was married.
 
Having sex with a married woman whose husband would be against it doesn't carry any special appeal to me other than I like to have sex. I'd probably feel badly. Having sex with a woman whose husband approves would be very hot.
 
Having sex with a married woman whose husband would be against it doesn't carry any special appeal to me other than I like to have sex. I'd probably feel badly. Having sex with a woman whose husband approves would be very hot.
I am in an open marriage. That doesn’t mean I allow any disrespect to be thrown towards my husband (pAPs should always check someone’s feelings about the term “cuck”).

I would love to be fully ENM but my APs tend to not be in open marriages. And sometimes they’re still my best connection while others in open marriage don’t match as well.
 
I really get a kick out of sleeping with married and women in commited relationships. I am an average looking guy and done this three times. I want to have a MFM with a married couple but never had the opportunity. I prefer asian women but know that it is a one sided things so mostly sleep with locals to where I live.
We are a monogomous couple and my wife committed infidelity. I have my past shit, but I'm sorry, if it's not consensual, I view it as stealing and you are hurting a person who did nothing to you. It's selfish and potentially hurting a whole family and children.
 
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OK, Mr. self righteous, my wife passed away about 3.5 years ago after a long illness, so I had not had sex for a long while and figured I would die before ever having sex again. Six months after her death, a married friend of hers came over, dragged me to bed, to make sure (in her words), that I remembered how to get in and out of the saddle. Afterwards, she said that my wife had made her promise to do that. Don't know if she ever told her husband, and don't care, but she brought me back to life. So where is the sin in this? Who is the evil party here?
So how do you feel her husband feels about that. Where is the sin in it? It's against the husband. Of course it's not against you. You got the benefit. This poor guy is sticking his dick in a shared woman everynight without knowing it. He deserves the right to have a choice. She should have never made the promise. As a person who was recently cheated on, I have emptathy for your loss but not your choice to hurt the heart of a man you either know or don't know. Even more so, you said you don't care. OK. Until it's you. Consent or leave her the fuck along and buy an escort if you must.
 
I've messed around with other guys wives, granted it was in threesome situations, but still. Now I haven't had the opportunity for some one on one, but maybe some day
Same here and a few cuck husbands watching, but I have never knowingly slept with a cheating married woman. Had it done to me and I never wanted to the guy that put someone else through the emotional hell of being betrayed by a cheating wife.
I was a lot younger when I went through it and would handle the situation different now, but still. I don't ever want to be the cause of that pain.
 
So how do you feel her husband feels about that. Where is the sin in it? It's against the husband. Of course it's not against you. You got the benefit. This poor guy is sticking his dick in a shared woman everynight without knowing it. He deserves the right to have a choice. She should have never made the promise. As a person who was recently cheated on, I have emptathy for your loss but not your choice to hurt the heart of a man you either know or don't know. Even more so, you said you don't care. OK. Until it's you. Consent or leave her the fuck along and buy an escort if you must.
You obviously did not read the whole thread, where I had said that I had slept with almost as many married women as I had single women, and that I had not seduced any of them, as married women in play choose their partner. In almost every case, they loved their husband, the marriage and their family. A "hotwife" is one of Gods greatest creations. Single women have agendas. Married women only have one agenda, good sex. As a lucky man that gets chosen by a "hotwife", it is bad form to disrespect or denigrate her husband, as that is the man she loves. Give her what she needs, kiss her and send her home to her husband. As I often say, no harm, no foul. She get an itched scratched that hubby wasn't scratching, and when she gets home, they have much better sex because of it. This "trust/monogamy" stuff isn't, and never has been relevant to marriage, except to North American males based upon the religions they were brought up in.
 
You obviously did not read the whole thread, where I had said that I had slept with almost as many married women as I had single women, and that I had not seduced any of them, as married women in play choose their partner. In almost every case, they loved their husband, the marriage and their family. A "hotwife" is one of Gods greatest creations. Single women have agendas. Married women only have one agenda, good sex. As a lucky man that gets chosen by a "hotwife", it is bad form to disrespect or denigrate her husband, as that is the man she loves. Give her what she needs, kiss her and send her home to her husband. As I often say, no harm, no foul. She get an itched scratched that hubby wasn't scratching, and when she gets home, they have much better sex because of it. This "trust/monogamy" stuff isn't, and never has been relevant to marriage, except to North American males based upon the religions they were brought up in.
Yeah. I have heard that one before. You are helping us husbands out ..... even though we don't know you are helping us. Right. If you don't see him say yes...... BS
 
You obviously did not read the whole thread, where I had said that I had slept with almost as many married women as I had single women, and that I had not seduced any of them, as married women in play choose their partner. In almost every case, they loved their husband, the marriage and their family. A "hotwife" is one of Gods greatest creations. Single women have agendas. Married women only have one agenda, good sex. As a lucky man that gets chosen by a "hotwife", it is bad form to disrespect or denigrate her husband, as that is the man she loves. Give her what she needs, kiss her and send her home to her husband. As I often say, no harm, no foul. She get an itched scratched that hubby wasn't scratching, and when she gets home, they have much better sex because of it. This "trust/monogamy" stuff isn't, and never has been relevant to marriage, except to North American males based upon the religions they were brought up in.
Bullsh*t dude. Your making a blanket statement for all cucks and just North American religions. WTF?
Lots of cucks get off on the humiliation of being cucked. Just spend a little time here exploring the the threads here. And go ask some of the Muslim women who have been convicted of adultry and have been publicly beheaded or stoned to death that it's just North American males that have an issue with married women cheating.
 
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We are a monogomous couple and my wife committed infidelity. I have my past shit, but I'm sorry, if it's not consensual, I view it as stealing and you are hurting a person who did nothing to you. It's selfish and potentially hurting a whole family and children.
That's gross. Your wife isn't your property and neither is her puss. And she's the one who hurt you, the guy didn't twist her arm and kidnap her into it.
 
A few months after my first wife left me her married friend started calling me. After a few phone calls she stopped at my house and me being angry , hurt and horny I was very willing to sleep with her. She was a very nice sexy girl and I enjoyed every time we had sex. What I didn't enjoy was the constant worry of getting caught , or her husband shooting me and the constant feelings of quilt. Needless to say it only lasted a few months and as far as I know her husband had no clue.
I can understand the anger here in this thread but I have had 2 former girlfriends have affairs, one with a close friend. I was pretty upset each time when I realised it, one of which I witnessed. Obviously it wasn't consensual and jealous plagued me for some time.

Yet call me weird but I have also had 2 brief affairs with married women if you call one night stands affairs. The unique pleasure and experience of each was incredibly hot knowing she was attached. Whether the husband knew about became irrelevant but for a mysterious reason it was arousing to know that we were flying uner the radar...
 
That's gross. Your wife isn't your property and neither is her puss. And she's the one who hurt you, the guy didn't twist her arm and kidnap her into it.
Your mind is upside down and beyond repair.
 
Bullsh*t dude. Your making a blanket statement for all cucks and just North American religions. WTF?
Lots of cucks get off on the humiliation of being cucked. Just spend a little time here exploring the the threads here. And go ask some of the Muslim women who have been convicted of adultry and have been publicly beheaded or stoned to death that it's just North American males that have an issue with married women cheating.
Whatever. It’s a violation.
 
My guess is that there are more married women engaging in one-night stands and affairs than many know. The younger generation -- this is just my observation -- is pretty demanding. And if they're not getting what they want from their husbands, my impression is they'll take matters into their own hands and find another partner. He might be a side piece. But that's fine as far as they're concerned, especially if there are children, a house and money to worry about.
 
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