I’m a married man in an open marriage and I am surprised about this too. But I think married women who are open and only interested in a casual FWB arrangement are pretty rare too. I have only pursued married or partnered women to avoid the commitment drama, but it’s tough finding that match.
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I think many here will agree that the best sex has been sex with a married woman. I have been blessed to be briefly sexual friends with two married women and it was amazing! Is wonderful to be found by a married woman who needs an adventure.
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I've done it before, and I've been thinking about it a lot lately.
A married woman sneaking away because she needs my tongue, my cock, she needs to feel my strength as I move her body so I can mount her, take her, make her cum. Absofuckinglutely delicious.
More than what it is? $%^# that. It's a woman with needs whose sought me out so I can fill them. And fill her. Perfect. We ruin some sheets (apologies to the maid in the Palm Springs Marriott resort) and go back to regular life. The regular life adds so much spice when you find a woman like this.
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So or you guys who prefer to shag married women, is there a drive or joy on getting one over on their clueless husband? My wife strayed with a coworker years ago on a work trip a guy that I know. He was smug about it forever, still is, I’m sure. No doubt that he was horny, but I think some of it was a dominance play on his part.
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No. She made that choice and picked me. Her husband is not my concern.
The guy your wife fucked is being an asshole.
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I lost my virginity to married neighbor lady [redacted] she was in her early 40s .her husband was a truck driver and kind of jerk. That kind of teaching from an experienced woman is priceless
It's not an ego thing that i'm sleeping with another man's woman, and I'm not the world's greatest lover but I was taught well and getting a woman off is what turnsme on
It's not an ego thing that i'm sleeping with another man's woman, and I'm not the world's greatest lover but I was taught well and getting a woman off is what turnsme on
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He was clearly into the conquest. Shagging my wife put him up on me and at work, up on her as well, I think,
I honestly got a real thrill when I had one affair with a married woman. Just knowing what she was really like and experiencing her was a real big turn on. Wasn't trying to put any one down or being an asshole or getting one up on the poor husband yet alone a co worker.
I have had 2 ex girlfriends have affairs on me. It was devastating at first, especially the 2nd occasion and now I fantasie about it frequently. I don't know whether that a good thing?
And you are correct, women do get excited by the idea of seduction or cheating. I don't know if its a power thing?
Any guy that’s going to be smug or disrespect me, isn't going to touch my wife again.
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My mom used to get with a some men back when she was still married to my father. I am not sure if he knew or not, but the thought of it was always quite exciting to me.
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Yup, total asshat.
I rest my case your honor.
To be honest, I'd be a bit ticked at the wife for picking a jerk like that. Unless that was all part of the plan..
Strangely enough the most jealous person I’ve ever been with was married. We were together about year when I got divorced and would get mad if I talked to a girl or went out with friends I would hooked with someone married but nothing long term again
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For me, no. Never enters my mind as that isn’t part of what turns me on. Married women, that are happily married, are safe to mess around with as they don’t want anything but the sex. Much safer and less likely to fuck your life up. I recently started a fwb with a new member at my gym, she’s loves her husband but he has gotten fat, which she has issues with. She is extremely fit and likes muscular men, which I am, and older men. I’m 55 and she is 41, her husband I believe is 53. We’ve been flirting for a bit but two weeks ago I just asked if she wanted to mess around. She was interested, so last week we met up about an hour away and had a wonderful time. At the end of the month I have some business in the Midwest so she is meeting me there as she has clients a couple hours away from where I will be. She won’t be seeing much but the bed.
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Ran into that once. Stopped that shit in its tracks. Stupid thing is she introduced me to the woman, knowing damn well she was my type.
She was bitching about me going out I said when you get tell your fucking husband how unfair it is and hung up shit just don’t make sense to me
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I was pissed that she picked a guy who acted like a high school rival or something, and in public. I understand human horniness and how we can all fall to temptations of the moment. Doing it so publicly with this guy, is a blow. I had lots of sympathy from friends and coworkers that I hated getting but denials from the wife for so long that I didn’t leave her. It was close. She “confessed” only when she thought that it was safe to do so. (years later)
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Married women who cheat is a topic that fascinates me. I’m amazed that a married woman and mother would risk her life as she knows it for sexual gratification from another man. The reasons are varied but one conclusion is undeniable - in her mind the risk is worth the reward.
There is a decision made to pursue it. The desire is there and they’re not getting any younger, The common myth is the typical excuse when confronted, “ It just happened”. We’ve seen that scene in movies, but contrary to popular belief, most adventurous wives are the ones targeting their prey and don’t get caught. The smart ones never do. I’ve been with a couple of married women and have learned so much about their motives and tips for deception.
During my get togethers with close golfing buddies, I hate to admit it, but we gossip about this topic. We don’t call it gossip but that’s what it is. I’ve discovered women you would never dream in a million years, in fact get it on the side and are able to keep it secret. These are respected, responsible women in their 40s and 50s and here’s the shocking part : They seek younger men. Married guys in their mid 30’s, that can far outperform their husbands in bed. More physical and better stamina I presume. It’s all about the sex, They have no intention of leaving their husbands. It’s a secret compartmentalized life they lead to continuously fulfill that addicting rush they get with another guy.
No judgments from me. We all have our reasons. In a weird way I admire their calculating, vixen-like, diva-like behavior. It actually makes them sexually desirable in my eyes.
There is a decision made to pursue it. The desire is there and they’re not getting any younger, The common myth is the typical excuse when confronted, “ It just happened”. We’ve seen that scene in movies, but contrary to popular belief, most adventurous wives are the ones targeting their prey and don’t get caught. The smart ones never do. I’ve been with a couple of married women and have learned so much about their motives and tips for deception.
During my get togethers with close golfing buddies, I hate to admit it, but we gossip about this topic. We don’t call it gossip but that’s what it is. I’ve discovered women you would never dream in a million years, in fact get it on the side and are able to keep it secret. These are respected, responsible women in their 40s and 50s and here’s the shocking part : They seek younger men. Married guys in their mid 30’s, that can far outperform their husbands in bed. More physical and better stamina I presume. It’s all about the sex, They have no intention of leaving their husbands. It’s a secret compartmentalized life they lead to continuously fulfill that addicting rush they get with another guy.
No judgments from me. We all have our reasons. In a weird way I admire their calculating, vixen-like, diva-like behavior. It actually makes them sexually desirable in my eyes.
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At least in my case it was about power(mostly). My ex admitted that she was drunk with the power to fuck any guy in the bar and/ or my friends and co-workers. At the time, she was a solid 9 and a real head turner. Having the choice of just about any guy fed her need of control. It was intoxicating to her and I get it.
Unfortunately the drunk excuse is all too common. And most guys would probably reluctantly say no.
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Are you married to Jenette from NY by chance???
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Lmao ! Do you actually think someone would admit to personal info on this forum ? Especially on a thread. Wouldn't a private PM be more appropriate ?
Don't bother PM the answer is No
Don't bother PM the answer is No
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I guess I should have ended my post with LOL so all would know it was sarcasm...
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