Slut. Let’s talk about it.

[philos]

I’ve always considered myself a slut and totally own it but I guess there’s no real stigma for me to overcome as a guy.

 

[Jada59]

I’ve always considered myself a slut and totally own it but I guess there’s no real stigma for me to overcome as a guy.

Yeah. Not fair. Had a guy friend who called himself a slut and he was. Sure, some people made comments about him but not really bad ones like people tend to do with women.

 

[HBergeron]

Slut is a badge of honor, the sign of a true sexual adventuress. A term of sincere endearment, used in private (no matter how many people number in said privacy).

In olden times, proper matrons who sneered at a woman of 'loose morals' desired to the core of their being to be able to enjoy what the slut enjoys. Those tired mores that admired such prowess in a man, but forbade it in a woman, are long gone.

Even though 'slutty' can describe clothing or an aggressively sexual attitude, the best sluts are the girls-next-door, the soccer moms and the office managers of the world.

I love and admire sluts.

 

[Black13]

Slut is often used with the intention of being derogatory. The problem is that someone who is sexually empowered and prolific is not a bad thing... when you're a guy. It is considered to be bad when you're a girl. This double-standard means that men should be praised by being virile and aggressively sexual whereas that same level of enthusiasm in women is discouraged. Men need to seek out and seize sexual conquests where women are supposed to restrain and withhold. This lack of consent and obvious imbalance of power means rape. Ergo, calling a woman a slut as a derogatory term is reinforcing rape culture. Calling yourself a slut, however, is a validation of your own capacity for voracious sexuality, and an indication of one's aptitude for affirmative consent. It's a breaking of chains.
No one can call you a slut but you... and the people you like to be slutty with.

 

[Aud89]

It depends on who is calling me it and the context of it

 

[occasional_lovers]

In bed I 'm a slut, a whore, a cunt, a hoe, a hole, and I enjoy (even indirectly demand) to be referred to as such by my partner. In any other environment, the use of those nouns equals instant expulsion.

 

[Smoothshavendad]

In bed I 'm a slut, a whore, a cunt, a hoe, a hole, and I enjoy (even indirectly demand) to be referred to as such by my partner. In any other environment, the use of those nouns equals instant expulsion.

Well aren’t you a naughty ghoul one! So hot!

 

[Smoothshavendad]

Well aren’t you a naughty ghoul one! So hot!

Sorry... naughty one.

 

[Cinder_Smoke]

Yes, the intent behind it is what matters to me. "You're a slut, you should get up on this cock" feels gross. But with someone I am involved with and feel safe with, "you're such a good little slut" feels wonderful. Or even among friends. Does anyone remember the Sassy Gay Friend videos? "You big slut! Good for you!' is such an acceptable way to approve of eachother's promiscuity and/or bad decisions in my friend group.

 

[Vitriolhack]

In bed I 'm a slut, a whore, a cunt, a hoe, a hole, and I enjoy (even indirectly demand) to be referred to as such by my partner. In any other environment, the use of those nouns equals instant expulsion.

Your attitude is not uncommon. My wife loves naughty talk in bed, transpose that in every day conversation and it feels awkward.

I guess it comes down to nuances and situations. If you say or think that there is NO situation for which a man can ever call a woman a slut; then you are doomed to gloomy and “proper” bland “conversations” even between 2 consenting adults in the privacy of their bedroom. How boring would that be?

I think you cannot remove the situation from the context.

Boardroom business meeting with a lot of people in the room, someone refers to the lady presenter as a “slut.”

Probably a big NO NO, and I would understand why she would be pissed off!

Now, she is alone with her lover and enjoys fucking him and telling him out loud what she likes... that’s ok if it’s ok with the both of them.

 

[triciakintoronto]

being called slut yes!!
fat slut no!!!

 

[Asian_Flower]

I am a slut...for my husband. I will do whatever he wants, because I want to.

 

[screwher]

My wife

My wife and I are a hotwife couple. She has sex with other men but with my full approval and knowledge. Most people would probably call her a slut for it. But that would be from jealous wives trapped in a boring relationship. Or from a guy that she s not going to put out for. What's important is that I don't think she's a slut. But to be honest, when chatting with other men on this site I like it when they call her a slut or whore. Example - "I'm going to fuck your little slut!" or "your wife, my slut!" So hot!

 

[Vitriolhack]

My wife and I are a hotwife couple. She has sex with other men but with my full approval and knowledge. Most people would probably call her a slut for it. But that would be from jealous wives trapped in a boring relationship. Or from a guy that she s not going to put out for. What's important is that I don't think she's a slut. But to be honest, when chatting with other men on this site I like it when they call her a slut or whore. Example - "I'm going to fuck your little slut!" or "your wife, my slut!" So hot!

Context is everything. You describe a wonderful complicity between you and your wife that would make some people envious.

If a stranger called my wife a Slut, I probably would be pissed off as would she.

Me calling et a slut in bed... ahem, turns us both on!

 

[Leigh81]

Context is everything. You describe a wonderful complicity between you and your wife that would make some people envious.

If a stranger called my wife a Slut, I probably would be pissed off as would she.

Me calling et a slut in bed... ahem, turns us both on!

Context is everything
We role play a lot in the bedroom so it's often used along with other colorful words. It's a fun game between my husband & I occasionally. It can get extremely intense when we do certain FFM role play

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