Perhaps pain wasn't the best term to use but it's definitely not something a non-faggot would want to experience again real soon... The awesome feeling I experienced with him inside of me far exceeded the initial discomfort... Plus, it didn't take long for my desire to have him inside of me made it naturally easy to totally relax my muscles when I feel him entering me... You're SO right about that exquisite feeling of having a man on you and IN you... His handsMaybe I’ve been doing this too long. I’ve had many men of many lengths and girths. I may have experienced discomfort, but never “pain”. I enjoy the discomfort, there is no better feeling than a man on you, pressing into you, holding you kissing you, using you.