Squirting

[Guest]

Re: This is what used to happen to me.

For years...

This post was by me. I don't know how or why I "become" unregistered when I haven't logged out of Lit, and had posted to another thread AS Tiggs only minutes ago!!!! Does anyone know how your "status" can change so quickly when you don't even log out??

 

[lilminx]

Well, I did make sure that I went to pee beforehand, but I guess I just couldn't relax enough while he was doing it. It was just really uncomfortable. Hopefully next time it will work.

 

[Guest]

Its intense, dont stop because of that feeling, it isnt urine. It takes me a good 20 min after sex to be able to use the bathroom. The orgasm usually closes off that passage. Or so my Doctor told me. yeah i asked my male OBGYN lol he was red.

Exactly, there's like this "valve" (metaphorically speaking) in the human body (both men and women) that "shuts off" the urethra when aroused. Like Sweet P said, it takes me several minutes after an orgasm to be able to pee again.

 

[Guest]

lilminx...

If you don't mind me asking, what is it he's doing to you when you're "trying" to relax?

For me, it was that oral sex that drove me over the edge and past the point of no return. I felt that "urge" to pee, and before I could stop or "warn" the man, I was cumming. It was so intense that I did't even care about anything for several minutes.

 

[lilminx]

Re: lilminx...

If you don't mind me asking, what is it he's doing to you when you're "trying" to relax?

Well, he was manually stimulating my clit and he also had a finger or two inside me on the spot that would supposedly make me squirt.

I have no problem achieving "regular" orgasms- as a matter of fact, I probably orgasm more often than most women. It's just the squirting thing that I'm having a problem with.



Geez- is all of this too much information? lol

 

[Sweetp4u]

hi again

For me its letting go of the fear your "doing it wrong" and relaxing. realizing its normal, and most men i know would love to have a woman bath their face with cum. To achieve it, all i have to do is keep stimulating the clit. and i found durring oral sex if they tease the outside as well as the inside while applying pressure to the clit, causes an even stronger orgasm. and bigger messes lol

 

[Guest]

Geez- is all of this too much information? lol

Nah! There's no such thing as "TMI" there! At any rate, do you feel a diffrence between manual (hand) stimulation on your clit compaired to oral or vibrations? If you find the "most intense" thing your body enjoys, it should be easer for you to RELAX!

 

[lilminx]

Thanks, Tiggs- good to know that I'm not overstepping and boundaries.

Ummm, as for stimulation, clit, vaginal or anal are all very intense for me, but I usually get off best when at least two of the three are applied.
And like most women, I enjoy oral stimulation more than manual. Maybe I'll ask him to do that next time he tries...

 

[SadnonMage]

If any of you are interested

There is a website out there owned by a woman who squirts every time

She offers a free newsletter which includes pics and AVI's on ocassion.

http://www.sexysquirter.com

Her name is Ro and she loves to get e-mail so if you want you could probably ask her for help if you need it

SM

 

[Guest]

Maybe I'll ask him to do that next time he tries...

There ya go! Do, or have him do, whatever gives OU the most pleasure! Hopefully it'll help take your mind off your worries!!!!! When you worry that you "cannot" do something, that's when the body starts to believe the mind. Since you're a step ahead of some women (being able to cum at all!) enjoy what your man does to/for you! When you truly enjoy what is being done to you, and relax, you will squirt.

 

[lilminx]

Thanks SadnonMage, I'll check it out...

 

[NiteRidder]

Just Enjoy It !

Seems to me the more you concentrate on it the more difficult it becomes.

Good sex shouldn't be hard work.

Experimentation is great, as is working towards new experiences or improving on old ones as long as you don't lose track of the main objective of pleasing your partner and yourself. Hopefully without placing any undue burdens or expectations on anyone.

Irrelevant of what has been said I stongly suspect that some (if not most) women can not squirt (at least not so that it would be readily noticed) and no matter how hard they try ever will be able to. Don't see it as a big thing - more important that we concentrate on what we can do. Everyone has their own fine points and trying to make someone elses fine point your own is probably counter productive in most instances.

As a male who was extemely impressed with an ex girl friend capable of some seriously good sqirting I would never want another women to fret because she could not achieve that - not for one second. Especially if it got in the way of my loving her for what she could do, what ever that might be.

Because of a foolish name sake I spent years honing my physical and mental sexual capabilities - I have had lovers that I considered highly capable in the physical and mental aspects of love making and I have also had some lovers that were not. Frankly it made little difference to me in how much I loved them, or for that matter enjoyed being with them, and found the ones that danced to their own drums without placing undue burdens upon themselves irrelevant of their talents the most enjoyable to be with and the most memorable.

Keep it from the heart and keep it fun and you will please your lover and yourself.

Of course if you can squirt all over my face I just might change my mind about all of that. (Just Kidding.)

Nite Ridder

 

[lilminx]

Re: Just Enjoy It !

Seems to me the more you concentrate on it the more difficult it becomes.

Good sex shouldn't be hard work.

Experimentation is great, as is working towards new experiences or improving on old ones as long as you don't lose track of the main objective of pleasing your partner and yourself. Hopefully without placing any undue burdens or expectations on anyone.


Of course if you can squirt all over my face I just might change my mind about all of that. (Just Kidding.)

Nite Ridder

I don't think either of us are placing burdens upon each other; it's just that he's been able to make many women do it, and I want to see if I can too. I do agree that good sex shouldn't be hard work; we actually have great sex, but great sex is also about pleasing someone else as well, and I know that it would please him also if he could make me do this. Of course, he;s not going to hate me if it doesn't work, but I think it would be cool to be able to do it for him.

Lol- wanna give it a go? J/K as well (I think).

 

[sigh]

for what it's worth, i'm a regular squirter...it wasn't something i set out to do, but something that just happened (and continues to happen virtually every time i have sex)

however; it ONLY happens during oral sex, and almost without fail the trigger is a combination of lips sucking on my clitoris (or alternatively, a tongue rapidly and firmly stroking my clitoris) while one (or preferably two) fingers are inside of me, curled to stroke the upperside of my vagina...sometimes simple upward pressure there is enough

it does feel somewhat like releasing urine, but it's not that at all, and the first time your lover responds positively to it, all internal resistence will melt away

not to rub my sexual preferences in your collective faces (so to speak) but i've tasted a healthy squirt from the other side of the bed too...it not only doesn't taste bad (quite the opposite) but it's an amazingly naughty feeling that i find to be a terrific stimulant...so let loose if you can...just be prepared to sleep on wet sheets for the night

 

[lilminx]

Wow- thank you all soooooo much for all the info, I definitely can't wait to be with this guy again! I really have to say that it's touching for those of you who responded to let me into a little part of your (sex) lives- lol. *Touching cheesy music*....

 

[kaiya]

I can soak the bed also, and I've had the it was Soooooo WET it won't go in it keeps slipping out! he LOVES it

LOL

 

[SweetBrat73]

I'm glad to find out that I'm not the only one who thought they peed on themselves LoL The first time I "squirted" I brought it on myself. Damn the pleasure was so intense!!! But was messed up cause I thought I peed. LoL Anyhow, I never had a man, till recently that could give me an orgasm as intense as to make me squirt. I believe you have to be very stimulated to achieve squirting...well I do anyhow...I'd love to be able to have wet orgasms all the time

 

[SadnonMage]

Hey lilminx,

How goes the squirting search????

 

[lilminx]

Re: Hey lilminx,

How goes the squirting search????

Lol- Still not there yet- we keep trying... I think it got close a couple of times, but it didn't happen...

 

[whoopsdaizy]

new meaning to wet spot

My husband got me to squirt for the first time about 6 months ago....I agree it must have something to with level and length of arousal. Now I squirt on a regular basis, he will work for hours if that is what it takes. I had him videotape it so I could watch. Yowza..how exciting. I agree with whoever said....JUST ENJOY IT!

 

[Domcop]

female squirting: a man's perspective

i have dated a friend of mine for a little while and we have discussed the idea of squirting. i have told her that i think that it is extremely sexy when a woman is able to squirt at her peak- esp. if she is able to do it while my face/mouth is in the general vicinity of her most intimate of areas. the thing i found most exciting when i have made past lovers squirt was the intense pleasure they seemed to experience when they reached their orgasm. the women i have experienced this with have described it as a total body orgasm. this is something i would love to share with my current lover- to give her the best, most intense orgasm she has ever experienced. that is my motivation. hopefully, soon, i will be able to help bring her there. i will keep everyone posted- if you are interested.
ps- everyone that has posted has really helped to shed some light on this amazing and erotic subject. thank you all.

 

[able]

ahh the squirter mm truth is my wife does it everytime and it is fantastic, however it wasnt until we had been together for sometime that it started to happen it was accidental at first if that is the right word andshe was mortified as she thought she had peed all over me but after reassurances that it was perfectly normal a few months later she started to do it again now she does it all the time only one drawback really the bed gets soaked incidentaly she also has quite a strong urge to pee sometimes so it cant be urine dont know what it is but it is damn good enjoy enjoy

 

[SadnonMage]

LilMinx

Have you got it squirting yet?

Let me know, please.

SM

 

[cellis]

The first time this happened to me I was horrified... I was alone and had used a vibrator and had a wonderful orgasm... and when I pulled the vibrator out... well all of this fluid came rushing out.... I new it wasn't urine because it came from the vagina... and it never happened again until recently... and it was a combination of vaginal (G-spot) and clitoral stimulation... and what a surprise that was....


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