Straight guys who like gay sex

[Wanking_Frank]

Yeah it's fine, we all have our dating preferences and being respectful and tolerant for a person and being willing to date them are two different things

I guess I am still surprised that if you otherwise match with someone that having previously had sex with men is a deal breaker for more than just a few.

It's to the point where I want to match only with pan, bi, or non-binary people so that if/when I tell them it's not an issue, in fact that's also often what they want

 

[magic_rat]

I guess I am still surprised that if you otherwise match with someone that having previously had sex with men is a deal breaker for more than just a few.

It was a deal-breaker with my partner; she thought it was hot that I had sex with guys, and we've had several bi 3somes.

 

[Wanking_Frank]

It was a deal-breaker with my partner; she thought it was hot that I had sex with guys, and we've had several bi 3somes.

That's why I really want my next partner to embrace it, hopefully have some 3 or 4somes which would be very fulfilling

 

[Escierto]

Only twosomes for us, no threesomes or more. At least not for a while, she says.

 

[magic_rat]

That's why I really want my next partner to embrace it, hopefully have some 3 or 4somes which would be very fulfilling

They are.

 

[CD_Bree]

I'm married but still consider myself bi. Great sex should be shared with anyone your sexually attracted to.

 

[SCRob95060]

People like what people like, the labels clearly mean nothing.

 

[Beachguy23]

I would say if you like gay sex you are bi, but if you don’t want that label that’s fine, call it what you want and just have fun. I’m bi, wife has no idea and never will as it’s not something she could accept and it would crush her, so I guess like many guys I am a closeted bi man. It’s to bad though as there is nothing I’d like better than to be eating her lovely pussy as another man was fucking her…..but….that unfortunately will never happen anywhere but in my fantasy land.

 

[Yarglenurp]

I would say if you like gay sex you are bi, but if you don’t want that label that’s fine, call it what you want and just have fun. I’m bi, wife has no idea and never will as it’s not something she could accept and it would crush her, so I guess like many guys I am a closeted bi man. It’s to bad though as there is nothing I’d like better than to be eating her lovely pussy as another man was fucking her…..but….that unfortunately will never happen anywhere but in my fantasy land.

I read that it’s not gay if you wear a hat.

 

[Oyster69]

Yes, indeed. I am a bottom for my trans girlfriend but I have given up holding onto the "Straight" label. If you are sucking cock and getting fucked you are not straight.

Nice, I lick that!
Or, like that!!!

 

[Love_To_Be_Sleazy]

I've given up on married bi guys
Most are not honest about it and there is just WAY TOO MUCH baggage that comes with it.

 

[Rod_Love]

I’m big into the idea of being fucked in the ass. I’ve never done it but often fantasise about it and I enjoy some anal toys when I get a chance.
( I’m married and our sex life is regular enough but so vanilla it’s not funny.)

I’ve some experience here, I was lucky to have a transgender fb when I lived abroad - I’ve had cock (albeit quite small) in my mouth and I loved it. My happiest memory is tasting her cum. She was bottom only and at the time that suited me perfectly.

*But* here’s the problem…
I love cocks when I see them in porn or pics on lit but I’m just not really attracted to the bodies that they are attached to!
I’m on Sniffies and the guys there in general are all handsome, lovely looking cocks and great bodies etc. But the thought of swallowing their cum or even kissing them does nothing for me.

Btw - I don’t think this makes me homophobic - I want them, badly - but I’m not attracted to them.

What to do!!??

 

[Escierto]

I’m big into the idea of being fucked in the ass. I’ve never done it but often fantasise about it and I enjoy some anal toys when I get a chance.
( I’m married and our sex life is regular enough but so vanilla it’s not funny.)

I’ve some experience here, I was lucky to have a transgender fb when I lived abroad - I’ve had cock (albeit quite small) in my mouth and I loved it. My happiest memory is tasting her cum. She was bottom only and at the time that suited me perfectly.

*But* here’s the problem…
I love cocks when I see them in porn or pics on lit but I’m just not really attracted to the bodies that they are attached to!
I’m on Sniffies and the guys there in general are all handsome, lovely looking cocks and great bodies etc. But the thought of swallowing their cum or even kissing them does nothing for me.

Btw - I don’t think this makes me homophobic - I want them, badly - but I’m not attracted to them.

What to do!!??

Why can't you just stick to trans women?

 

[Rod_Love]

Trans women are awesome, no doubt about that. I think my journey towards cock admiration started with trans porn in the first place.
I’ve been on a few sites and there seem to 100x guys to each trans there. I’m a good looking guy, keep in shape etc but those are tough odds!
Also I live in Dublin where the trans community is still reasonably modest - whereas there’s a big gay presence here and apps / sites are pretty much made for discreet and easy hookups.
Unless I’m mistaken I don’t believe there’s an app to meet cd / trans??
Thanks for the reply!

 

[Escierto]

Trans women are awesome, no doubt about that. I think my journey towards cock admiration started with trans porn in the first place.
I’ve been on a few sites and there seem to 100x guys to each trans there. I’m a good looking guy, keep in shape etc but those are tough odds!
Also I live in Dublin where the trans community is still reasonably modest - whereas there’s a big gay presence here and apps / sites are pretty much made for discreet and easy hookups.
Unless I’m mistaken I don’t believe there’s an app to meet cd / trans??
Thanks for the reply!

My girlfriend used to use Tinder to meet guys. I have not been on Tinder in years but back then you had to read the profiles to find a trans woman like her. Grindr specially allows you to search for trans and I did meet a pretty trans woman there but the clientele are almost all gay guys. There are also web sites for dating trans people.

 

[Rod_Love]

Hi. Maybe I’ll give Grindr a go and see what’s there.
There are some lovely cocks out there - it would be a real shame not to experience them.
Btw, I want people to enjoy my cock as well!

 

[UseMePlease40]

Hi. Maybe I’ll give Grindr a go and see what’s there.
There are some lovely cocks out there - it would be a real shame not to experience them.
Btw, I want people to enjoy my cock as well!

I'd like to enjoy your cock

 

[ZacharyFagg]

Alot of guys think they are straight as long as they don't kiss, suck cock or take it in the ass. And I am definitely ok with that. Selfish guys that just want to use slutty bottoms like me are the best! Don't have to worry about them telling me they want to return the favor!

 

[Dreadman1]

*But* here’s the problem…
I love cocks when I see them in porn or pics on lit but I’m just not really attracted to the bodies that they are attached to!

Have you researched "demisexual"? Like, only being attracted when you have a strong emotional connection. Maybe that's why you are only attracted to the just the icing and not the cake? LOL!

 

[Jacktrew]

(this is my first post on LGBTQIA+ forum)

There is such a thing as heterosexual people who can enjoy homosexual activity. I've been strongly heterosexual my entire life, but I have also shared BJ, HJ, and even anal intercourse with other guys, and enjoyed it (sometimes). I say "strongly" heterosexual because ever since I was a child, from before I even knew what sex was, girls made me feel a certain way. When I was young, I got nervous and tongue tied. They seemed like a magically fascinating, magnetically attractive, other species. Boys seemed unremarkable, like simply the same species. As I got older, I felt soul-wrenching emotional pull towards women, in addition to raging physical desire. Holding a woman in my arms can feel like "being whole." I never have, and never could, feel anything remotely like that towards a male.

But some years ago I started j/o to porn with a friend. At first we just got naked, watched (straight) porn, and masturbated. But eventually we started sharing BJs. It was easy to immediately enjoy the feeling of slowly kissing and licking a hard cock. It took a bit longer to get accustomed to cum, but eventually I loved that too. I can definitely get turned on by feeling cum shooting into my mouth, or all over my face, or splashing on my body. Also, I have many times experienced frotting, with him and others. That is my favorite MM activity. It's so sexy masturbating with another guy, with a bit of massage oil and our cocks rubbing together. It's an absolutely amazing feeling, just breathtaking. It makes me hard as a rock feeling another warm, erect, oiled cock slipping and sliding against mine. And it is so delicious cumming that way, and seeing and feeling another cock throbbing and squirting all over mine and his. I've also penetrated another guy a handful of times, and had OK-to-excellent orgasms that way. I've also felt a guy cum inside me, but didn't get much sexual feeling from that. But sex with another man, no matter how great, feels like masturbation. It doesn't feel like making love, and never could for me.

I hesitate to call that "bisexual" because "bi" implies some kind of equivalence. To me, they are not remotely similar. One is an emotional, spiritual attraction, with many dimensions. The other is like an enjoyable sex toy, with one dimension. I love it and sometimes crave it, but it's still one-dimensional. I don't know the proper word for this orientation, or if there even is one.

There are some who deny that this is even a thing. But it is. And I'm not sure how to respond when I try to explain my sexuality, and somebody who isn't me, and doesn't have my orientation, tells me I am incorrect. What does that even mean? I'm telling them firsthand my experience, and they're telling me my experience doesn't exist? It defies logic, I just give up.

At some point I just drop labels and go with the flow; but when pressed, this pretty much describes me as "heteroflexible".

 

[davion2308]

I separate the emotional relationships with the sexual.

For example, I consider myself straight. I love women. I have romantic relationships with women. I'm not into dating guys, I don't want to kiss guys, I would kiss most women on this earth, except the mean ones or the jerks. I love women and prefer them sexually.

Saying that, there is something sexy about the very physical pleasure of cocks. I love sucking cock and getting mine sucked. I love sexual interactions with a cock and balls, and the guy attached to them really doesn't matter. It's not an emotional tie the way I tie emotions and feelings into sexual activity with women.

I would never date a guy, or hold hands with one, so emotionally and socially speaking, I'm straight. I'm just into the sex part of cocks.

I define me how I want. That's the best part. And I judge none of you for what you consider yourselves. More power to you!

 

[PersonalFavors]

Once it gets past a mutual bj or hj or a woman is present it deserves a label. With the woman there it’s bi. Once someone ends up fucked it’s gay. A guy kissing a guy is gay too.
Letting emotions get involved would be gay too.
Bj or hj is no different than going for a massage.

 

[Nekidinaz]

(this is my first post on LGBTQIA+ forum)

There is such a thing as heterosexual people who can enjoy homosexual activity. I've been strongly heterosexual my entire life, but I have also shared BJ, HJ, and even anal intercourse with other guys, and enjoyed it (sometimes). I say "strongly" heterosexual because ever since I was a child, from before I even knew what sex was, girls made me feel a certain way. When I was young, I got nervous and tongue tied. They seemed like a magically fascinating, magnetically attractive, other species. Boys seemed unremarkable, like simply the same species. As I got older, I felt soul-wrenching emotional pull towards women, in addition to raging physical desire. Holding a woman in my arms can feel like "being whole." I never have, and never could, feel anything remotely like that towards a male.

But some years ago I started j/o to porn with a friend. At first we just got naked, watched (straight) porn, and masturbated. But eventually we started sharing BJs. It was easy to immediately enjoy the feeling of slowly kissing and licking a hard cock. It took a bit longer to get accustomed to cum, but eventually I loved that too. I can definitely get turned on by feeling cum shooting into my mouth, or all over my face, or splashing on my body. Also, I have many times experienced frotting, with him and others. That is my favorite MM activity. It's so sexy masturbating with another guy, with a bit of massage oil and our cocks rubbing together. It's an absolutely amazing feeling, just breathtaking. It makes me hard as a rock feeling another warm, erect, oiled cock slipping and sliding against mine. And it is so delicious cumming that way, and seeing and feeling another cock throbbing and squirting all over mine and his. I've also penetrated another guy a handful of times, and had OK-to-excellent orgasms that way. I've also felt a guy cum inside me, but didn't get much sexual feeling from that. But sex with another man, no matter how great, feels like masturbation. It doesn't feel like making love, and never could for me.

I hesitate to call that "bisexual" because "bi" implies some kind of equivalence. To me, they are not remotely similar. One is an emotional, spiritual attraction, with many dimensions. The other is like an enjoyable sex toy, with one dimension. I love it and sometimes crave it, but it's still one-dimensional. I don't know the proper word for this orientation, or if there even is one.

There are some who deny that this is even a thing. But it is. And I'm not sure how to respond when I try to explain my sexuality, and somebody who isn't me, and doesn't have my orientation, tells me I am incorrect. What does that even mean? I'm telling them firsthand my experience, and they're telling me my experience doesn't exist? It defies logic, I just give up.

I totally understand where you're coming from and I have the exact same experience as you. I'm not into all the labels and simply refer to myself, again, like you, as a heterosexual who enjoys some m2m alternative sexual pleasures ...

 

[Nekidinaz]

That sounds so perfect. I too would like to submit to a gay Top

I actually did just that and now he's a friend who enjoys fucking me every now and then when I'm able to ...
It is great fun and I hope you find your gay top...you will likely not be disappointed

 

[Nekidinaz]

People like what people like, the labels clearly mean nothing.

Absolutely ...