KenM77Florida
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Me too. There are so many opportunities & adventures I could have participated in that I missed out on.
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Out of curiosity, why do you call yourself inadequate?I wish I had recognized my not-straightness a lot sooner than I did. Honestly I'm still coming to terms with it.
It's how I felt when I made this account - around the same time I was beginning to come to terms with my sexuality.Out of curiosity, why do you call yourself inadequate?
Thank you. I don’t think anyone is inadequate.It's how I felt when I made this account - around the same time I was beginning to come to terms with my sexuality.
Actually you're wrong."Straight' men who love cock, aren't "straight,' any way you spin it....
Well, as someone who has researched this topic extensively it is a medical fact.It amuses me how much men want to hold onto the "straight" label. They will be getting fucked up the ass by a big cock and still insisting they are straight lol.
That's hilarious. You should go to parties and tell everyone you are straight but you suck cock. See how that goes lol!Well, as someone who has researched this topic extensively it is a medical fact.
I could care less what you or anyone else thinks and we all have opinions, but I'll take the medical professionals opinion, not some moron in a chat room.
I haven't held on the being straight for most of my life. In my teen years I liked to look at cock and pussy pics. Got the chance to suck my first cock. Loved it. So then I was thinking , am I now gay? About a year later hooked up with a girl. Loved it. So now I loved both. What was I now? Never heard the term bisexual back then. But now in my sixties, I'm not straight, I'm bi!!It amuses me how much men want to hold onto the "straight" label. They will be getting fucked up the ass by a big cock and still insisting they are straight lol.
Yes, indeed. I was a resister myself and I kept saying that I only like cock if it's attached to a woman. Which is true but it's STILL cock! So like you, I surrendered my straight card.I haven't held on the being straight for most of my life. In my teen years I liked to look at cock and pussy pics. Got the chance to suck my first cock. Loved it. So then I was thinking , am I now gay? About a year later hooked up with a girl. Loved it. So now I loved both. What was I now? Never heard the term bisexual back then. But now in my sixties, I'm not straight, I'm bi!!
I think the problem is that people limit their thinking to a one-dimensional line, like the Kinsey scale. In this way of thinking, if you are x% straight, then you are (100-x)% gay. But what people are expressing here is that there are multiple aspects to sexuality, and your orientation could be different in different aspects. If you are mathematically inclined, you might think of it as an N-dimensional space rather than a one-dimensional line. You could have different orientation on each of N axis in this space. What people are expressing is real - I feel that way too. I refer to myself as "straight" because I could not ever develop a crush on a guy. I simply don't have that response in my brain. But sucking a cock appeals to me at least as much as eating pussy.That's hilarious. You should go to parties and tell everyone you are straight but you suck cock. See how that goes lol!
I am straight but I love cock? Is that the same as I am gay but I love women?I think the problem is that people limit their thinking to a one-dimensional line, like the Kinsey scale. In this way of thinking, if you are x% straight, then you are (100-x)% gay. But what people are expressing here is that there are multiple aspects to sexuality, and your orientation could be different in different aspects. If you are mathematically inclined, you might think of it as an N-dimensional space rather than a one-dimensional line. You could have different orientation on each of N axis in this space. What people are expressing is real - I feel that way too. I refer to myself as "straight" because I could not ever develop a crush on a guy. I simply don't have that response in my brain. But sucking a cock appeals to me at least as much as eating pussy.
Sometimes people jump to the conclusion that a person is using the "straight" label because they feel uncomfortable with the gay label. And for sure, sometimes that is true. But there is also something else very real that is not uncommon - people with differing orientation on different aspects of sexuality. When people say "I'm straight but I suck cock" that makes perfect sense to me, because I am pretty much of that orientation. I choose the "straight" label as the simplest one-word descriptor because I am very straight on the axis that matters most in the course of my life, which is love & partnership. It's more complex than that, but I'm unaware of a short term for it. If anybody knows, I'd be glad to know it. I don't think "bi" is right because it implies some equality between male and female attraction, and that is not how I feel. I feel oriented very differently about different aspects of sexuality.
Very true. We are conditioned to think in terms of labels and we frantically hold onto them sometimes but really? They had a stranglehold on me for a long time.What makes the fucking difference? If you think of yourself as straight but like to suck cock, that's your business. I don't matter what anyone else thinks. It's just my opinion but I think there are a lot of shades of grey when it comes to sexuality.
Just personally the way I consider myself. I've always thought of myself as bi ever since I knew there was such a thing, though I've only sucked one cock and I've ate a lot of pussy. But since I was a teen I've thought about and still do think about sucking cock.Very true. We are conditioned to think in terms of labels and we frantically hold onto them sometimes but really? They had a stranglehold on me for a long time.
Again, I think there's more than one aspect or axis. To make analogy, we have the words "big" and "small" to describe size as a single aspect. But when referring to a rectangular box, you might use three independent descriptors: width, length, depth. If a box is very long, but narrow and shallow, is it "big"? I don't know, to me the question itself is a little bit nonsense, there can be no clear answer. The post office sometimes classifies boxes by W+L+D, which then gets you back to one parameter. But the fact remains, there can be very different shaped boxes with the same W+L+D. If some of us are talking about shape, and others are talking in terms of "big" or "small", it's just going to lead to confusion, not communication.I am straight but I love cock? Is that the same as I am gay but I love women?
Exactly! I don’t find men physically attractive and would love for ur mouth to use my cockI don't find men attractive, but I can appreciate the 'usefulness' of a cock
There's a thread here about older men who have become bi-curious. I think the regret over missed opportunities is a SIGNIFICANT influence in the growing curiosity.Me too. There are so many opportunities & adventures I could have participated in that I missed out on.
SameI am straight acting, if that is a thing. I am bi, I love having sex with women and I love having sex with men!
My wife just don't know that I like having sex with men.
So I am straight as far as she and motly everybody that I know!
But if they aren't getting fucked and asked to fuck you may see them not be interested. So, now what?It amuses me how much men want to hold onto the "straight" label. They will be getting fucked up the ass by a big cock and still insisting they are straight lol.