Here is the situation. I posted that I have had some success meeting married men who motorcycle (as I do) and were looking for a friends with benefits situation on a previous thread. It has what happened. This ad has done well. I have developed 3 suck buddy relationships with other married men. I am not married, but I have a girl friend that does visit here often, stays over often and we are in a serious relationship. She has a key to my apartment and she uses it. She and I both have related friends and there are times that a friend or friends of hers will stop here thinking they would find her here. It is natural for friends to stop and see friends.
I am 62 years old and very much a closet cock sucker. I wish to stay that way. None of my regular friends know of this account, nor will they. I am not casual about my choice of staying in the closet. If there is such a thing as a "straight cock sucker" then that is the label.
Now. There have been times that either of these buddies could host. There are not many occasions for me to. So, when they can't host and wish to play.... where do we do this. That is the question and the details.
I wasn't asking for his judgement or his misguided suggestions. He can go fuck himself.
Blocked. This is privilege offered by the forum for obvious reasons. He is oil and I am water. Why would I continue with a dialog with him?
Last post regarding him. I wish him well. But he can go fuck himself.
I for one, totally understand your situation, and totally agree with you.