supply and demand

[snoozebutton]

OK I agree with a lot Mr. Blonde said but,"A guy has to have special circumstance to still be single past age 30. It is much easier for a quality woman to "slip through the cracks" and still be single than it is for a quality man to still be single at that age."

The only special circumstance is he may want true love. Never let society or social norms dictate when or if you find what you seek. Being selective isn't a female exclusive trait. But other than that I agree with your suggestions.

 

[lark sparrow]

lol you go, girl!

Seriously, if you find you have a ton in common with a forty-five year old man, it may just be a case of him being exceptionally immature, and who needs that in the long run really. Supply and demand be damned.

 

[niteshade]

Hell, I like them older. I am old for my age, and I usually have no patience for guys still in their 20s. At this point, I am not even looking for a dom type... just anyone reasonably sane and possesed of a brain. If you don't want the older ones, send them my way

 

[catalina_francisco]

Hell, I like them older. I am old for my age, and I usually have no patience for guys still in their 20s. At this point, I am not even looking for a dom type... just anyone reasonably sane and possesed of a brain. If you don't want the older ones, send them my way

LOL...now you are a girl with your head on straight. You go girl!! I used to date many older men when I was young and learnt a lot as well as being treated a lot better than by their younger, ego driven counterparts. At 16 I was dating a 34 yo, and I think the oldest I went was in my early 30's with a 62yo quadraplegic guy who was highly intelligent and fascinating and more than talented with his tongue.

Catalina

 

[WriterDom]

I was hiking with a 20ish Dom one afternoon, and we saw six naked subs way down the valley. They were all in the She-sleen position. He said, "Lets run down there and fuck one of those subs!"

I said, "No, lets walk and fuck them all."

 

[Krinaia]

Hell, I like them older. I am old for my age, and I usually have no patience for guys still in their 20s. At this point, I am not even looking for a dom type... just anyone reasonably sane and possesed of a brain. If you don't want the older ones, send them my way

Lol. Well 40s is too old for me. I am not searching for a father figure that gives me the willies. So I'll keep the 30somethings to myself. But get a pen and paper and I'll give you their names!

 

[lrisheyes]

Lol. Well 40s is too old for me. I am not searching for a father figure that gives me the willies. So I'll keep the 30somethings to myself. But get a pen and paper and I'll give you their names!

I wish i thought as clearly as you do when i was your age!!

I give you alot of credit for knowing what you want and not settling for anything less!! You Go Girl!!!


*pen and paper ready*

 

[TigerClaw]

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[niteshade]

Lol. Well 40s is too old for me. I am not searching for a father figure that gives me the willies. So I'll keep the 30somethings to myself. But get a pen and paper and I'll give you their names!

*Sits at desk, pen poised and ready over paper*

I didn't have anything I would consider a father figure, so maybe that is why it doesn't bother me. My 3 closest friends are 36, 37, and 40. The 40 year old is my best friend's husband, and he deffinately does not inspire thoughts of "Dad." Though he does try to play big brother, but that is just a guy thing. They almost all do it (or all the ones I know, anyhow).

 

[catalina_francisco]

LOL..I would have had serious issues with myself if any of the older men I have dated appeared as father figures. Lovers yes, intellectually stimulating yes, fathers no.

Catalina

 

[TigerClaw]

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[catalina_francisco]

Heh, I didnt give you permission to post my pic.

Well as long as this babe

ain't your sub you shouldn't complain too much!!! LOL.




Catalina

 

[Krinaia]

So demand one out and I've been supplied with an interesting sort who somewhat fits my selection process:

221 to 35 - check (27)
local - sort of
sane - seems to be
respectful of my safeties - definitely check
professional - nope, dang it
non-smoker - okay, another no but he wants to quit
is sexy - so far!

So, not perfect but such is life. I was immediately disappointed when I learned after several days of chatting, that he is not as local as I had assumed - 1.5 hr drive. We had our first phone conversation last night. And possibly again on Saturday.

So far my only hang-ups are - he's a blue collar worker and I cna be an uppity snob sometimes. I'll have to get over that. I don't know if I want a long distance relationship but I also don't think it's a good idea to rule out this relationship until I've given it a real chance. Why be so serious so soon?

Oh and the smoking thing - we discussed it. He doesn't mind not smoking in my presence and knows that if he wants things to get serious, it would have to stop. He wants to quit so maybe if things happen that way - I could be that motivation for me, the thing that helps him get into the right mindset.

 

[Netzach]

Part of the reason you may be having troubles is that it takes some people time to develop as dominants, for some people it's a trajectory, tomorrow's 30 year old dominant may be today's 22 year old exploratory bottom.

(no pun intended. God I love exploratory bottoms....)

You have a lot of time. I've never had problems finding "a date" and certainly would describe being 25-30 as peak time for that, not slowing down time. Eesh.

 

[Krinaia]

There was a new one - two weeks, phone calls every night. Some exploratory submissiveness from me towards him. But thinsg possibly are going downhill and I think I'm about to lose the possiblity of another dominant - exploratory or serious - once again, before having ever met the fellow.

And it's all got me feeling incredibly insecure. Is it because he's callous? Still shaky from a divorce? Just a young dom that isn't good with aftercare? Time for me to move on? Continue seeing what happens? At least go on that first date should he ever free up his schedule and i get my car back?

Too many questions and all I want is for someone to make out with. And there is this cute guy at work that often looks up when I pass by but I dunno - maybe he always looks up when people walk by. And just looking at him makes me want to jump him. But he's a co-worker.

Being single, horny and having just had a taste of sex - jut enough to make you hunger for more .... it's a truly tortorous thing.

 

[redelicious]

Don't settle.

 

[bdsmToy]

I need to find some young person interested in a bdsm relationship as well, 20M here Attending college sorta makes it hard thou.





*edit* sorry for the error, I quoted myself oops

 

[bdsmToy]

I need to find some young person interested in a bdsm relationship as well, 20M here Attending college sorta makes it hard thou.

 

[FungiUg]

Don't settle.

Especially if you are foundations!

 

[TNRkitect2b]

Especially if you are foundations!

The architect in me wants to throw something at you for her, that's just bad! but very punny!

 

[Krinaia]

The architect in me wants to throw something at you for her, that's just bad! but very punny!

The architect in me wants to roll my eyes. I rarely throw things but I think we should both give fungi a big raspberry. .... seriously, uh... lame.... (nice valley girl tid bit aye?)


And the really retarded bit of me actually began to think about what sort of soil a foundation and what sort of foundation would settle in it. <sigh>