Survey of sorts: I need new things to say to my Sir. Share, please?

[A Desert Rose]

I'm feeling in a rut with things to say. I've found this site and it's fabulous. Could have used it looong ago. I say what I feel when I'm allowed and my mouth isn't getting fucked with who knows what's available. I want to gather new things to please my Sir tonight. Any favorite phrases out there?

Is this about talking dirty? I had a really good thread in the How-To forum on this topic. The people who posted to it gave me some really good websites and book titles.

But somehow, this is not about that... it's gone somewhere else. And now, I'm not sure what it is you're asking for.

 

[emotionskill]

Samsdolly, it sounds to me as if you want things to move along now and right now, but he is trying to feel things out still. So why not sit down and speak to him about the expectations of the relationship, instead of being manipulative? And, if you cannot sit and talk about what is bothering you, is this the kind of relationship you want? Things to think about.



This is just my opinion and probably worth every cent you paid for it.

 

[lil_slave_rose]

Sorry I've lost people in my original question. As for the 10 minutes, it was a reward for good behavior and efforts made to correct my impatience this week. Well, forget the question as I realize now it's pretty absurd of me to ask. You're all right. You don't know him and don't know the situation. Only my Sir and I know. But when I do say things, I'm finding that I'm coming across in ways that impart more irritation in Sir. I fully expected a great deal more punishment than I received last night, but probably because I kept my mouth shut, I got away with an easy scene. I have a hard time keeping my mouth shut. Someone posted the "You hit like a girl" phrase.... that's a good one and one I'll probably remember and use, much to my ultimate dismay. We're a relatively new D/s couple, though both have had other D/s relationships. My last relationship was more intense and I was deprived of speaking except for uncontrolled utterances of fucking bastard and the like. I really don't think my Sir has unleashed all of his potential yet. I believe he is the type that is trying to keep me thinking that this is going to be ok and it's not going to hurt that much and then one day all hell's going to break loose. I want all hell to break loose now! So, I'll ask, or say things that will piss him off and be disobedient. Maybe that's what he wants. I'm not quite sure yet.
I'm rambling, forgive please. Thanks to all who pointed out my confusing question. I realize now only I will be able to answer it....

ok again i'm confused. you are topping from the bottom in order to 'please' Him, and then wondering why he is getting upset or whatever??? in MY opinion it is NOT the submissives place to try and make 'all hell break loose sooner' is your relationship about pleasing you, or him?? mouthing off to my Master constantly just to piss Him off and make him unleash his sadism on me would not be a good idea because it wouldn't be the kind i wanted, it would be real punishment and that is NOT fun for me.eventually, Sir would grow very tired of it and probably decide i'm not the submissive for Him. maybe step back and do things to please him, listen to what he tells you pleases him and stop being in such a hurry to please yourself, as, in my opinion anyway, and others may disagree, but it's not about YOU, it's about HIM and what pleases Him and you gaining pleasure in the fact that you have pleased him.....

 

[emotionskill]

The phrase 'Fuck me blind, daddy' should have a spew alert!!

I mean, have you ever had spunk land in your eye??

I am sure if you asked them for that, most men would oblige; intentionally or otherwise

Spunk in the eye does give new meaning to "fuck me blind, daddy"

 

[lil_slave_rose]

Spunk in the eye does give new meaning to "fuck me blind, daddy"

lmao..i've had it in my eye, it stings like a son of a bitch. i've it up my nose He didn't do it on purpose but sure thought it was hilarious as i was gagging and begging Him to wipe it off..LOL..i can't stand to have it on my face so He does try really really hard not to get it there, but things happen and well sometimes He can't exactly control where it goes..omg why are we talking about this?? lOL oh yea, because of the comment 'fuck me blind Daddy' and by the way that would sound entirely too much like an order to my Master and i'd be in pretty big trouble for saying it *pouts*

 

[myinnerslut]

Spunk in the eye does give new meaning to "fuck me blind, daddy"

i've had it in my eye twice. both times it stung and left my eye all red for hours.

 

[the_pet]

At first i thought you were just asking for some new "talk dirty to me" kind of phrases but then i kind of got the impression that perhaps you were looking for phrases to provoke because you want more attention whether it be negative or positive.

So.......... talk dirty look in "How To", dissatisfied with level of play or relationship... talk about it because anything other than that for me is manipulation and topping from the bottom.

Good luck and i hope it works out for you.

 

[samsdolly]

Is there any way to erase my post? Sorry, it is confusing, but you've all given me good feedback. I was thinking about me because, well, I don't see him very often and want to more. The 10 minutes I spoke about earlier was designed to give me pleasure, but in whichever way he saw fit. I think my problem stems from a previous Master in which things swung both ways sometimes for me between being a Dom/sub, if other people were involved. Not D over him, but everyone else. Before I say anything else confusing, I'll stop here. I've identified the problem and will move on. Thanks again.

 

[MasterPhoenix]

If My rose were to ever say to Me something to the effect of "you hit like a girl" She would not be sitting for a long time, and it would NOT be fun.

She would probably also end up with a bar of soap in her mouth, and get to stand in the corner or something....

There is a line between being a bit bratty in fun, which is OK, and being defiant and disrespectful which is not ok.

 

[liberatedslave]

ok again i'm confused. you are topping from the bottom in order to 'please' Him, and then wondering why he is getting upset or whatever??? in MY opinion it is NOT the submissives place to try and make 'all hell break loose sooner' is your relationship about pleasing you, or him?? mouthing off to my Master constantly just to piss Him off and make him unleash his sadism on me would not be a good idea because it wouldn't be the kind i wanted, it would be real punishment and that is NOT fun for me.eventually, Sir would grow very tired of it and probably decide i'm not the submissive for Him. maybe step back and do things to please him, listen to what he tells you pleases him and stop being in such a hurry to please yourself, as, in my opinion anyway, and others may disagree, but it's not about YOU, it's about HIM and what pleases Him and you gaining pleasure in the fact that you have pleased him.....

Yep, This is the real issue here I think. Not all dominants are way out sadists and if that's what you think you need maybe you should give this guy a break and go find one?

If I was blatantly cheeky and set out to make my Sir punish me....

I am a submissive, not suicidal.