CuriousJInLA
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That’s interesting and daunting. Can’t wait to hear about it
Swapping wifes is more attractive than let her have her way with another ?
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Ooh, I would be excited untill the point it was happening. Then scared to death.
A third does not interest me so hope you do find the right couple.
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We have emotions changing hourly, from excited, horny, to absolute terror. Think it will be like that all week leading up to it.
We don’t intend to ‘swap’ as this is us just dipping our toes in.
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I would think that going to a swing club or a simple swinger party, your mind set really should be that you want to try some new things or try some new people. Whether it is a swap or joining in with some group play. I think you both need to be open to having your partner have sex with another person. This lifestyle can be a lot of fun and add a lot to your sex life with your partner. From simply discussing what happened to reliving some moments in your own bedroom.
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That is your intention now but once there and mingling with people and even get a view of others having fun, you just might change your mind!!
Absolutely. . . I started swapping girlfriends when I was in yearly 20s. Such a turn on. Not to be missed
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We’ve set limits and boundaries we won’t go past this time.
What are they?
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We can make out. Kiss. Touch other people but no penetration. No oral.
We are open to having sex with each other and being watched (we’ve already done this once before)
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I hope it all goes well! I'm sure you'll have a sexy time.
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Great rules and it sounds hot and tantalizing
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Thank you. Only a couple of days to go now
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I envy you quite a bit. I have a fantasy to do a swap or go to a swingers club but my wife is not ready. We discuss it but but on a fantasy level.Thank you. Only a couple of days to go now
You enjoy and the first time is about getting your feet wet and testing the water
I share your point of view, the ultimate is when it's no longer an exchange between two couples but an orgy, each will find their pleasure without taking into account what the other wants or doesn't want, no matter how many people you've fucked with or their age or gender or build!! You leave full and bursting with orgasm!!
Of course, in an orgy, it's the women who enjoy it the most!! Leaving with cum full in all three holes is absolute bliss!!
i love this mind, it sound the truthI'd be down to being swapped. Would be even hotter if I had no idea to who I was going. And if the man was about 20 years older
Possibly wrong thread but I couldn't find your other post. I remember you saying that night went really well. Have you decided any more on next steps?Thank you. Only a couple of days to go now
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We have. We’ve decided to go back to the same club in November.
We’ve had a lot of discussions about what happened and what we are hoping we can do at the next event.
Good luck. Hoping for the same couple to be there or not that bothered?
Very hot. Can you fill us in on what you’d be willing to let happen on the next trip? You and hubby have the same thoughts or did one want to push things a little more before coming to an agreement?
Swapping wifes is more attractive than let her have her way with another?
More attractive for whom?
I really don't understand swinging. What if the woman you are attracted to is married to a man your wife is NOT attracted to?? Do you just say, "Sorry, I'm hot for your wife, but my wife isn't hot for you, so no thank. ..Now, would the next couple please step forward."
To my thinking, if you're okay with your wife fucking another man, you should leave it to her to pick who that man is without it being a part of a package deal.
And no one should ever be asked to "take one for the team" - ie., have sex w/ someone they're not particularly attracted to just keep the other three people happy.
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You're right, you don't understand it.
I've never done it but from the research I've done, it's clearly a case that it's got to be right for all four of the people involved. It's not just a book in, turn up, hope they're ok and go for it session.
Maybe.. but I'm also not judging it. I have no problem with the ethics, just the way it's suppose to play out.
The chances of my wife being sufficiently attracted to a man she just met to have sex with him on the spot is probably less than 1 in 1000. For it to happen, he'd better have Sean Connery's good looks, James Bond's charm AND the key to a private room that looks like a quaint Swiss Ski Chalet. Instead, at a Swinger's or Sex Club, it's is more likely to be: "Honey, this is Fred. Umm, he wants to fuck you in that dingy, dank room on a dirty mattress.. Any interest?" Yeah, I don't see that happening for any but the horniest women.
I think a better plan is to let my wife find her NSA hookup in some other, more organic way. Like at Yoga, or with a co-worker while on a business trip, or maybe a guy at a resort while traveling with her girlfriends, etc... I can see that happening way more easily than wanting to have sex with a guy at a sex club.
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I suppose it depends what you're looking for, what your expectations are of the people and location, etc.
One option is go to a no obligation swingers club for a look round and chat. Don't go expecting anything than learning more but do set boundaries if you both meet a couple you're both interested in. An exception might be, for example, that you're okay watching her kiss (and more) another woman.
Another option is get online at a dating site for couples and see who's about - look as couples at people who do or don't look the part. You can book a hotel and be in full control of the location, meet them in a nice lounge bar and then if you hit it off, offer to take them upstairs.
As you say, though, might not be for everyone, especially if your wife currently dresses and undresses in the dark! Could be fun researching which couples you'd both say yes to or indeed both reject - looks, preferences, etc. and be honest and open with it. After all, swinging isn't for insecure couples, it's for those who love each other so much that they know seeing their SO with someone else will increase their love for them, not increase their paranoia or jealousy. I've watched Mrs AW kiss other women and it's hot. She's kissed other men but never in front of me but always tells me after (she usually comes home horny because snogging someone else has got her wet but she didn't want them enough to go further with them).
Well, I'm pretty sure EVERY swingers club is a no-obligation club. I can't fathom there are clubs where a woman has no choice but to engage in sex.
And my wife is quite comfortable undressing and having sex in a lit room.. ..So, it's not that
It's not for us, but I'm glad it fits the bill for others. ..So long as it is totally consensual and mutually enjoyed, I have no problem with it, even if I'm skeptical about it having broad appeal.
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