Taking the plunge...how did you do it?

I want to explore my fantasies of giving head and getting anal. I have had these desires for a very long time. However, I need to be very discrete due to my family and work. I also don't want just some random meet in public, I want to be comfortable and take my time without looking over my shoulder worried about being discovered. Any advice?
If you "really" want to do it, you can find a way. Be careful. Be selective. Only do what you feel comfortable doing. But, if you make it too restrictive, you may never achieve your goal. It took me 5 years of wanting to suck a cock, before I realized that if I wanted to take the plunge, I had to eventually 'trust' someone enough to meet. Then trust him enough to actually do the deed with him. Once I started sucking cock, my only regret is waiting for so long.
 
So I have been talking to someone and am supposed to meet in a couple of days, after the holiday. Just a friends watching a movie, getting to know each other better meeting. And I'm trying not to talk myself out of it. Mostly because I absolutely don't want to embarrass myself or more importantly, my family, being outed. I have wanted to experience this for so long but the anxiety is about to get the better of me. Advise anyone?
I don't have any advice, but I will say I know how you feel!
 
If you "really" want to do it, you can find a way. Be careful. Be selective. Only do what you feel comfortable doing. But, if you make it too restrictive, you may never achieve your goal. It took me 5 years of wanting to suck a cock, before I realized that if I wanted to take the plunge, I had to eventually 'trust' someone enough to meet. Then trust him enough to actually do the deed with him. Once I started sucking cock, my only regret is waiting for so long.
Same here.
 
If you "really" want to do it, you can find a way. Be careful. Be selective. Only do what you feel comfortable doing. But, if you make it too restrictive, you may never achieve your goal. It took me 5 years of wanting to suck a cock, before I realized that if I wanted to take the plunge, I had to eventually 'trust' someone enough to meet. Then trust him enough to actually do the deed with him. Once I started sucking cock, my only regret is waiting for so long.
Get to know and trust him, discretion always.
 
Here are the details for those interested.

Gave my first blowjob to completion and loved it. He was very patient, I was so nervous but he didn't push. We talked about various things not sex related and also my long time desire to do this and how he came to realize he was bi. He started off giving me a foot rub, then we eventually stripped down and started of jacking each other. First cock i've touched other than my own, he is cut, i'm not so it was very different. Then he asked if I wanted to suck him, I hesitated a few seconds then got down between his legs and started lightly sucking his balls eventually licking up to the head. I licked and nibbled on the head then took the head in my mouth and started sucking it. He was not too big, 5.5 and thin, just right for me to start with. I took him all the way to the base over and over and he commented that I was very good. The practice had paid off. I asked if he came alot and he said yes. I always imagined myself swallowing but wasn't sure about it this first time. But I wanted the whole experience and when he came I kept sucking and swallowing. Honestly, it had little flavor and there wasn't as much as I expected. All in all it was great.
 
Here are the details for those interested.

Gave my first blowjob to completion and loved it. He was very patient, I was so nervous but he didn't push. We talked about various things not sex related and also my long time desire to do this and how he came to realize he was bi. He started off giving me a foot rub, then we eventually stripped down and started of jacking each other. First cock i've touched other than my own, he is cut, i'm not so it was very different. Then he asked if I wanted to suck him, I hesitated a few seconds then got down between his legs and started lightly sucking his balls eventually licking up to the head. I licked and nibbled on the head then took the head in my mouth and started sucking it. He was not too big, 5.5 and thin, just right for me to start with. I took him all the way to the base over and over and he commented that I was very good. The practice had paid off. I asked if he came alot and he said yes. I always imagined myself swallowing but wasn't sure about it this first time. But I wanted the whole experience and when he came I kept sucking and swallowing. Honestly, it had little flavor and there wasn't as much as I expected. All in all it was great.
Sounds like a good time was had by all. Glad it all went well for you.
 
Here are the details for those interested.

Gave my first blowjob to completion and loved it. He was very patient, I was so nervous but he didn't push. We talked about various things not sex related and also my long time desire to do this and how he came to realize he was bi. He started off giving me a foot rub, then we eventually stripped down and started of jacking each other. First cock i've touched other than my own, he is cut, i'm not so it was very different. Then he asked if I wanted to suck him, I hesitated a few seconds then got down between his legs and started lightly sucking his balls eventually licking up to the head. I licked and nibbled on the head then took the head in my mouth and started sucking it. He was not too big, 5.5 and thin, just right for me to start with. I took him all the way to the base over and over and he commented that I was very good. The practice had paid off. I asked if he came alot and he said yes. I always imagined myself swallowing but wasn't sure about it this first time. But I wanted the whole experience and when he came I kept sucking and swallowing. Honestly, it had little flavor and there wasn't as much as I expected. All in all it was great.
Congratulations! You just did what so many men want to do, but haven't gone through with.
You've done the hardest part. <-- ;)
 
Here are the details for those interested.

Gave my first blowjob to completion and loved it. He was very patient, I was so nervous but he didn't push. We talked about various things not sex related and also my long time desire to do this and how he came to realize he was bi. He started off giving me a foot rub, then we eventually stripped down and started of jacking each other. First cock i've touched other than my own, he is cut, i'm not so it was very different. Then he asked if I wanted to suck him, I hesitated a few seconds then got down between his legs and started lightly sucking his balls eventually licking up to the head. I licked and nibbled on the head then took the head in my mouth and started sucking it. He was not too big, 5.5 and thin, just right for me to start with. I took him all the way to the base over and over and he commented that I was very good. The practice had paid off. I asked if he came alot and he said yes. I always imagined myself swallowing but wasn't sure about it this first time. But I wanted the whole experience and when he came I kept sucking and swallowing. Honestly, it had little flavor and there wasn't as much as I expected. All in all it was great.
Congratulations, glad to hear you really enjoyed it. Are you going to meet him again?
 
Here are the details for those interested.

Gave my first blowjob to completion and loved it. He was very patient, I was so nervous but he didn't push. We talked about various things not sex related and also my long time desire to do this and how he came to realize he was bi. He started off giving me a foot rub, then we eventually stripped down and started of jacking each other. First cock i've touched other than my own, he is cut, i'm not so it was very different. Then he asked if I wanted to suck him, I hesitated a few seconds then got down between his legs and started lightly sucking his balls eventually licking up to the head. I licked and nibbled on the head then took the head in my mouth and started sucking it. He was not too big, 5.5 and thin, just right for me to start with. I took him all the way to the base over and over and he commented that I was very good. The practice had paid off. I asked if he came alot and he said yes. I always imagined myself swallowing but wasn't sure about it this first time. But I wanted the whole experience and when he came I kept sucking and swallowing. Honestly, it had little flavor and there wasn't as much as I expected. All in all it was great.
Congratulations man! It sounds like a great first time experience! Glad it all worked out for you
 
Here are the details for those interested.

Gave my first blowjob to completion and loved it. He was very patient, I was so nervous but he didn't push. We talked about various things not sex related and also my long time desire to do this and how he came to realize he was bi. He started off giving me a foot rub, then we eventually stripped down and started of jacking each other. First cock i've touched other than my own, he is cut, i'm not so it was very different. Then he asked if I wanted to suck him, I hesitated a few seconds then got down between his legs and started lightly sucking his balls eventually licking up to the head. I licked and nibbled on the head then took the head in my mouth and started sucking it. He was not too big, 5.5 and thin, just right for me to start with. I took him all the way to the base over and over and he commented that I was very good. The practice had paid off. I asked if he came alot and he said yes. I always imagined myself swallowing but wasn't sure about it this first time. But I wanted the whole experience and when he came I kept sucking and swallowing. Honestly, it had little flavor and there wasn't as much as I expected. All in all it was great.
Good for you!!! Glad it went well for both you and your new buddy. You are now an "Official Cocksucker."
 
Here are the details for those interested.

Gave my first blowjob to completion and loved it. He was very patient, I was so nervous but he didn't push. We talked about various things not sex related and also my long time desire to do this and how he came to realize he was bi. He started off giving me a foot rub, then we eventually stripped down and started of jacking each other. First cock i've touched other than my own, he is cut, i'm not so it was very different. Then he asked if I wanted to suck him, I hesitated a few seconds then got down between his legs and started lightly sucking his balls eventually licking up to the head. I licked and nibbled on the head then took the head in my mouth and started sucking it. He was not too big, 5.5 and thin, just right for me to start with. I took him all the way to the base over and over and he commented that I was very good. The practice had paid off. I asked if he came alot and he said yes. I always imagined myself swallowing but wasn't sure about it this first time. But I wanted the whole experience and when he came I kept sucking and swallowing. Honestly, it had little flavor and there wasn't as much as I expected. All in all it was great.
Congratulations! Now it’s time to find number two :)
 
Here are the details for those interested.

Gave my first blowjob to completion and loved it. He was very patient, I was so nervous but he didn't push. We talked about various things not sex related and also my long time desire to do this and how he came to realize he was bi. He started off giving me a foot rub, then we eventually stripped down and started of jacking each other. First cock i've touched other than my own, he is cut, i'm not so it was very different. Then he asked if I wanted to suck him, I hesitated a few seconds then got down between his legs and started lightly sucking his balls eventually licking up to the head. I licked and nibbled on the head then took the head in my mouth and started sucking it. He was not too big, 5.5 and thin, just right for me to start with. I took him all the way to the base over and over and he commented that I was very good. The practice had paid off. I asked if he came alot and he said yes. I always imagined myself swallowing but wasn't sure about it this first time. But I wanted the whole experience and when he came I kept sucking and swallowing. Honestly, it had little flavor and there wasn't as much as I expected. All in all it was great.
Sounds like you enjoyed giving your first blow job. Did he return the favor and give you a blow job?

One day I want to take the plunge and give a blow job.
 
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