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If - if - both husband and wife are agreed and if - if - it is certain that #3 is bi, how about something straight-forward but non-threatening? Invite her to dinner, normal amount of booze. At the door as she is leaving, husband out of sight, wife gives normal good-bye girl-to-girl, non-sexual hug, lets go and says something like, “We both think you’re very attractive. If you’d like to stay, we’d both be thrilled.”