The Art of Cunnilingus: What Women Want

[LipstickKitten]

Wow, zetacon, why is it we never hooked up when I lived in Indiana?

Don't get jealous, Lance, honey.

 

[ShiningEyes]

I'm glad you've found your angel. I'm so to speak looking for mine! *S*

By the way, are you currently in a relationship? And just as a note to watch out for, what was the point of breaking up your connection with said person? I continue to try to learn from everyone what to DO and NOT do. If you don't mind?

Well...I guess the 2nd statement above answered one question you asked. I don't mind sharing. I am currently not in a relationship. I am looking. I actually plan to put a personals ad on here explaining what I'm looking for. I was in love with the person I was with, but I was truely in love, in a different way, with another person. My heart seemed to want another more than the one I was with, but I was very true to the one I was with. Like the song goes "If you can't be with the one you love, love the one your with!" And love him I did. Untill I found out he loved another and she hurt him badly. He hid it from me untill it became obvious that I was 2nd to him. I hadn't done that to him. And it hurt very much. but we ended as friends. The other person I loved dearly came to me and told me how he felt. I, stupidly, let down my guard and for a 2nd time was burned badly. I've been pretty much single ever since. Fearful of getting burned, and not truely being over the one person I want to be with and the one person I love more in this world!

 

[zetacon4]

Just my terrible fate of you being in Indy

Wow, zetacon, why is it we never hooked up when I lived in Indiana?

Don't get jealous, Lance, honey.

And me up here in Elkhart. I know some about the great subject, but I am longing to learn everything I can from all the great ladies that have and will post here. Please let us guys know how to eat you with all the great talent we can bring to bare on the subject of pleasuring you!!!

 

[LipstickKitten]

Okay. I'm tired, but not too tired for this subject.

I love being flat tongued, all the way along my slit - sloowwwwly - to the nub of my clit, then circling my clit, then probing the bud. By then my clit is rock hard and I love to have it sucked.

Being penetrated while being eaten is a double pleasure. My favorite is being fucked from behind while being eaten. The sensations that course through my body leave me breathless.

Lance can tell you about me being breathless. He kept having to tell me to breathe.

 

[zetacon4]

What a tragedy!

I'm glad you've found your angel. I'm so to speak looking for mine! *S*



Well...I guess the 2nd statement above answered one question you asked. I don't mind sharing. I am currently not in a relationship. I am looking. I actually plan to put a personals ad on here explaining what I'm looking for. I was in love with the person I was with, but I was truely in love, in a different way, with another person. My heart seemed to want another more than the one I was with, but I was very true to the one I was with. Like the song goes "If you can't be with the one you love, love the one your with!" And love him I did. Untill I found out he loved another and she hurt him badly. He hid it from me untill it became obvious that I was 2nd to him. I hadn't done that to him. And it hurt very much. but we ended as friends. The other person I loved dearly came to me and told me how he felt. I, stupidly, let down my guard and for a 2nd time was burned badly. I've been pretty much single ever since. Fearful of getting burned, and not truely being over the one person I want to be with and the one person I love more in this world!

I can really feel your pain on that. I currently am discovering a new side of me that took me quite by surprise. I am not sure how that person sees me just yet, but time will tell. I think one must seek to find that one true love, no matter how many times disappointment and hurt come of the trying. It is said, that if something is truly worth having, it is worth fighting to have and putting your all into it. So I hope you have the courage and strength to continue to pursue your quest for real abiding love.
I hope you will post more insights into your sexual preferences and ideas. Pose questions too if you can think of them. Thanks so very much!

 

[zetacon4]

I would love to have experienced that!

Okay. I'm tired, but not too tired for this subject.

I love being flat tongued, all the way along my slit - sloowwwwly - to the nub of my clit, then circling my clit, then probing the bud. By then my clit is rock hard and I love to have it sucked.

Being penetrated while being eaten is a double pleasure. My favorite is being fucked from behind while being eaten. The sensations that course through my body leave me breathless.

Lance can tell you about me being breathless. He kept having to tell me to breathe.

For me, the most intense pleasure I can have sexually, is to experience a woman's intense orgasms. It quakes all through me and there is nothing that I would rather experience! It lasts much longer that the feeling of ejaculating. So I seek her orgasms as my way of greatest pleasure too. Breathe baby!!!!! I love it!
If you were screaming hard, you would be really breathing!!!
I liked your details too. Thanks! More when you have the time.

 

[ShiningEyes]

I can really feel your pain on that. I currently am discovering a new side of me that took me quite by surprise. I am not sure how that person sees me just yet, but time will tell. I think one must seek to find that one true love, no matter how many times disappointment and hurt come of the trying. It is said, that if something is truly worth having, it is worth fighting to have and putting your all into it. So I hope you have the courage and strength to continue to pursue your quest for real abiding love.

Your so very welcome! And also very right! Only time will tell. It's hard to say what will be and what won't be. *S* Things change and, whether some believe or not, people do as well. I truely believe I've found my angel. If we are ment to be, then we will be, but as for sexual preference!! I'm a bottom and love being so! That's what I truely need and want! hehe

 

[kwiz]

Pleasing!

I agree with everything I've read and just want to add one thing. As a 30 year
veteran to muffdiving do it right or just don't expect any more effort in return.
The is in the detail....give 100%

 

[toledoslim2]

Cunnilingus: What Women Want

To me bringing a woman to a very sensual and torrid orgasm is my high, I love th hear those sex sounds that really turns me on makes me want to do even more with her, I have also found that with a few ladies they like having their ass penetrated as I suck or hum on their clit as they rock and buck its so hot to me, If any of you ladies would have something to add, Please do, I don't know it all and am willing to learn, The Wetter the Better, Later, Ron

 

[toysrfun]

Great idea for a thread, Z!

Just discovered your thread, Z. What a great idea. I absolutely love eating pussy, can do it for hours. I had an affair with a married woman a few years ago and our times together were often brief. We would spend a lot of time kissing (something else that I truly love to do) but would usually end up with me licking her sweet pussy to several orgasms. I love it when she came. I think every woman's preferences are a little different. Thanks to Jewelz, Shining Eyes and Candy for some great suggestions! I am always willing to learn. What a great fantasy it would be to have these hot women (and some of their men - that one is for you Lance ) in a room to run a "training" session! I am licking my lips just pondering that thought.


Toys

 

[TantaLiza]

Re: OK. Here are some starting points...

1. How much other types of foreplay do you like before you want your pussy touched or caressed? One of my fave ways to begin is to be fresh from the shower and have him massage me from head to toe...makes the whole body most responsive to any touch...also feels good to have my toes licked and sucked...can feel it pulling in my pussy when truly aroused.

2. What are the stages of sensitivity of the glans of your clit? And what to you like as stimulation during each of these stages? Have recently found that I love someone to talk dirty to me while working me over...it can bring on spasms in my clit and thighs, even cause orgasm without even touching...from there, he can easily start wherever he likes and I'll respond accordingly...I especially like to have light nibbling on inner thighs and outer lips before actually touching my clit...just the right lick can send me over the edge and I get VERY sensitive and need a short break to recover...then "High Ho Silver, Away!"

3. When you are about to be overtaken by your orgasm, what, if any stimulation do you want at that time (Be very specific here, parts and pressure and stuff)? I like to be nibbled lightly so as to continue orgasm as long as possible...also like to be fingered harder so as to feel "filled"...adds stimulations to rim my anus also...

4. What should your lover do for stimulation after you have had the first and succeeding orgasms to bridge you to the next one? As said before...I become VERY sensitive and need to be caressed everywhere else but there so as to recover....especially like to have my breasts fondled and my nipples chewed on...they are more sensitive to harder play as they aren't as large as I've seen in pictures...

5. What signal or phrase do you use to let the guy know when to stop all stimulation. (in between orgasms and to end a session)? My legs tend to jump, quiver and close around his head when I get too sensitive to touch...that usually signals him to step back...that along with me grabbing his head and bringing him to my mouth so we can share the taste...mmmmmmm

If any of you think of a good question, please post it and we will get answers on that too. Thanks!

 

[TantaLiza]

Re: Just thought of another question...

6. How long do you like to be stimulated before giving in and having your orgasm. Does it very for each time? Honestly, it varies with each time...depending on how much foreplay has already occurred and if I need some release before continuing on with the more powerful stuff...

7. How does the intensity of your orgasm very from the first on down until the last during any one session? Are there too many factors that determine that? All things being kept constant, would you have the same strength of orgasmic effect each time? Or, does it wane or grow stronger? Have had some recent experiences that make me question that...have been more orgasmic lately than I've ever been and need to experiment more to be able to answer that with knowledge...

8. How much does nipple and breast stimulation play into achieving your orgasm? Do you need it everytime, or just the first time to get you pumped up for the first orgasm? (Please include also, what type of squeezing or handling of your breast tissue you prefer. That is often an area where guys don't know how hard or how much of it to do. Nipples seem simple by comparison. This is as a side effect to pussy stimulation, since breasts and pussy are connected. Have always needed more breast stimulation than recieved up to now...most were more interested in the main event than what helped to make it...my breasts need a bit of roughness to actually get them sensitive...pinching and biting the nipples ultimately send quivers to my clit and can even start an orgasm on it's own...learning more every day...

9. How strongly does putting fingers inside and playing with the vaginal walls does that contribute to causing your orgasm to begin? And does the enrich the strength and duration of your orgasm if added into the equation? G-spot...need I say more... if stimulated in the right time and space, it will trigger inner and outer orgasm at same time...it's only happened one time but all I can say to that is WOW....

10. The vestibule: how sensitive is it to the touch and does it produce enough stimulation to be licked repeatedly over each pre-orgasmic period? And, can it be licked and played with during and right ofter you have cum? (not touching the glans of the clit) Most times it can be very stimulating to ease all the way around without touching...then when my clit is actually touched it can take very little more to send me over the edge...have to make sure it's time for release though...sometimes it's better to continue teasing to make the orgasm the best possible, including more stimulation to breasts and torso...a light touch of the fingertips can bring on major skin sensitivity....makes me quiver thinking about it....mmmmmm

 

[TantaLiza]

Thanks Z for asking the questions...

Sometimes it's easier to answer when given questions... makes one have to think about the act and how it really turns them on... I'll have plenty to think about today

Hugs!

Liza

 

[Fiana Sidhe]

Re: OK. Here are some starting points...

1. How much other types of foreplay do you like before you want your pussy touched or caressed?A lot ... I like when my S/O gives me a message on my back, runs their hands up and down my body as if trying to memorize EVERY crack and crevice, kisses my body from head to toe and back again, Licks, sucks, and nibbles my boobs and the place where they connect to my body, or nibbles and bites my shoulder/neck area! Those are some of the things that really get my motor going or they can do all of the above before they even go anywhere near my lower lips!

2. What are the stages of sensitivity of the glans of your clit? And what to you like as stimulation during each of these stages? I have three not wet, moist, and sopping wet! During not wet ... Do NOT touch my clit for it isn't ready wet do the fore play first and get my juices flowing! During moist ... touch all you like any way you like but never let me go over the edge if you want to reach sopping in record time. Otherwise it will take a long time of licking sucking and probing to get me beyond moist! During sopping ... well I end up doing all the work, you just hold still because I will be bucking and wiggling and screaming and as they say "climbing the walls"

3. When you are about to be overtaken by your orgasm, what, if any stimulation do you want at that time (Be very specific here, parts and pressure and stuff)?A nibble on the aereola or a nibble then a long hard suck on the clit with penatration!

4. What should your lover do for stimulation after you have had the first and succeeding orgasms to bridge you to the next one?
They should play with anything else but my clit! It is so sensitive it tickles!

5. What signal or phrase do you use to let the guy know when to stop all stimulation. (in between orgasms and to end a session)?
Close my legs so that they can not get to it with a little grunt!

Fire and Passion
Fiana

 

[Fiana Sidhe]

Re: Just thought of another question...

6. How long do you like to be stimulated before giving in and having your orgasm. Does it very for each time?Yes it veries each time some times when I am already hot all I want is no foreplay lick me over the edge and get on with everything else (otherwise known as quickies) others lick suck feel me for hours on end!!![/]

7. How does the intensity of your orgasm very from the first on down until the last during any one session? Are there too many factors that determine that? All things being kept constant, would you have the same strength of orgasmic effect each time? Or, does it wane or grow stronger? All of the above ... I very on orgasm strength so much that I could never answer this question with out someone feeling and viewing it first hand!

8. How much does nipple and breast stimulation play into achieving your orgasm? Do you need it everytime, or just the first time to get you pumped up for the first orgasm? (Please include also, what type of squeezing or handling of your breast tissue you prefer. That is often an area where guys don't know how hard or how much of it to do. Nipples seem simple by comparison. This is as a side effect to pussy stimulation, since breasts and pussy are connected.It depends on the mood sometimes I want a soft carress and others I want to feel like they are ripping my nipple off!

9. How strongly does putting fingers inside and playing with the vaginal walls does that contribute to causing your orgasm to begin? And does the enrich the strength and duration of your orgasm if added into the equation? Very Strong if I am not aroused before hand! And it enriches it to a maximum level sometimes!

10. The vestibule: how sensitive is it to the touch and does it produce enough stimulation to be licked repeatedly over each pre-orgasmic period? And, can it be licked and played with during and right ofter you have cum? (not touching the glans of the clit) Actually I am not all that sure about the answer to this question. As for the lips they do not seem to effect me as much as the inner walls and the clit do!

Fire and Passion
Fiana

 

[zetacon4]

I can't thank you girls enough for the great info...

Every one of your contributions have made a real impact in the quest for providing you with great and satisfying orgasms. The variety of your answers is exactly what I was hoping for too. Thanks for being very specific about timing and intensity. Most guys are just not sure during hot sex, what he did right and when he did it. So this is very helpful.

Girls, isn't it great to know that there are many men out there who's only drive is to get you wet and hot and have many intense orgasms!? What at great pursuit!

I just thought of this: What seems to stimulate your need to have the guy replace his fingers with his dick? At what stage of oral does it become so intense that only coitus will do? This, at first, may seem off topic, but I have been told that the girl still needs good, hard fucking to round out the fulfillment of great sex.

 

[Jewelz]

Wonderful replies everyone!! They have gotten me aroused!!

Frank.....as for your last question....I am not sure at what point I need cock in me during oral, but sometimes I just beg for it simply because once I cum, that means we are usually done. Which I hate that. He (the hubby) hasnt ever much worried about another round etc.....so if I want to prolong our love making, I will stop him and tell him to fuck me hard........then go down on my again....mmmmmmmm......i could use someone between my legs right about now!!!!

 

[Lance Hardrock]

3 pages already?

Gee. I just get over here and we have 3 pages already? Wow, I'll read them all and comment later today. can't right now.

 

[Jewelz]

Lance that AV I made ya looks good on you!!!!!! It turns me on too *wicked smile*

 

[Lance Hardrock]

Jewelz you are the mostest

Lance that AV I made ya looks good on you!!!!!! It turns me on too *wicked smile*

Jewelz honey, that AV turns me on. LOL.


hey what do you say that my av gets together with your av. I bet we could generate enough heat to turn everyone on.

 

[1sexylady]

Lance that AV I made ya looks good on you!!!!!! It turns me on too *wicked smile*

Yes....he wears it well...I agree Jewelz....I see it I drool...

 

[Lance Hardrock]

sexyone

You know how I feel about your av, sexyone. I even wrote a brand new story about doing that ass just because of your av.


Well, I guess I'm late on this, but I love oral. I specifically love doing oral on my lady. I spent most of our time (Candy and me) doing oral on her, because she had been deprived so long. It was the greatest treat I could give her and I think it showed my love for her.

Jewelz, all I can say is simply having my orgasm has nothing to do with me continuing to play. I am always ready to continue and eating Cream Pie is a special treat I'd love to have with you.

 

[zetacon4]

I can't imagine stopping play with you...

Wonderful replies everyone!! They have gotten me aroused!!

Frank.....as for your last question....I am not sure at what point I need cock in me during oral, but sometimes I just beg for it simply because once I cum, that means we are usually done. Which I hate that. He (the hubby) hasnt ever much worried about another round etc.....so if I want to prolong our love making, I will stop him and tell him to fuck me hard........then go down on my again....mmmmmmmm......i could use someone between my legs right about now!!!!

...one orgasm! That is barely getting started. How can a man resist keeping you hot and orgasmic. Surely ejaculation should not be any point of stopping anything. Heck, I keep thrusting long ofter I have cum inside the woman, it feels too good not to. And I can usually get her to cum once more too before we switch to another position or I go down and eat her pussy after cumming. STOP!??? God forbid!!!

 

[ShiningEyes]

...one orgasm! That is barely getting started. How can a man resist keeping you hot and orgasmic. Surely ejaculation should not be any point of stopping anything. Heck, I keep thrusting long ofter I have cum inside the woman, it feels too good not to. And I can usually get her to cum once more too before we switch to another position or I go down and eat her pussy after cumming. STOP!??? God forbid!!!

I love your way of thinking!!! We need more men like you with it comes to pleasuring a woman!!! I'd have to agree that 1 just isn't enough! lol I guess I'm just sooo used to my partners thriving to beat their own records when it comes to how many times they can make me cum at one time!!!!

 

[zetacon4]

One the subject of sustained orgasms...

I love your way of thinking!!! We need more men like you with it comes to pleasuring a woman!!! I'd have to agree that 1 just isn't enough! lol I guess I'm just sooo used to my partners thriving to beat their own records when it comes to how many times they can make me cum at one time!!!!

What do you like for a guy to do to keep you cumming? Does the feeling stop and then re-start or does it just vary in intensity during a multiple orgasm event? Fill me in on how that works, please.