The Art of Getting Lit Laid

[ShaneoD]

I was about to post that there is t really an art to it, you do have to have formed a connection though, but it's been mentioned many, many times already, if you do find it it's amazing

 

[LegendInMyOwnMind]

My health and residence in a nursing home preclude new IRL relationships. I have an online friend here on Lit, but I don't see the relationship going beyond that. (She is welcome to prove me wrong, though that would surprise me.)

I yearn for an online friendship that can grow into more.

 

[Hornymwtxn]

My health and residence in a nursing home preclude new IRL relationships. I have an online friend here on Lit, but I don't see the relationship going beyond that. (She is welcome to prove me wrong, though that would surprise me.)

I yearn for an online friendship that can grow into more.

Well you are staying active and letting it be known your desires so who knows what may happen.
Keep trying and maybe something will come of it!

 

[LegendInMyOwnMind]

Well you are staying active and letting it be known your desires so who knows what may happen.
Keep trying and maybe something will come of it!

Your mouth to God's ears, my friend. I want to find the right one, and slowly work together towards something beautiful.

 

[cocokittysurprise]

As someone that is not looking for a "special connection", this thread has been an interesting read.

 

[Shygentleman2]

As someone that is not looking for a "special connection", this thread has been an interesting read.

We're glad you've found our ramblings interesting!

 

[Sct73]

I just wanna find a fwb or two. I’m totally fine with chatting and getting to know people too

 

[Hornymwtxn]

As someone that is not looking for a "special connection", this thread has been an interesting read.

Glad you have enjoyed reading the thread as I have always enjoyed reading your posts on various threads!

 

[cole4258]

Good morning. Casual flirting in the morning does help you wake up, especially helpful during this cold weather . Thought I would lighten the mood this morning. Yes I am a morning person.

And I also enjoy reading the posts here

 

[Hornymwtxn]

Good morning. Casual flirting in the morning does help you wake up, especially helpful during this cold weather . Thought I would lighten the mood this morning. Yes I am a morning person.

And I also enjoy reading the posts here

Welcome to the thread!

Hopefully there is something here for everyone to have some fun and maybe see things from a different perspective due to the diversity of the participants in the thread.

 

[JessForFun37]

I had been working on a close connection here. Shortly after exchanging pleasantries, erotic personal pictures. Start chat Great chat but …… the next step was for her to beg me for $50 gift card. Cation everyone b

 

[Shygentleman2]

I had been working on a close connection here. Shortly after exchanging pleasantries, erotic personal pictures. Start chat Great chat but …… the next step was for her to beg me for $50 gift card. Cation everyone b

Unfortunately those exist here too...caution is definitely a must. There are wonderful people here to and I can attest to that. Hopefully your next encounter involves one of those!

 

[Hornymwtxn]

I had been working on a close connection here. Shortly after exchanging pleasantries, erotic personal pictures. Start chat Great chat but …… the next step was for her to beg me for $50 gift card. Cation everyone b

On a different adult website I had a nice conversation and they tried to convince me they were an investment banker.

Guess they thought I would give them money to manage.

Told them I was poor and can't get blood out of a turnip. They never replied after that.

 

[Shygentleman2]

On a different adult website I had a nice conversation and they tried to convince me they were an investment banker.

Guess they thought I would give them money to manage.

Told them I was poor and can't get blood out of a turnip. They never replied after that.

That was so kind of them to offer sex and financial services. Lol.

 

[Hornymwtxn]

That was so kind of them to offer sex and financial services. Lol.

I am trying to come up with a company name and slogan for that enterprise lol.

Service is our specialty at blow n snow.

 

[JessForFun37]

On a different adult website I had a nice conversation and they tried to convince me they were an investment banker.

Guess they thought I would give them money to manage.

Told them I was poor and can't get blood out of a turnip. They never replied after that.

Thank you. This is the greatest !

 

[Hornymwtxn]

Good morning all.

I have been wondering about the etiquette of pm. Not the contents therein but of the sequence.

Should one always wait for a response before sending another message?

Is it ok if one party always has to initiate? Does it even matter?

I guess I am always worried about being a nuisance if I always have to initiate conversation.

 

[Chicago Ken]

A long term online relationship has many parallels to a long term offline relationship. You need to genuinely like the other person. Although they can occasionally be a series of hot cyber/phone/whatever sex sessions, most have a significant amount of chatting about other stuff: work, friends, family, current events, etc. If you don't enjoy the company of the other person, it can be very difficult to make something last a long time.

 

[Hornymwtxn]

Well almost one 12th of the year has elasped.

How has it been so far?

 

[Shygentleman2]

Good morning all.

I have been wondering about the etiquette of pm. Not the contents therein but of the sequence.

Should one always wait for a response before sending another message?

Is it ok if one party always has to initiate? Does it even matter?

I guess I am always worried about being a nuisance if I always have to initiate conversation.

This can be a challenging piece in a new relationship. Once a relationship is further cemented a cadence can be figured out that works in both schedules.
Honestly I would judge it based on her responses. Are the well thought out and insightful? Is she giving glimpses into what her hopes are? If yes, she's likely interested and doesn't mind you reaching out a few times. If her responses seem lackluster...it's probably time to reconsider her as a partner.

 

[Hornymwtxn]

Early to bed, early to rise
These thoughts of mine
The joys and the cries
Should I retreat or should I shine?

There is no right
There is no wrong
Should I fight?
Should I sing along?

Venture out to start the day?
Stay inside?
Or get away?
Eyes shut or opened wide?

Internal struggles are real
Everyone has them
That's the deal
Just watch the film

A critic here
A critic there
Nothing to fear
They are everywhere

Just do your best
Things will work out
Things said in jest
Nobody really knows what it's about

 

[jacfox]

Good morning all.

I have been wondering about the etiquette of pm. Not the contents therein but of the sequence.

Should one always wait for a response before sending another message?

Is it ok if one party always has to initiate? Does it even matter?

I guess I am always worried about being a nuisance if I always have to initiate conversation.

Been a bit busy lately, but checking in to see what's what. Is it the doldrum of the winter? Is that why it's so quiet? Spring is round the corner!
As for the etiquette, if someone always has to initiate it can make you wonder--but I always had to initiate sex in my marriage, and yet for the decades it remained active, it was always made welcome and never rejected.
Sending a second message before receiving an answer might make you feel concerned that you're wearing your heart on your sleeve, but then sometimes maybe that what's you need to do! If it's spurned it's hard but as my mom always used to say, there's plenty more fish in the sea...

 

[Hornymwtxn]

Hope everyone is doing fine and that Carmina will soon reappear and grace us with her words once again

 

[Shygentleman2]

Overall life is good. This is a busy time of year for work travel and kids activities. I'm not a fan of the bitterly cold part of winter so hopefully that's behind us. And I've been happily enjoying quite a bit of time with my lit girlfriend too!

 

[Hornymwtxn]

Nice! I hope the bitterly cold below zero temps are done too.

Glad your lit gf can warm you on the coldest days