The Art of Romance 💘!

[tristianc]

I have had some interesting experiences as of late! Some people are here for the right reasons and others seem to be playing with other people’s feelings intentionally! When someone takes the time to sincerely post and engage earnestly with others, there’s no need to turn that around for your own selfish purposes. I have had some friends who are truly genuine and sincere people! While others want to write stories about you instead of have a genuine conversation. And some even believe BDSM is about controlling someone with no respect or power exchange! A true D/s dynamic is about building trust and a healthy relationship. It’s not about demanding things online or in person!

I am a sincere, passionate person who seeks an honest exploration with someone online! I’m not looking to be bossed around or bullied; I seek a soul who is romantic and kinky who enjoys being creative and using their mind to develop a warm and passionate as well as supportive connection! I want to hear about your day as well as having pleasure aplenty!

I have a few requests before you reply, please be sincere, don’t speak at me like a slave to your whims. You have to earn trust in relationships! I also don’t want to have people write stories at me instead of genuine conversations! A story doesn’t replace getting to know someone!

I have lots of magic and I want to enchant the right people who openly communicate and desire to explore and experience our passions and kinks as well as everyday interests!!

Our journey can begin when you open yourself up to building true relationships and by being yourself..,View attachment 2203294

In my experience I’ve found it’s better to really get to know the person before engaging in any kind of sexual fun, on-line or not. To know who is the person you’re seeing, touching, pleasuring even when not physical is highly arousing.

 

[Pad_Foot]

ooops... miss posted here.............. sorry

 

[_Troia_]

Update: What you see is what you get...I am a sweet, sexy, free spirited woman! I love to laugh and am frequently complimented on my fun-loving, bubbly personality. Our time together will always be memorable!

I have been doing some more pondering on what I seek! I am looking for someone who understands people here have real-life responsibilities and cannot always respond or be available! I am also interested in someone with humor and understanding. Not everything can be sex 24/7.

Although I delight in the simple joys of life, I love breaking free from my usual routine and immersing myself in new experiences. Let’s get lost in conversation, indulge in each other’s desires, and create unforgettable memories.

I am a surprisingly petite lady...a tiny frame, with curves in the right places! With a love for learning new things about people and places, I am a lady who enjoys getting to know people I choose to spend time with. And as a very selective person, I will spend time only with those who appreciate a lady that values quality over quantity, and lasting friendships. If this is you, I look forward to sharing our first adventure together very soon!

xo

Troia

 

[coffeelover5]

So well written, thank you so very nuch

 

[_Troia_]

So well written, thank you so very nuch

You are quite welcome ; thank you for taking the time to reply!!

 

[tristianc]

I’ve seen quite a few of your posts here and I would enjoy getting to know you better.

 

[Pad_Foot]

I am sure YOU are getting lots or replies!
I hope you find time to select a good person who fits your needs

 

[Frosty7781]

Update: What you see is what you get...I am a sweet, sexy, free spirited woman! I love to laugh and am frequently complimented on my fun-loving, bubbly personality. Our time together will always be memorable!

I have been doing some more pondering on what I seek! I am looking for someone who understands people here have real-life responsibilities and cannot always respond or be available! I am also interested in someone with humor and understanding. Not everything can be sex 24/7.

Although I delight in the simple joys of life, I love breaking free from my usual routine and immersing myself in new experiences. Let’s get lost in conversation, indulge in each other’s desires, and create unforgettable memories.

I am a surprisingly petite lady...a tiny frame, with curves in the right places! With a love for learning new things about people and places, I am a lady who enjoys getting to know people I choose to spend time with. And as a very selective person, I will spend time only with those who appreciate a lady that values quality over quantity, and lasting friendships. If this is you, I look forward to sharing our first adventure together very soon!

xo

TroiaView attachment 2204716

Wonderfully well written Troia. I hope you have luck finding what you are looking for. There can be many delights to be found here just have to sift through some of the extraneous bits in order to find them. I Wish you continued success on your adventure. Have a lovely day.

 

[vibes]

Hello and welcome.

I have a minor curiousity you may want to satisfy: how did you pick your Lit name?

 

[happyhouror2]

Update: What you see is what you get...I am a sweet, sexy, free spirited woman! I love to laugh and am frequently complimented on my fun-loving, bubbly personality. Our time together will always be memorable!

I have been doing some more pondering on what I seek! I am looking for someone who understands people here have real-life responsibilities and cannot always respond or be available! I am also interested in someone with humor and understanding. Not everything can be sex 24/7.

Although I delight in the simple joys of life, I love breaking free from my usual routine and immersing myself in new experiences. Let’s get lost in conversation, indulge in each other’s desires, and create unforgettable memories.

I am a surprisingly petite lady...a tiny frame, with curves in the right places! With a love for learning new things about people and places, I am a lady who enjoys getting to know people I choose to spend time with. And as a very selective person, I will spend time only with those who appreciate a lady that values quality over quantity, and lasting friendships. If this is you, I look forward to sharing our first adventure together very soon!

xo

TroiaView attachment 2204716

You are incredible

 

[Cernunnos69]

I have had some interesting experiences as of late! Some people are here for the right reasons and others seem to be playing with other people’s feelings intentionally! When someone takes the time to sincerely post and engage earnestly with others, there’s no need to turn that around for your own selfish purposes. I have had some friends who are truly genuine and sincere people! While others want to write stories about you instead of have a genuine conversation. And some even believe BDSM is about controlling someone with no respect or power exchange! A true D/s dynamic is about building trust and a healthy relationship. It’s not about demanding things online or in person!

I am a sincere, passionate person who seeks an honest exploration with someone online! I’m not looking to be bossed around or bullied; I seek a soul who is romantic and kinky who enjoys being creative and using their mind to develop a warm and passionate as well as supportive connection! I want to hear about your day as well as having pleasure aplenty!

I have a few requests before you reply, please be sincere, don’t speak at me like a slave to your whims. You have to earn trust in relationships! I also don’t want to have people write stories at me instead of genuine conversations! A story doesn’t replace getting to know someone!

I have lots of magic and I want to enchant the right people who openly communicate and desire to explore and experience our passions and kinks as well as everyday interests!!

Our journey can begin when you open yourself up to building true relationships and by being yourself..,View attachment 2203294

Amen! You express what you need very eloquently! I hate bullying in all it's guises, society and our Earth would be so much better without bullies. I Love D/s sexual play with respect, but not bullying or being bullied. Romance and kink can go together very nicely in my experience.

 

[Trubbycat]

Well said sir.

 

[_Troia_]

Is it possible to find what you’re looking for on here? I am often wondering that, if what I seek, actually exists here. I have had people say they want intimacy, but they seem to want sex. Sex and intimacy are not the same thing, lol. I am looking for partners who recognize that. They understand that an individual isn’t all about sex all the time. They want to get to know an individual. And if you find the right individual, are they actually looking to connect on multiple levels? If you are looking for the same thing, please let me know. Have a wonderful weekend!

 

[cuppatea]

Intimacy can be had without hands in pants; being open, honest, laying yourself bare to someone, admitting your flaws as well as knowing your strengths. In the virtual world, where your words are the most valuable currency, being able to talk about life and whatever that terrain goes with it … is valuable.

 

[Lady2020]

People are here to fill a void. Comunication varies.

 

[Zephreck]

Is it possible to find what you’re looking for on here? I am often wondering that, if what I seek, actually exists here. I have had people say they want intimacy, but they seem to want sex. Sex and intimacy are not the same thing, lol. I am looking for partners who recognize that. They understand that an individual isn’t all about sex all the time. They want to get to know an individual. And if you find the right individual, are they actually looking to connect on multiple levels? If you are looking for the same thing, please let me know. Have a wonderful weekend!

I can only speak from my own perspective and from my own experiences... I have been a member for a long time and what you are describing is a relationship that I have only had if I took the time to build that relationship. It is going to be rare to find the person to build that relationship with. If you do spend the time and invest in that relationship it is just like any other relationship in your life. It comes with risks. In my life there are few I would say are truly friends. You can meet great people anywhere. But it is rare to find someone that you have enough in common with and shared interests, someone that doesn't have negative personality traits that you cannot ignore or overlook, and who will take the time to just get to know you. Few here will ever be looking for something that deep. Allhailthequeen was pretty spot on with her analysis of what you are looking for. I am not going to say it is impossible to find but it will take time and a ton of patience. And not sure this is the right place to invest that kind of energy.

But I hope you do find someone that can be honest and open and take the time to invest in your life. I think if they would they would be greatly rewarded.

Sincerely,

Zeph

 

[_Troia_]

I’m going to make some sweeping generalizations here, based entirely on my experience of the last > decade here. I’ve met quite a few guys here over the years, some of whom I met IRL and some who stayed online. I know I’m kind of a Queen bitch around here and to be honest with you the reason for that is the men I’ve met here and on similar sites. I think *usually* sites that are sex-centric self-select for men who ignore the rules and boundaries that make actual functional intimate relationships work. The single guys I’ve met want way more than I can give; the married guys I’ve met treat women as disposable. There is a fairly universal sex addiction among them, to varying degrees, and that matters because sex addicts in the throes of active addiction are not generally seeking sustained intimacy. They’re seeking a high. It’s that simple. And I’m not trash talking addicts, not at all. I’m just saying that the end goal of a sex addict is not sustained meaningful connection over months or years.

As a result of the experiences I’ve had with men from sites like this, I don’t trust any of them. At all. And I think all women would be well advised to assume the worst until definitely proven otherwise.

I hope you find what you’re looking for here. I don’t think it exists, personally. Not here. But I hope that your unicorn is out there.

Thank you! I appreciate the candor and direct feedback! I am thinking the same thing!! Hoping you have a wonderful weekend!!

 

[_Troia_]

I can only speak from my own perspective and from my own experiences... I have been a member for a long time and what you are describing is a relationship that I have only had if I took the time to build that relationship. It is going to be rare to find the person to build that relationship with. If you do spend the time and invest in that relationship it is just like any other relationship in your life. It comes with risks. In my life there are few I would say are truly friends. You can meet great people anywhere. But it is rare to find someone that you have enough in common with and shared interests, someone that doesn't have negative personality traits that you cannot ignore or overlook, and who will take the time to just get to know you. Few here will ever be looking for something that deep. Allhailthequeen was pretty spot on with her analysis of what you are looking for. I am not going to say it is impossible to find but it will take time and a ton of patience. And not sure this is the right place to invest that kind of energy.

But I hope you do find someone that can be honest and open and take the time to invest in your life. I think if they would they would be greatly rewarded.

Sincerely,

Zeph

Thank you for the kindness and support as well as advice!! Hoping your weekend is wonderful!!

 

[Lionel_Hutz1977]

And I think all women would be well advised to assume the worst until definitely proven otherwise.

This is probably good advice both online and off. Lol.

I have absolutely found real, intimate, true-life love here so it can happen, but I’ve also had some pretty miserable experiences and some utterly forgettable interactions. Overall, my experiences have been more good than bad.

I also think there’s way more member interaction than it seems. Active posters are not the majority here. It can be fun to interact in public but I think most intimate conversations are private.

In other words, have hope. What you are looking for is not impossible even if it feels unlikely sometimes.

 

[_Troia_]

I am looking to be wooed or enchanted! A romantic person is thoughtful and is considerate. When someone is considerate, they use tact in conversations. When someone is considerate, they factor in other people's feelings when it comes to the decisions that they make. When someone is considerate, they respect other people's time, they avoid doing things that will make them feel uncomfortable and they have a very kind demeanor. Someone who's considerate is also pretty proactive in their actions.

When someone is good at being attentive, what they strive to do is make others feel really special, wanted and valued. And yes, that is a cornerstone point of what it means to be a romantic individual. If you've got someone in your life who is giving, sentimental and super consistent when it comes to all of these qualities, count yourself thankful. Attentiveness is an art and there are not many who have truly mastered it.

While I think we all know that, for the most part, seduction is ultimately about trying to get someone to engage in sexual activity, a truly romantic person knows that there is a true art that comes with it. You need to understand a person and their likes and desires before you can seduce them, mind and body!
I am not a professional sex worker and I don’t seek to be treated like one! I don’t want a PM message telling me how you get off, how much you came last night, or acting like you pay me!

I am seeking a relationship where the person is mature, knows how to flirt, can be funny, flexible, respectful, romantic, and supportive! Sexual attraction starts with romantic encounters of the mind, especially here! So, enchant and delight me, one human chat at a time!!

 

[CelticTiger88]

I am looking to be wooed or enchanted! A romantic person is thoughtful and is considerate. When someone is considerate, they use tact in conversations. When someone is considerate, they factor in other people's feelings when it comes to the decisions that they make. When someone is considerate, they respect other people's time, they avoid doing things that will make them feel uncomfortable and they have a very kind demeanor. Someone who's considerate is also pretty proactive in their actions.

When someone is good at being attentive, what they strive to do is make others feel really special, wanted and valued. And yes, that is a cornerstone point of what it means to be a romantic individual. If you've got someone in your life who is giving, sentimental and super consistent when it comes to all of these qualities, count yourself thankful. Attentiveness is an art and there are not many who have truly mastered it.

While I think we all know that, for the most part, seduction is ultimately about trying to get someone to engage in sexual activity, a truly romantic person knows that there is a true art that comes with it. You need to understand a person and their likes and desires before you can seduce them, mind and body!
I am not a professional sex worker and I don’t seek to be treated like one! I don’t want a PM message telling me how you get off, how much you came last night, or acting like you pay me!

I am seeking a relationship where the person is mature, knows how to flirt, can be funny, flexible, respectful, romantic, and supportive! Sexual attraction starts with romantic encounters of the mind, especially here! So, enchant and delight me, one human chat at a time!!
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Mmm, very sexy. Lovely boobs.

 

[coffeelover5]

I am looking to be wooed or enchanted! A romantic person is thoughtful and is considerate. When someone is considerate, they use tact in conversations. When someone is considerate, they factor in other people's feelings when it comes to the decisions that they make. When someone is considerate, they respect other people's time, they avoid doing things that will make them feel uncomfortable and they have a very kind demeanor. Someone who's considerate is also pretty proactive in their actions.

When someone is good at being attentive, what they strive to do is make others feel really special, wanted and valued. And yes, that is a cornerstone point of what it means to be a romantic individual. If you've got someone in your life who is giving, sentimental and super consistent when it comes to all of these qualities, count yourself thankful. Attentiveness is an art and there are not many who have truly mastered it.

While I think we all know that, for the most part, seduction is ultimately about trying to get someone to engage in sexual activity, a truly romantic person knows that there is a true art that comes with it. You need to understand a person and their likes and desires before you can seduce them, mind and body!
I am not a professional sex worker and I don’t seek to be treated like one! I don’t want a PM message telling me how you get off, how much you came last night, or acting like you pay me!

I am seeking a relationship where the person is mature, knows how to flirt, can be funny, flexible, respectful, romantic, and supportive! Sexual attraction starts with romantic encounters of the mind, especially here! So, enchant and delight me, one human chat at a time!!
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Sighs, I am breathless in your beauty!

 

[peekingone]

I am looking to be wooed or enchanted! A romantic person is thoughtful and is considerate. When someone is considerate, they use tact in conversations. When someone is considerate, they factor in other people's feelings when it comes to the decisions that they make. When someone is considerate, they respect other people's time, they avoid doing things that will make them feel uncomfortable and they have a very kind demeanor. Someone who's considerate is also pretty proactive in their actions.

When someone is good at being attentive, what they strive to do is make others feel really special, wanted and valued. And yes, that is a cornerstone point of what it means to be a romantic individual. If you've got someone in your life who is giving, sentimental and super consistent when it comes to all of these qualities, count yourself thankful. Attentiveness is an art and there are not many who have truly mastered it.

While I think we all know that, for the most part, seduction is ultimately about trying to get someone to engage in sexual activity, a truly romantic person knows that there is a true art that comes with it. You need to understand a person and their likes and desires before you can seduce them, mind and body!
I am not a professional sex worker and I don’t seek to be treated like one! I don’t want a PM message telling me how you get off, how much you came last night, or acting like you pay me!

I am seeking a relationship where the person is mature, knows how to flirt, can be funny, flexible, respectful, romantic, and supportive! Sexual attraction starts with romantic encounters of the mind, especially here! So, enchant and delight me, one human chat at a time!!
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very pretty bra. Thanks for sharing

 

[one_love]

Great post. Very well said by someone who clearly knows their way around this site.

 

[Azuldrgon]

*smiles as he watches her*