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What always works for me vis-a-vis the blues is whispering in her ear while we're fucking, telling her how hot I'm getting thinking about it. Then it's kind of expected, and she'll then either give me a nudge in the right direction or climb up after I've cum. It also gets her hotter listening to me, which is a bonus.

Inside v/s outside is definitely an "it depends" answer :). My wife's clit is super sensitive after she's cum. The whole area really. She doesn't like being licked clean at all if she's had a really intense orgasm. Nipples and pussy are pretty much off limits until she's calmed down. If she seems like she might be done, then she loves to feel the warmth of a puddle being licked off of her tummy or the small of her back, so that's what I aim for :).

If I've mis-timed my own orgasm or I think she might be good for a little more, then it's different when she's on her back compared to when she's riding my face. On her back it's not easy to dive in because she likes a lot of pressure on her clit at that point, with my fingers inside of her while she's working her clit with hers. It gets pretty crowded and hard to maneuver in to lick her clean :). Shallow shots just run down her crack and onto the bed. The deeper I cum the more I can scoop out when I'm fingering her, which I will smear around her outer lips and over her fingers before I lick it off.



This is by far the most exciting way to go for me. Sometimes I have to give her a nudge and sometimes she'll just climb up and start grinding away without missing a beat but either way it's incredibly erotic and intense. No matter how deep I nut I usually get a mouthful at first if she's in the right spot. Otherwise it ends up on my chin or face and gets rubbed everywhere. No complaints either way. I usually need a wet towel when we're done :).

You just have to kind of figure out what works for both of you, and then go from there. Just remember that the plan that you have in mind is the only plan that you are guaranteed not to follow. It helps to be able to figure it out as you go.

Who knew this kink was an art form? :D


I take it she doesn't get grossed out by your cum? My wife doesn't like the smell or taste of it so when I take it (I've tasted my cum once or twice before) she isn't to fond of it.
 
Glad I'm not the only one with this problem. How long have you both been going back and forth with this? I try to watch a bunch of amateur videos of guys cleaning up their mess and it really gets me going but then as soon as it comes down to it I can't.

I don't know, I guess it's been at least a whole year since she has asked this the first time :D
 
I don't know, I guess it's been at least a whole year since she has asked this the first time :D

Damn, well.. I guess I will kind of hint or something about going down on her or, say I'm craving to taste you after and see if she takes the hint.
 
I take it she doesn't get grossed out by your cum? My wife doesn't like the smell or taste of it so when I take it (I've tasted my cum once or twice before) she isn't to fond of it.

Up until my wife developed severe TMJ she was generous with BJs and always swallowed. She never said anything one way or the other about the taste until the first time that I asked her to snowball me. She said, "You can be pretty bitter sometimes, I don't think you'll like it." She was matter-of-fact about it, but had no problem following through. She's never acted grossed out our put out by cum in any way anywhere on her body. She took to creampies without a second thought, so I guess that I've been lucky that way.
 
Up until my wife developed severe TMJ she was generous with BJs and always swallowed. She never said anything one way or the other about the taste until the first time that I asked her to snowball me. She said, "You can be pretty bitter sometimes, I don't think you'll like it." She was matter-of-fact about it, but had no problem following through. She's never acted grossed out our put out by cum in any way anywhere on her body. She took to creampies without a second thought, so I guess that I've been lucky that way.

You're really lucky. Basically every girl I have been with hates cum. I eat pretty healthy and have fruit often so I don't think it's really bitter. I'm thinking about having sex with her and getting just close enough so I can have a massive amount of precum shoot out but not actually have an orgasm. The one time I was edging and had some come out I ended up tasting it no problem and enjoyed it.
 
Damn, well.. I guess I will kind of hint or something about going down on her or, say I'm craving to taste you after and see if she takes the hint.

I was never shy about telling my wife how hot she looked and smelled after sex with my cum leaking out of her. Long before I got my first taste I would often run my fingers through whatever leaked out and tell her how hot it looked, so I guess it wasn't a surprise when I told her thinking about licking her clean was a hot fantasy.
 
You're really lucky. Basically every girl I have been with hates cum. I eat pretty healthy and have fruit often so I don't think it's really bitter. I'm thinking about having sex with her and getting just close enough so I can have a massive amount of precum shoot out but not actually have an orgasm. The one time I was edging and had some come out I ended up tasting it no problem and enjoyed it.

If she hates it, she's never said anything in the 23 years we've been married. Maybe she's just too polite, since she also didn't rave about craving it either :rolleyes: The first time that she snowballed me, she kind of just spit it in my mouth. That was kind of bitter and not as erotic as I'd fantasized about. It was just kind of over. After that we got much more sensual about kissing, and I didn't notice the bitterness.

I think the ph or something about her mouth or vagina changes the taste though, because I never notice it being bitter once it's been inside of her for a little bit. Everything about the look, feel, and taste is just raw sex and very erotic so maybe I just don't care :D.

To be honest, doing it makes fantasizing about the next time that much hotter.
 
It’s actually the contrary, she’s been begging me to do it for a year and every time I can’t do it

I haven't followed all of your posts, so you may have already been over this ... but if she's begging you to do it then ask her to help you follow through. She can do lots of things to encourage you, from subtle like pressing down on your shoulders to aggressive like rolling you over and climbing on your face. In my experience, the times when my wife is obviously excited and encourages me are the best. Encourage her to help you and you'll probably get over the hesitation a lot easier.
 
You're really lucky. Basically every girl I have been with hates cum. I eat pretty healthy and have fruit often so I don't think it's really bitter. I'm thinking about having sex with her and getting just close enough so I can have a massive amount of precum shoot out but not actually have an orgasm. The one time I was edging and had some come out I ended up tasting it no problem and enjoyed it.

This is how you should do it with your wife as well. Basically edge while you fuck her. I've eaten my creampie out of my girl numerous times but there are still times I lose interest after I cum. Edging and ruining your orgasm inside of her is a good way to start. I do this when I'm in the mood for a creampie because like pplwatching's wife, she is too sensitive after orgasm for me to go down on her right away. To get around this I edge and tease the head on her clit and lips at the brink until some cum dribbles out and I go down on her and clean up. Sometimes I can pull this off a couple times and she thoroughly enjoys mixing up oral/fucking anyway. It definitely helps if she is encouraging (verbally). If you're wife is adverse to cum than that may be an obstacle. Communicate that the act turns you on and see how she responds. I'm sure she enjoys oral and doesn't mind the clean up.

It’s actually the contrary, she’s been begging me to do it for a year and every time I can’t do it

That's hot! I wish mine would beg me to. I get some light encouragement on occasion but some dirty begging talk would get me off in no time.
 
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Thanks, guys, I’ll tell her to “force me” by pushing herself on me.

If she's been asking for it for that long, that should work. IMHO sliding up from "cowgirl" is easy and less awkward than rolling over and changing positions. Her weight is already on top of you, she can hold your hands for support, and it's also a glorious view.
 
If she's been asking for it for that long, that should work. IMHO sliding up from "cowgirl" is easy and less awkward than rolling over and changing positions. Her weight is already on top of you, she can hold your hands for support, and it's also a glorious view.

Such a hot visual. I think I'm going to try and just go for it. Maybe before I cum throw a few hints at how amazing my cum in her has to taste and see where I end up. If I don't get anything before I cum I guess I'll just have to tell her to sit on my face after.
 
Such a hot visual. I think I'm going to try and just go for it. Maybe before I cum throw a few hints at how amazing my cum in her has to taste and see where I end up. If I don't get anything before I cum I guess I'll just have to tell her to sit on my face after.

Edited because I had the two of you mixed up. It is a hot visual but it's even better in real life when it's all you can see, hear, and taste. Ask for what you want.
 
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You just need a little motivation to do it the first time. Mine, was making a two-minute drill look like a long time.
Second, if your’s has a mind blowing face humping body shaking orgasm like mine did, there is your motivation for doing it again! Worked for me!
Third, and more motivation, again, if it works like it did on my wife, is when she goes on the attack, and tells you she wants you to fuck her and then lick your cum out of her cunt. Or, she rides you cowgirl, and then rides yur face cowgirl. When she told me how she had fantasized me doing it every time I went dow on her, for years, how could I refuse!

And....after a slurp or two, you will want to do it, and fantasize about it just like her!
 
It’s actually the contrary, she’s been begging me to do it for a year and every time I can’t do it

Oh, man. I think, for most of us here, that kind of encouragement would have us between her legs in seconds.

My friend, if you have any inclination for eating creampie at all, let her words be the impetus that gets you down there. Otherwise, the time will come where she gets discouraged and gives up, leaving you regretting that it never happened.

Go for it, buddy. Most of us on this thread would give almost anything to hear our women want it from us...
 
Oh, man. I think, for most of us here, that kind of encouragement would have us between her legs in seconds.

My friend, if you have any inclination for eating creampie at all, let her words be the impetus that gets you down there. Otherwise, the time will come where she gets discouraged and gives up, leaving you regretting that it never happened.

Go for it, buddy. Most of us on this thread would give almost anything to hear our women want it from us...

AGREED!!!!
 
Oh, man. I think, for most of us here, that kind of encouragement would have us between her legs in seconds.

My friend, if you have any inclination for eating creampie at all, let her words be the impetus that gets you down there. Otherwise, the time will come where she gets discouraged and gives up, leaving you regretting that it never happened.

Go for it, buddy. Most of us on this thread would give almost anything to hear our women want it from us...

I also very much agree!
When my wife told me how much she loved it, and how long she had fantasized about it, I really really got into it! It was so hot to hear her tell me!!!
I didn't just go after her clit anymore, I went after the whole sloppy mess, and would switch back & forth from clit licking to tongue fucking.
Made her cum even harder and longer, and want it even more!
Good thing I'm easy!

You snooze....you lose! Took us over 5 years to figure it all out. Don't wait! You are missing some fun!
 
I guess thats the problem, she hasn't really said she wants me to do it. We did it the other night and I was pretty vocal about hinting about going down on her after words but she never really gave me any feedback or encouragement on it.
 
I guess thats the problem, she hasn't really said she wants me to do it. We did it the other night and I was pretty vocal about hinting about going down on her after words but she never really gave me any feedback or encouragement on it.

If you're waiting for her to give you some encouragement then remember that she's not a mind reader. She may not know what to say since it may be a new idea to her. If you've been vocal about it a few times already then she may just be waiting for you to do it if you're serious about it.

You can always ask her if she's up for giving it a try, or a good way to find out is to just start kissing your way towards downtown at the moment of truth while telling her how beautiful and sexy she is. My wife seems to prefer it when lead the way to new things rather than asking her. You know your lady best. She may be hesitant but at that point you should be able to read her body language and at least talk about it.
 
I guess thats the problem, she hasn't really said she wants me to do it. We did it the other night and I was pretty vocal about hinting about going down on her after words but she never really gave me any feedback or encouragement on it.

If you're waiting for her to give you some encouragement then remember that she's not a mind reader. She may not know what to say since it may be a new idea to her. If you've been vocal about it a few times already then she may just be waiting for you to do it if you're serious about it.

You can always ask her if she's up for giving it a try, or a good way to find out is to just start kissing your way towards downtown at the moment of truth while telling her how beautiful and sexy she is. My wife seems to prefer it when lead the way to new things rather than asking her. You know your lady best. She may be hesitant but at that point you should be able to read her body language and at least talk about it.


I agree with pplwatching. If you really want to try this, and she hasn't given you any indication ahead of time that she wants it, just start your way down her body after you've filled her up. If she questions what you're doing, and she likely will, don't tell her you're going to eat your cum. Just tell her you're going to lick her pussy. If she cites that you just came in it, tell her you don't mind, you just want to make her feel good. If she asks before or after if you're gay, assure her that you aren't, and that you just love her so much that you won't let a little cum get in the way of making her feel even better than you already have. Hopefully you won't have to convince her of anything, and that the convincing will all be done when you place your lips on her pretty creampied pussy.

Oh, and if she does let you get down there, be sure you give her an orgasm. That should be the clincher to her letting you do it again.
 
I first got a taste for my cum during solo sessions, I would taste myself almost every time. When I was younger, I went through the guilty feeling, am I weird etc. But as I got older, I decided, why the hell not. It is my body and I am going to enjoy it, ever since then it is so easy and guilt free to eat my cum.

Now, the first time with my wife. I came on her tits and then just licked one of her nipples clean, she enjoyed it but didn’t really comment. Since then I have progressed to licking my cum off her pussy too and she is really into it. I said I love licking my cum off you and she commented that she really enjoys it too. Maybe I am lucky, but give it a try.
 
I agree with pplwatching. If you really want to try this, and she hasn't given you any indication ahead of time that she wants it, just start your way down her body after you've filled her up. If she questions what you're doing, and she likely will, don't tell her you're going to eat your cum. Just tell her you're going to lick her pussy. If she cites that you just came in it, tell her you don't mind, you just want to make her feel good. If she asks before or after if you're gay, assure her that you aren't, and that you just love her so much that you won't let a little cum get in the way of making her feel even better than you already have. Hopefully you won't have to convince her of anything, and that the convincing will all be done when you place your lips on her pretty creampied pussy.

Oh, and if she does let you get down there, be sure you give her an orgasm. That should be the clincher to her letting you do it again.

Thanks for the advice. She won't question my sexuality. We both are bi, never had an experience, so that isn't an issue.
 
I guess thats the problem, she hasn't really said she wants me to do it. We did it the other night and I was pretty vocal about hinting about going down on her after words but she never really gave me any feedback or encouragement on it.

Don't wait for her to tell you, just do it!
 
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