My husband fantasises about sharing me and another woman, where I am clearly expected to be bi. But when it comes to mfm, it is as if this is a step too far for him to do bi-play with another man. Yet, he admits to being aroused by watching other men in videos like the one on this thread. Why are some men so lacking in adventure when it comes to their own sex?
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My husband fantasises about sharing me and another woman, where I am clearly expected to be bi. But when it comes to mfm, it is as if this is a step too far for him to do bi-play with another man. Yet, he admits to being aroused by watching other men in videos like the one on this thread. Why are some men so lacking in adventure when it comes to their own sex?
Ahh yes...the old male "double standard" where women are expected to want to be bi but not men...some guys are just like that...they see women as beautiful and recognize that women can appreciate other women's attributes and so it's an easy leap for them to make where as inherently they don't see attraction to men the same way...not agreeing with this philosophy, by the way, just explaining it...
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I have never much cared whether my MFM activities classified me as Bi, but this exchange has made me think about the various levels of Bi' ness (if I may invent a word) that I have observed / experienced. Of course my categories over generalize to some extent, but I think they are kind of representative at a high level.
From least to most Bi:
1. Guys really don't go near each other. She may play with or suck on one of them while the other is penetrating her. The men may swap positions but that is about it. They are not helping each other please her.
2. The guys help each other to please her, and get as close as needed to accomplish this goal, but are not having oral or anal sex with each other.
3. All out sharing, oral sex and penetration all around. Everyone giving and receiving from everyone is the objective.
4. The guys are the primary participants. She may be peripherally involved, not involved at all, and / or even directing traffic. She gets off seeing guys play and that is the fun for her. The guys mostly enjoy each other.
These categories can morph as well. I have a friend in NC who after the 1st time we played (#2 scenario) asked me to bring a guy that would play with me next time because she would get off on that. This wasn't straight up MFM because she likes to have 5 or 6 guys at the same time, but sort of fits the example.
Anyway, it is interesting to think of all the variations
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I really want to give it another go, but I'm struggling to find 2 acceptable guys in this town that a) I'm prepared to get that close to; b) are prepared to get that close to each other; and c) know what the hell they are doing.
Yes, that is a tough one. It is one of the reasons I like couples. We can meet in advance, get a feel for the various personalities, and share some experiences and desires. We're either a fit or not and the couple usually decides.
If I am trying to find guys for a GB I am in a similar situation as you. I work with the woman in question to understand what she wants and what her level of experience is. Then I try to find guys who are a good fit. It is a lot of work ! But ... well worth the investment when I see her thrashing and hear her moaning and screaming as it all cums together
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Because most men do not find it desirable to share a woman with another man. In fact, any man who does is unlikely to be truly a man. That is why they have to be motivated by a sexual urge for another man and usually a highly submissive streak.
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