The Gender Fuck

[spndrft]

Yeah, theirs a distinct difference between transvestites and transsexuals, being that for a transsexual, it's not a sexual interest as it is a gender identity issue. I've actually been really curious about this because their seems to a large number of people with a interest in broaching gender conformity which is awesome but I get frustrated sometimes with this. I've had a couple people talk with me and it becomes apparent that what they're looking for is a girl or boy to cross dress. I mean I can understand the kink but like if I look at myself, born genetically male yet see myself as female, theirs no special sexual thrill from going out dressed female or from wearing thongs or stalkings, it's just who I am..... now I also do drag king shows though and their IS a thrill in that.

So I guess that's a bit of a gender fuck, a MTF dragking.

I personally, have an inner bull dyke. It's ok - we like each other

which does not explain why I dress and act so incredibly girly when I go out to the local lesbian bar. I mean, styling my hair, wearing make up? really?

 

[marieR19]

I'm tired and half-asleep and don't really have anything to add to the discussion, but....

me all femmed-up and packing,

*drools* I think I'm going to be dreaming about that tonight!



Heather

 

[SirQittus]

One of my mild fantasies involves a cute little boy desperately trying to hold his skirt down as his erection pushes it up. Usually the boys in my fantasies are slaves/pets, which seems kind of unrealistic to me because I place so much emphasis on serious relationships. Still trying to work that one out in my head.

Your post reminded me of a friend (BDSM-minded pyl female) that told me how at a hypnosis stage show several years ago the hypnotist sent her back to her table with a suggestion that she'd grow an erect penis and the more she tried to hide/cover it, the bigger it would get. She said that she was desperately trying to cover it under her skirt and got quite upset about it before the hypnotist put her under again and made it go away.

I found her story kinda hot, though it was clear that even in retrospect she didn't.

 

[Harlet_Minx]

*begins singing to herself*

well I was bored with the lesbian scene
I told myself I gotta find another thing
so I strapped on my boots
and I walked down the street
and I rolled right in to the local d.k.b.
(drag king bar, that is)

when I walked in at quarter to eight
well I thought that I might be straight
at the drag kind bar last night
it's unlike me to look at boys
when the girls are packing toys
I can dig that scene all right

then across the bar
he played the air guitar
and mouthed those words real sexy
it was then that I surely knew
that this one would be a two
if I played my cards just right

well I was drunk and I was bored
and he was cute so I was lured
at the drag king bar last night
where all the boys are really girls
and the fags whip out their pearls
at the drag king bar last night


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r37YSHF2jXM (best version i could find but since this thread went up I've had this song stuck in my head)